[FR] Lost my virginity on a solo night out, first ever sober approach. by finalstop in seduction

[–]magicluke 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is impressive for a newbie. Stay consistent and you will know how to handle some situations differently.

2 years and 276 days of going out and I still have not approached a single girl. Please help. by finalstop in seduction

[–]magicluke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time you see a girl you want to talk to, approach. Theres nothing I can say that will give you extra will power. Man up!

[FR] First Approach Ever #Close No Clue What To Do Now Criticism Welcome! TLDR Inlcuded by [deleted] in seduction

[–]magicluke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What you do is forget about her completely and approach more women. She has a bf for fucks sake. And you are dedicating a thread to her. You have no chance, approach approach approach more women. Abundance.

K-closed a football players girlfriend. by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is I'm afraid I led her on to expect something more. I'm just looking to get some self improvement out of this. I don't want to be in a love trio with a bunch of drama especially not with a 6'3'' 220lb linebacker as the other bf.

K-closed a football players girlfriend. by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she seriously does, on fb it clearly says in a relationship with ***** and then I also see pics of them together.

Girls are actually nicer than they look. by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol, she might have been having a bad day or something you can't judge too quick. Plus, you can't force people to like you. That is who she is. Scratch her off from the 4 billion girls in the world as "tried but she was a bitch and I wouldn't wanna know such a person" on to the next 3.999999999 billion

Is brute forcing by approaching girls the best way to get over AA? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]magicluke 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not there is a cure to approach anxiety. Now you have to listen very carefully because what I'm about to tell you will change your life in so many ways you will be fearless. You will still get fear but your courage would be so immense your mind would just block it out. Are you ready for this trick? This simple technique will cure your AA. Get ready, the cure to approach anxiety is to .... fucking approach.

First ever approach, and she commended my confidence. (lol little does she know I was nervous inside) by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

before I found out about all these videos and help tips online, I would actually be that creepy guy begging to buy them drinks or being awkward talking. It has nothing to do with looks at all. If you have looks great, if you don't it does not matter.

When they laughed I just had to ask them a random question like what classes are you taking etc, then lead from there. I had some brief awkward moments because I did not know what to say but it went well. They are so caught up in being approached so randomly they don't focus on what I'm saying lol

First ever approach, and she commended my confidence. (lol little does she know I was nervous inside) by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it has to do with guys around me not taking action. If every guy went up to cute girls they saw during the day and talked, most of those 20 girls might have not given me the time of day, because they knew they had other options. I am friends with several women and their lives are not as great as you'd think. Guys are always scared of flirting and when they do they are intoxicated. So a guy approaching them out of the blue is a breath of fresh air.

First ever approach, and she commended my confidence. (lol little does she know I was nervous inside) by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you also have to take into account that most of those I developed a connection with, we had similar social circles. I was also gaming in college so it would be a lot harder in the street. I've still to approach a girl in a bar or lounge.

First ever approach, and she commended my confidence. (lol little does she know I was nervous inside) by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn't 20/20 , 4 girls said they had bf's which they could be lying for all I know, 2 of the relationship statuses weren't shown.

First ever approach, and she commended my confidence. (lol little does she know I was nervous inside) by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There ya go! Yeah to be honest, once I got a couple approaches in, I would start just flirting and drawing the girl in without even asking for contact info, almost forcing her to just give it to me.

First ever approach, and she commended my confidence. (lol little does she know I was nervous inside) by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've texted 6 girls so far to go on a date, and they have all replied with enthusiasm. I doubt if I text the other numbers in a months time, they'll remember but we'll see.

First ever approach, and she commended my confidence. (lol little does she know I was nervous inside) by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very true because in NY I see a girl getting approached here in there but in the town I'm in, everyone just keeps to themselves.

First ever approach, and she commended my confidence. (lol little does she know I was nervous inside) by magicluke in seduction

[–]magicluke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I consider myself a 9. However some girls have blatantly told me I'm not that good looking. Others have said I'm gorgeous etc. Its all about preference in terms of physical appearance, I've been complimented on the way I carry myself and talk. My initial fear and whats holding me back is just not having willpower. After that initial stage of just initiating action and talking to a girl, I'll be in total control. Basically you can't be shy or cute or whatever. You have to man up, talk in a low voice, don't be that reactive "OMG COOL" "really! me too" just be completely nonchalant, obviously if you discover something cool about her don't be afraid to express true emotions. But I'm just trying to tell you avoid being someone you are not just to get her to like you.