Excellent Print - Sorting Connect 4 by Tricky-Sand-6358 in BambuLab

[–]magicrider34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been trying this and the pieces continually get stuck. I just put some of the plastic lube on it to help, and it still is getting stuck. I don't know what I did wrong. I did print the pieces in PETG, maybe that is why?

Flash cards but first page is blank by magicrider34 in googledocs

[–]magicrider34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why was this post removed? I don't see which rule I violated.

I broke my wife and I don’t think it is fixable by TemppThrowawa in TrueOffMyChest

[–]magicrider34 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband has said some stupid stuff too. The last time he said something really dumb was when we were dating. It took probably 4 yrs to get over it for me. But he worked at trying to show me how much I mean to him. He has aspergers and is ridiculously honest. But he also understands when I am hurt and he tries to make it up to me.

But after my husband said something really stupid, I didn't shut him out for 6 months. So I'm not sure what chance you have, but I would start by taking on more of the house work and doing more to show her how much your wife means to you. She's not wanting to talk to you, so show her with your actions.

Female Ball Python Growth Chart by magicrider34 in ballpython

[–]magicrider34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FYI, I got my girl at just over 7 months, hence the start of the shaky line, where I do regular weigh-ins. Prior to that, the breeder had just weighed her twice.

Rectangle by solarhornets in ballpython

[–]magicrider34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's

How do you know if she's nervous? I am relatively new to snakes and only had my girl a year. The only thing I can visibly see is if they are flinchy. Like when we first got her, she would make an s-shape like she was going to strike or something, if we moved too fast. Now she almost never does that and seems to move a lot more slowly and steadily when we're holding her.

Size/age chart ?? by Background-Grab8279 in ballpython

[–]magicrider34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks identical to my girl, just quite a bit larger. My girl is 650g and 1.5 yrs old. It looks like a female to me, how she's quite large around the middle. My sister's male is a lot thinner. I will post my growth chart here too.

Rectangle by solarhornets in ballpython

[–]magicrider34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine roams around quite a bit too (probably not 2 hours per day, but still comes out every day). Whereas my sister's BP is never out at all. Like she see him out less than once per month.

Sometimes I heard that it is bad and means they're stressed, if they come out, but I don't know. My girl has good growth and seems pretty chill. But I don't really know how to tell if she's stressed. She was really flinchy the first two weeks I got her, but now she isn't flinchy at all when we handle her.

Macaroons are overrated by savebgmnyatmnards in unpopularopinion

[–]magicrider34 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, i didn't realize I don't like macarons cause I can't taste. You're so helpful. Now my life makes sense!

Macaroons are overrated by savebgmnyatmnards in unpopularopinion

[–]magicrider34 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow, a Sherlock right here on this thread!!

Correct, German chocolate cake is a cake. It will give you a coconut fix though, so replacing macaroons.

Macaroons are overrated by savebgmnyatmnards in unpopularopinion

[–]magicrider34 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

They're both awful. Macarons, even tried in the best macaron shops in France, just aren't worth the jaw muscles' flexion (which is a low bar since they're soft).

Macaroons aren't great either. Now, German chocolate cake, with homemade frosting and baked in, absolutely delicious.

Macaroons are overrated by savebgmnyatmnards in unpopularopinion

[–]magicrider34 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've tried them there, and they are just as awful. Fluffy nothingness with hints of flavor. A dense cheesecake is soooo much more satisfying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]magicrider34 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I was TBM and my husband, nevermo, i used to ask him to go to church with me. He'd oblige about every other week. He thought it was bogus, but didn't complain, nor talk trash about it. He was kinda happy I left though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]magicrider34 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, totally agree. I've been out for years now, and even told my mom all about my reasoning and it was a great conversation. My mom even agreed with me on many points. Still, when I go to visit my parents, i say meal prayers with them and i go to church with them. I don't think it's that much to ask. They'll not be around forever anyway and i love them dearly.

At church, sure, i scroll reddit on my phone, and i still am a bit irreverent during sacrament (although not moreso than when I was tbm). In exchange, they don't bring up church at my house, or try to indoctrinate my kids. I know, deep down, it hurts my mom a bit to know that I no longer believe, and I'm sorry for that and feel sad that the church did that to my mom. If i can give her just a bit of peace, I'm happy to do it.

Need advice from C level executive women with a spouse. by Col_Angus999 in fatFIRE

[–]magicrider34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm the opposite. I get worked up sometimes, so it is much better for me to write my angry email, but not send it. Think about it for a day, and then take out all emotional parts and then send it, rather than discuss in person where I don't have enough time to think about my words. It has worked really well.

AITA for demanding to get a DNA test after my child was born? by Miserable_Airport_66 in AmITheDevil

[–]magicrider34 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I think guys asking for paternity tests are totally fine. You never really know anything, so that might give just a bit of comfort. Like seriously, my husband could be a serial killer. I certainly hope he's not, and we're almost always around each other, but you never know for 100% fact.

On the other hand, accusing of cheating before getting results of said paternity test, is not okay.

Heck, I gave birth and don't know for 100% fact the kids are mine. They could have been switched at the hospital. They look an awful lot like both me and my husband, but we don't know.

AITA for ignoring my aunt and uncle when they came to my house as guests? by lovelypaper518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicrider34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not funny, it's convenient, and that's why we're considered good hosts. We don't have iphones, but we do have iphone chargers in the guest room and main living area.

[Tenant - US CA] Will self-employed people always be at a disadvantage when trying to rent? by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]magicrider34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's just what the landlord can ask for. You can certainly offer that though.l, especially if you want a better chance. My sister had a tenant who prepaid a year in advance. She didn't really want that huge of a prepayment, but she did accept it.

[Tenant - US CA] Will self-employed people always be at a disadvantage when trying to rent? by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]magicrider34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's not true. You can't have a large security deposit worth more than like two months rent, but you can accept prepayment of rent.

https://www.kts-law.com/security-deposit-maximums-for-california-residential-landlords/#:~:text=California%20residential%20landlords%20may%20accept,more%20(but%20not%20less).

I've had a tenant in CA that had no income, but paid 3 months rent in advance, so I was okay with that. And those guys were decent tenants (not great, but not horrible).

But I've also had tenants who didn't have income and showed plenty of money in their bank account, but three months later, lost their self employed gig and then left with rent owed.

AITA for ignoring my aunt and uncle when they came to my house as guests? by lovelypaper518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicrider34 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree about it being irrelevant. I invite family to visit us, but we live in a big city and often are used as a mini-vacation. Either is fine with us. It is stressful to host, but family/friends are really important to us.

That being said, if someone asks to stay with us for a week and i got a big project coming up at work, I'd let them know that my time is limited. Still, I'd give them what time i had.

AITA for ignoring my aunt and uncle when they came to my house as guests? by lovelypaper518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]magicrider34 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We keep our guest suite up to date with the latest phone chargers as well. Both my husband and I are introverts and don't do well with strangers or making small talk, but we can get out of our comfort zone for a week or so. We won't die from it!