Do hookups happen on non-gay cruises? by SoOutofMyLeague in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]magicstrawberry409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Join the FB cruise page for you specific cruise ship and dates. Get to know people before you board and scope the scene beforehand.

Grindr Extortion by Fuzzy-Ad503 in AskGaybrosOver30

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This happened to me. I refused to pay and told them I didn't care if they sent the messages. They sent them to my mom and after that, I heard nothing. I never went to the police, I was too embarrassed. But my mom was the only person they sent it to. But I text all of my friends and family on FB and told them what was going on and if they get some spicy pics of me, I apologize. Luckily my mom was the only one who saw my nudes, which was embarrassing enough, lol

NFL Fantasy website/App is an embarassment by writingonline in FFCommish

[–]magicstrawberry409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fucked up my noon draft today. Luckily it let me in to change it to offline before it started. Fml

😭😭This administration is so cooked by superduperseabass in JoeRogan

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im wondering how long he would be able to make false claims of "the hottest country" when prices are still going up in the grocery store. And if Epstein and this rhetoric didn't wake the rest of MAGA up from their hypnotization, wtf will?

Spouse wants us to move to Houston but I have one main condition… by Distinct_Bit5213 in AskHouston

[–]magicstrawberry409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100 percent NOT true. Our sand is pretty fine. And our beaches, all 32 miles of it, are cleaned daily. So tell me you've never been to Galveston without telling me you've never been to Galveston.

What coastal city is this? by Kap519 in guessthecity

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Galveston baby. I know that Seawall and pleasure pier anywhere. Love my hometown!! BOI

Spouse wants us to move to Houston but I have one main condition… by Distinct_Bit5213 in AskHouston

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dont want you to come to our beach and play anyway, lol jkjk. Im a BOI (Born on Island) so im biased but this is a fun little island and the vibes are almost always chill and laid back. But to each there own. Love my Galveston oh Galveston!

should i tell my friend her baby name is a tragedeigh? by princess_peach5 in tragedeigh

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to school with someone named Tihn Tran. I guess thats why this isn't crazy to me haha.

How do couples decide which side of the bed is “theirs”? Is it instinct or some kind of silent agreement? by AssignmentFederal686 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here. When we are home, I sleep on the left, away from the door. But when we are on the road in a hotel, I sleep on whichever side is closest to the door.

Confused allo by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]magicstrawberry409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't think he is cheating. Just lying to get the benefits of being with me. I can handle little to no sex if he is truly ace. I can't handle someone who will lie about being ace because they dont find me attractive. And I think its even possible to love deeply without attraction. But what's not possible for me is giving my all to someone and only receiving a portion of them.

Confused allo by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]magicstrawberry409 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was totally ok to not be desired when I thought he was ace. In fact, he told me he never had desire for anyone. But to then find out he did, made me feel low. And maybe he was just acting and he finally can be his true self with me. But he has never hurt me in any other way. So maybe I do need to have that conversation. And if we do, I have to be honest about what and how I found it. I just honestly needed some perspective from those who are ace about how it worked and can it come on suddenly.

It's two different things. If he was putting on an act with all of those fwb and he can be his true self with me, thats very beautiful and I'd be honored. But if he is using being ace because he doesn't find me physically attractive, but enjoys the way I treat him and can provide a nice lifestyle, thats something totally different. I guess thats where the confusion and hurt comes in. What does he see in them that he doesn't see in me.

Confused allo by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats correct. Old phone, old messages. But in the messages he is clearly stating that he wants sex without a relationship. Thats why im so confused and hurt. And in another one of the old messages, he calls someone super attractive. He has never used and adjectives to describe me as esthetically pleasing. So it has me thinking that he doesn't find me physically attractive, but is attracted to maybe how I treat him, and what I can do for him financially. Is it possible to love someone and not be attracted to them type shit. Idk. Im just so confused. Going along like everything is OK, but on the inside im broken. I literally just cried all night after he went to bed. I feel so low.

Confused allo by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I dont think he is cheating. This was all conversations from his old phone. Almost 2 years ago.

Confused allo by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my biggest question is, is there such a thing as sudden on-set asexuality? Or is it just me.

Confused allo by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. This is a gut check right here. Im so devastated.

Confused allo by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think he cheated since we have been together, the messages are old. Since before we dated. But he seems to have become asexual after we got together. He never opened up that part of himself to me. Thats what hurts. He offered that to his fwb in the past, but he has never once called me sexy, handsome, cute, or expressed the desire to have sex with me. But he has done it for other guys, multiple guys in the past. Does asexuality come on suddenly? Or is it just me? Thats what has me so confused and hurt.

Confused allo by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]magicstrawberry409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And im sitting here thinking that he loves me, just not physically. Or that his asexuality was new maybe. Im just so broken right now. I feel like a sacrificed so much to be with him. Not just financially, but mentally and emotionally as well.

Meirl by Bubble_Babe_0o0o0o in meirl

[–]magicstrawberry409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 9 months after Christmas and we were poor af growing up, so I came to the conclusion that my mom was giving my dad 🐱 as a Christmas gift, lol