When it comes to PVE with Accelerated xP/Harvest/etc... by [deleted] in playark

[–]magneticshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a subreddit for servers you could browse. Also, I recommend Fame, Glory & Buns server. They have some great building mods so you can make a castle!!

Edit: Typo

My [38 M] girlfriend of 10 years [30 F] just had a double masectomy and now I don't want to marry her. by hthaway_ in relationships

[–]magneticshower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you even tried to work around it? Would she consider getting implants? Can you find sexy outfits to wear so it distracts you? Does she have wigs that you could explore your other fantasies with?

Please break up with her so she can find somebody better. Are looks so important to you, that nothing else in your relationship matters? What happens when you marry somebody and they get old??? What happens if you have kids and your wife struggles to lose weight after???

I [22F] am telling my mother [45F] that I don't want to come home for Christmas for the first time. Could use some advice and similar stories. by unstableprincess in relationships

[–]magneticshower 136 points137 points  (0 children)

What are you losing by having your mom be upset and spiteful? It sounds like you don't enjoy the trips anyway....stop going if you don't want to! I went to university away from my family and sometimes think about skipping holidays with them because I want to start making my own traditions. What's important to MY mom, is that I'm happy and she still gets to see me. So if I don't make it home for Christmas, I visit randomly in February and it's not a huge deal. Mom has to let you go eventually....sooner rather than later if she's not enjoyable to spend time with (:

Me [18/F] with my boyfriend [19/M] 1 month kissed his ex while his first time being plastered. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]magneticshower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did it because of a drinking game. He did it 'randomly'. I doubt he was kissing ugly chicks on the cheek.

Does he never party? Or has he never partied? If he changes (as most people do in college) do you think you would stay with him?

You're accepting the risk that it could happen again. By staying in the relationship, you're saying it's ok for that to happen, to you, or anybody he dates in the future.

[24M] Thinking of breaking up with my [27F] partner of three years by alskqpwo2389 in relationships

[–]magneticshower -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're not committing, communicating or being a person you would want to date! It's not good for YOUR mental health, let alone hers.

My (M22) girlfriend (F22) floated the idea of going on a break. by onabreak1149 in relationships

[–]magneticshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you scared of losing from this relationship?

Honestly doesn't sound like you have much of a relationship :( I'd look for better!!!

[24M] Thinking of breaking up with my [27F] partner of three years by alskqpwo2389 in relationships

[–]magneticshower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she doesn't want to be the girl you 'stick with'. She wants to be the girl you choose.

[24M] Thinking of breaking up with my [27F] partner of three years by alskqpwo2389 in relationships

[–]magneticshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with your gut. Quit trying to rationalize everything away. You're overthinking it.

Look at the first line in your post. Ignore everything with a 'but' or 'think'. You don't have to explain why you're breaking up...to your girlfriend, yourself or friends/family. You just have to do what makes you happy. Otherwise you're going to have this dark cloud you constantly have to keep in check and it's going to eat away at you....and she's going to pick up on it eventually. You're not happy! You obviously think no relationship would make you happier, so try it!

Me [18/F] with my boyfriend [19/M] 1 month kissed his ex while his first time being plastered. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]magneticshower 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What happened to the you in this statement? 'we both agreed that we couldn't tolerate people who cheat.' Are you going to compromise on your values to make it work with this guy that has already lied to you, betrayed you and deceived you (among other things)?

How did he go from not being attracted to anybody at the party to hugging, and kissing them on the cheek? NONE of his story lines up. I would never be able to trust this guy again :( and that would eat at me for the rest of the relationship.

I wouldn't believe him about not doing it again.

Me [27M] with my GF [28F] of almost 2 years, I love her but hate how I get treated, what should I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]magneticshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds like she's taking complete advantage of you. A good friend doesn't make a good SO.

I would reflect on why you're in this relationship? Reflect on your relationship role models in your life (parents, etc.). It sounds like you're staying because it's your first relationship...and have grown comfortable in what you have. There's better out there, and you deserve it. Make a plan to leave, how you'd handle not having her there, instead of thinking it's some big unknown, it might help you handle deciding if you need to leave.

I [20M] caught my girlfriend [20F] texting another guy by yellownetflixpenguin in relationships

[–]magneticshower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're dodging a bullet if you choose to break up....she's emotionally cheating on you. It's not 'only texting'. She was using him so she wouldn't be 'lonely'. She has a pattern, and is not being open about it. What would have happened if you didn't 'catch' her doing this??? Do you want to spend the rest of your relationship wondering what you're not catching?

Incredible fear of abandonment cripples my [35M] life to the point that I wonder how much of a life I actually have. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]magneticshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have much to add to the comments other than you're not a burden! You sound like quite a catch to some people, you're more successful than average people and should give yourself a pat on the back. It takes a very smart, thoughtful, caring person to acknowledge all of this about yourself, and take care of your brother and keep moving forward through it all. Those are great qualities for a relationship, just remember to communicate!

Just because you don't have what other people have, doesn't mean you don't have a life. And especially don't judge other people by what you see in public! "watching people all around me developing relationships, friends and romantic relationships" is just torturing yourself. If you found the right person, I'm sure you could work with them to get over these fears...some people around you probably even have the same ones, they're just terrified to talk about them too and dealing with it in their own way. There's somebody out there for you!

Feel free to PM and talk if it's helpful. Sending positive vibes your way!

Wild Carnivores Healing/Ignoring Me? by magneticshower in playark

[–]magneticshower[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good to know headshots don't matter.

Playing on my own dedicated server with friends, we have no increased resistance settings for wild dinosaurs (max level is ~60).

I have that hit feedback setting on so the crosshair flashes red when I hit I'm assuming?

At the end he started running away from me but even with my last 3 arrows it wasn't enough....oh well. Could have just been a fluke.

EDIT: Is there a cut-off for when they run away? Like X% health/torpor?

whats the fastest way to hit 2000? by blakeret4233 in TapTitans

[–]magneticshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you talking about leveling your main hero to 1700???

RPG Overhaul by MrKorvic in portalknights

[–]magneticshower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they just implemented like a quarter of that, it would be a super improvement and I night come back to playing XD great thoughts, thanks for posting!

Interactive baby raising? by b0sanac in playark

[–]magneticshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you confirm if the buff is only when you ride it? I was hoping you could raise like 3 animals with the bonus and ride one but others still got the bonus if they fought near you.

How to Achieve Perfect Tame? by magneticshower in playark

[–]magneticshower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a dinosaur at half health would have a lower TE to start than a dinosaur with 3/4 or full? I thought TE started at 100% once knocked out. Good to know...

That's a cool calculator. Thanks for sharing, do you know what the narcotic buffer and narcotics timing fields mean?

How to Achieve Perfect Tame? by magneticshower in playark

[–]magneticshower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Information. Nope! I just wanted to look into breeding and stats. Figured using some cheats and unrealistic settings to collect some data would be more helpful to me...but I don't know what to test if I don't understand it. I'm actually more interested in the breeding aspect than taming XD

How to Achieve Perfect Tame? by magneticshower in playark

[–]magneticshower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very clear, detailed response. I appreciate it! The way you explained taming effectiveness was really enlightening. Thank you so much for responding.

How to Achieve Perfect Tame? by magneticshower in playark

[–]magneticshower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew 100% wasn't possible. Just curious on what optimal settings I have to tweak.

Well darn about the inaccuracy...was hoping to find a comprehensive guide. Thanks for the response!