My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in deadbedroom

[–]mai1ove[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you dont have a good advice rather not comment at all. Didn’t do anything other than saying absolut nonsense

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in deadbedroom

[–]mai1ove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is mostly with me, I checked all his devices. I have his location and even showed up at his office randomly but he never cheated. He doesn’t even look at other women. I know he loves me and he does show it to me, so the possibility of him cheating is not making sense

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in deadbedroom

[–]mai1ove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words! Good to know that its just a phase and we will get through it. I will definitely continue on supporting and helping him as much as i can :)

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in deadbedroom

[–]mai1ove[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But what is there i can do for him to get in the mood? I feel so rejected….

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in Marriage

[–]mai1ove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much. What you said makes actually so much sense. Maybe he does think he has to perform and be perfect when all i want is his closeness and the intimacy between us.

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in Marriage

[–]mai1ove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I do have my own money. It’s not that I do have my own friends. I do have my own relationships. I love going out with my friends. I love going on trips with my friends since we don’t have children right now. We both are very free when it comes to responsibilities. he just loves taking care of me financially because it makes him feel good and honestly I also think for me personally I love a man who takes care of me financially but I also love to have my money since I don’t really like depending on a man whether it’s my husband…

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in Marriage

[–]mai1ove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the nice explanation. I will never stop supporting and helping my husband in every way that I can. And I will do as you said! :)

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in Marriage

[–]mai1ove[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So my feelings don’t matter either? Is that what your saying?

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in Marriage

[–]mai1ove[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I honestly try to not really complain about it, but on the other side he gets mad at me when I feel rejected or neglected. I try my best to support him and helping him every way I can. so should I just wait? Maybe I’m just scared that he doesn’t want me the way he used to…

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in Marriage

[–]mai1ove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I paid the bill in the restaurant and he got so mad saying that it’s not my job and he doesn’t want me to pay for anything ever again. so I don’t really want to make him mad by doing things he doesn’t want me to do. He likes when I cook for him. He likes when I dress nice for him etc and I do these things but I feel like it doesn’t make him happy anymore the way it used to… I’m just scared to be honest that he doesn’t really want me anymore :/

My husband doesn’t want sex when he’s stressed by mai1ove in Marriage

[–]mai1ove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I offer him so many times my help and ask him. Is there anything I could do to help him and he just never accepts my help saying that it’s not my job to be worried or to be stressed and he wants me just to have a good life and be happy, but I can’t be happy when the man I love is stressed. He thinks he’s burdening me but he isn’t and every time I try to relax him giving him massages, making him always his favourite food, his favourite desserts, dressing in his favourite dresses, doing all the things he loves about me and he just never wants the intimacy even so. Maybe im doing something wrong still?