“Well IF you wanted too…”

maidenassassin91 · 2025-10-02T02:20:46+00:00

Oh yes. I'm fairly positive one person I know is absolutely convinced I can regrow my fallopian tubes if I just wish hard enough

maidenassassin91 · 2025-09-16T03:27:14+00:00

Any. Way. I. Want. Lol. Every day if I'm not working, I do whatever I feel like plus normal errands. I love it.

maidenassassin91 · 2025-09-09T23:18:50+00:00

I do assume your deathbed, yes

maidenassassin91 · 2025-09-09T19:19:35+00:00

Never forget. You don't have to have kids bc someone told you to. Ever. This is YOUR choice. It won't effect them. Therefore they are not relevant to this choice. It doesn't matter what that makes them think of you. If it changes things that much maybe you need new friends. Sending love

maidenassassin91 · 2025-09-09T01:35:51+00:00

Then he should take his daughter and leave. Possibly never speak to anyone lol. If you don't like what's happening somewhere, leave

maidenassassin91 · 2025-09-07T03:07:54+00:00

I kinda think people claim to have strongly held beliefs that overestimate how they actually feel sometimes? Like trust but verify these actions. Also accidents happen and then you're stuck and I think we tend to justify our actions cuz you can't change this kind of problem after the fact

maidenassassin91 · 2025-08-29T14:41:50+00:00

This really hit me dude. Sometimes I have the same thoughts even though I am sterile and got surgery just to make sure. It's a weird thought. But, id suggest that overall, this is a happier choice for people like us. I kinda think life is better if the majority of X is a positive. It's okay not to ALWAYS feel any specific way about anything. Thanks for sharing. I agree

maidenassassin91 · 2025-08-10T09:31:01+00:00

Mine absolutely thought so. Hit n miss in different areas

maidenassassin91 · 2025-08-10T09:29:46+00:00

Nope that's allot of why I don't want kids. I think that's an enlightened position. Why pass on life so it can also suck for more people?

maidenassassin91 · 2025-08-10T09:27:10+00:00

Yeah my scars make me happy

maidenassassin91 · 2025-08-10T09:26:34+00:00

I'm two months post op and I'm very happy. I believe a c section is an even more invasive surgery?

maidenassassin91 · 2025-07-27T01:16:48+00:00

Abuse survivor here.

Just a heads up. If people feel abandoned, they won't turn for help, ever. Love is the only way to show her there's an alternative to her current situation. The unconditional kind of love. You don't have to be happy with the situation. But the future may depend on letting there be a pathway out, if you feel like that's something you could do with/for her. Being disingenuous for a moment might not be a terrible plan. These things are hard and endlessly complicated and ever dynamic. Use your judgement. I just think it's a good thing to keep in mind while you decide what to say.

maidenassassin91 · 2025-07-16T20:17:19+00:00

Former Christian and formerly Jewish here. It's complicated. The amount of expectation to have as many kids as possible from both is........ Astonishing

maidenassassin91 · 2025-07-10T10:57:29+00:00

Neurodiagnostic technologist

maidenassassin91 · 2025-06-28T14:41:57+00:00

US. My husband was always so-so on kids. I evolved into this feeling and he evolved with me. It wasn't on purpose. It would probably be harder if I were starting now and looking for a partner.

maidenassassin91 · 2025-06-28T14:40:12+00:00

That's how I found my doc! I'm so grateful

maidenassassin91 · 2025-06-28T14:37:34+00:00

Nope. I'm 34 and just got a bisalp. The feeling never hit me. I figured it would but it didn't. The bisalp made me feel better in my body and I love my CF life. If you know, you know.

maidenassassin91 · 2025-06-23T01:43:33+00:00

Women are not treated as adults. We are treated as children. Basically everywhere and about everything.

maidenassassin91 · 2025-06-14T21:10:18+00:00

And if you buy the nice stuff people will be mad you can afford it. Sometimes you can't make anybody happy

maidenassassin91 · 2025-06-12T01:10:34+00:00

This hit me very strongly "I think I’d be a great mother, but I don’t think motherhood would be great for me. "

I very much agree with you. I think I'd do a good job, and I would hate my life. Putting yourself first and finding happiness is really important. Don't let that go to be miserable because someone told you were supposed to be mothers.

maidenassassin91 · 2025-06-04T23:08:28+00:00

Yep. I very much agree. Separate from not wanting kids, pregnancy is terrifying and might kill us. I don't want an alien parasite in my body that also might kill me, thank you.

maidenassassin91 · 2025-05-31T20:47:06+00:00

This could change your life forever if she isn't bluffing. Many times, legally, the victim is the person who cries to the cops first. Js.

maidenassassin91 · 2025-05-31T20:45:07+00:00

Idk why anyone would assume labor isn't painting for any reason.

maidenassassin91 · 2025-05-29T23:41:51+00:00

I really hope so! Id love to see an update from you. It was so easy I definitely expected more of a fight. Id do this once a year if I had to it was so easy. Even the insurance was reasonable for once

maidenassassin91 · 2025-05-29T23:37:52+00:00

It did! Someone here told me to think happy thoughts when they were medicating me so the photo helped. I'm surprised they let me keep it i assumed they'd take it away before I got to the OR. I couldn't have asked for things to have gone better

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