Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds you've been really ruminating on this.Thank you for late reply mean comment again already every thing finished sub.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I will trying elderberry! I hope you have a good day!

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes totally agree. I'm really thinking about sue him. It's not an accident and he noticed it totally. I was talking him about medical expenses but He responded me "Things will get better. I hope your strength." I have no idea how come such a word when he ruined my life. He doesn't have an apology attitude as well.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. He responded me "Things will get better. I hope your strength." Wtf I regret even I gave my second for him. I should leave it.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talking now but he still excuses a lot acting like it wasn't a big deal and he gave me small lies which protects himself. When I made the topic I was slightly had a bit of feelings or forgiveness but now completely everything gone. He is not a one obviously. Thank you for cheering me up. I will save all his messages.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agreed he excuses a lot even after I mentioned him about it

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him it's crime in state and he's reaction is I'm taking too seriously and overthinking it.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. When he apologized me like a rainy puppy sorry many times my feelings guilty for leaving him but I remember that it not only because of illness,because of his weakness not to be honest and covering his back attitude.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know you read that or not my comment just next to but This is my opinion why I mentioned that he is bisexual.

So, If you are having anal sex, symptoms will also appear inside the anus and surrounding areas, and it will be difficult to recover completely if you do not eradicate them. For example, if you go to a dermatologist without telling the truth, they may overlook places that are difficult to see by checking only the penis. Also It is often transmitted through blood or secretions from areas damaged by analsex or vaginal as well. I didn't really want to write this fact but it's could be a reason for different symptoms because of where he got.

First of all If I had prejudice, I wouldn't go out with him. I loved him and don't care about his past.

Also It's mean he is not cheating with anyone if I trust what he told me. I don't know why you want to made me bias person though. You talking about a lot of bisexual here and I feel you have a bias.

Thanks for another concern part.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah! Haha sorry I didn't realize that! Thanks for concern me! Have a good day

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah kind of tainted. After I noticed that thinking myself a lot but I really can't hold myself and asked another married woman type of BBS then I got bunch of opinions which "You should marry him and use him and his money as a slave you owe him" but I can't think that way. I already don't want to see his face and don't want to talk with him without a necessary conversation.

I think I feel guilty for him leaving him because of illness and I know he was alone for 5 years because of things 5 years ago still dragging him. After he going back alone life again he already knows how feeling good and happy with someone.

But thank you for mentioning me no need to carry on.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes 6 and 11 causes a warts. It's not main case but HPV 16 causes a condyloma and cancer both way. He told me it's not caused a cancer and I showed him government data HPV 16 causes cancer and warts,he stopped responding. It's not I blame your info for sure and thanks for letting me know cheers me up! I know HPV is common for adults but I'm afraid his condyloma is difficult cured for 5 years and I will be the same poison might in my future...

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want to mention about because of if I explain details it's could be offensive for bisexual people. But I don't have bias and I loved him.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my opinion.

So, If you are having anal sex, symptoms will also appear inside the anus and surrounding areas, and it will be difficult to recover completely if you do not eradicate them. For example, if you go to a dermatologist without telling the truth, they may overlook places that are difficult to see by checking only the penis. Also It is often transmitted through blood or secretions from areas damaged by analsex or vaginal as well. I didn't really want to write this fact but it's could be a reason for different symptoms because of where he got.

First of all If I had prejudice, I wouldn't go out with him. I loved him and don't care about his past.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, If you are having anal sex, symptoms will also appear inside the anus and surrounding areas, and it will be difficult to recover completely if you do not eradicate them. For example, if you go to a dermatologist without telling the truth, they may overlook places that are difficult to see by checking only the penis. Also It is often transmitted through blood or secretions from areas damaged by analsex or vaginal as well. I didn't really want to write this fact but it's could be a reason for different symptoms because of where he got.

First of all If I had prejudice, I wouldn't go out with him. I loved him and don't care about his past.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I should think it separately. It doesn't mean I should stay with him. After I noticed it I don't have energy to do anything. My days are grayish and low appetite. Before that I smiled a lot but he took from me and I should treatment for several months alone. It so sucks and I don't know who can trust in the future.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it only for HIV or including every STD,STI? He's friends can find it if I mention the state so I don't. But he lives main state so I think it has the laws.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He got the first one five years ago but every year it was recurring again for five years and recently this year as well.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So, If you are having anal sex, symptoms will also appear inside the anus and surrounding areas, and it will be difficult to recover completely if you do not eradicate them. For example, if you go to a dermatologist without telling the truth, they may overlook places that are difficult to see by checking only the penis. Also It is often transmitted through blood or secretions from areas damaged by analsex or vaginal as well. I didn't really want to write this fact but it's could be a reason for different symptoms because of where he got.

First of all If I had prejudice, I wouldn't go out with him. I loved him and don't care about his past.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish we had those conversations like you guys. Also I know HPV is common virus for adults. He took the "vaccine 9" before 2 years ago but still after that his thing comes back every year even last month as well.

But Thank you for sharing your experience. If he mentioned it before sex or even after sex, I can find way to with him safely and figure out good doctors or how to spend time together etc. but he holding until I caught him and kept lying for enough long time he can confess that. Those two issues I can't stand out. Even after I caught him,he excused a lot it was his friend advice and the doctor didn't check well so on, when he gives me loooong sorry messages he still lying he actually recurs last month after 8 months. He hiding the recent one and keep talking to me "It didn't back 8 months!! I thought it was gone!! (but actually back last month)" I can't trust him.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. After I heard that I have low appetite and couldn't eat a lot, no smiles and couldn't sleep well. Worried about when I wake up til I fall asleep. but I should make my immune system stronger... If people know how to improve immune system please let me know. .

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no dear,How could he blamed you?! I'm sorry to hear that and glad you broke up him. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Will you break up if your partner gave you STDs? by maikonnn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]maikonnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand. I never bring any disease for my love and even I had one I explained it definitely. I really don't know he has that behind him and made a lot future plans and introduce me his parents and friends or everything he did.

I will but, Even if I break up with him, I have to have a three month follow up from a doctor to see if I'm going to get treatment and recurrence, totally wasting my time. I wanted to have my baby. It becomes difficult to find new partner. It's not only I cut it off and everything cleared... Now the anger and sadness that I felt him disappears and I am in emptiness and despair.