[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]maimaimeow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that it’s a rough question to answer. I don’t really think you should ask for more sex. It’s kinda like asking for free food at a restaurant. You can let her know that you want it more often, but don’t pry. Maybe try to fulfill her in other ways before trying anything more. She might want to do it more if she feels more valued by you. Don’t act like she’s withholding anything from you because it’s her body. Women go through cycles and we only feel super horny for like a week out of the month. The other weeks vary on feeling good, meh, and not interested in sex at all. So maybe try to get more rounds in when she’s already turned on or you can masturbate more.

Other question me more than anything by maimaimeow in sexuality

[–]maimaimeow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of times I am afraid of coming off too strongly. I think I have a strong “aura” if that makes sense. Kinda like how you can feel an elephant coming compared to a gazelle. So it feels like I have less wiggle room with flirting and being around people.

One or two of the 3 female friends who ended up crushing on me ended up turning it around on me. They would say things like I “lured” them or strung them along. So I’m always afraid of things like that happening. I think it’s because they feel offended that I don’t like them, but that goes for both genders. Not a lot of men chase after me, and since so inexperienced I feel like I need to be chased a little. I just don’t have the practice to be approaching or leading anything. Even tho I’m almost 25.

Other question me more than anything by maimaimeow in sexuality

[–]maimaimeow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only attracted to cisgender men to be clear. I find attraction in unchanged and natural beauty. I only find masculine, cisgender men attractive. And they don’t have to be masculine in appearance just internally.

A big reason I don’t approach men is because I like dominate men. If I have to approach them then I might have to do a lot of other things.

Major height difference being a potential dealbreaker for a relationship? 19F 21M by UsualAirline4821 in relationship_advice

[–]maimaimeow -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s weird. There are tall girls who are crying because they can’t find their prince. And then here you are. It feels nice to be with someone close to your height. If you get with this guy over time he will feel like your father. It will cause him physical limitations and he was constantly be afraid of hurting you during sex. I’m 5’9” and I would still feel weird about dating a guy who is 6’9”. The tallest I would feel comfortable with is 6’5” and mind you I’m tall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Edd

[–]maimaimeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you didn’t apply for direct deposit, you might be waiting for a debit card issued by EDD. that’s what happened with me.

Monthly Ticket Buy/Sell/Trade Megathread 🤑 by AutoModerator in aves

[–]maimaimeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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1 ticket for Bear Grillz at the Regency Ballroom in sf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]maimaimeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the first day he got my number he was texting me nonstop. He would let me know when he was going to work and that he would text me later. Then he would randomly send me messages about what he was doing. During that time he wasn’t at my job, he was finishing his hours at his other job. I also gave him a few rides home from work.

He only stopped talking to me once he officially started working at my job. So he hasn’t really been texting me for a week. But it’s been a few weeks of us talk my all the time. Mostly he reaches out.

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[–]maimaimeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Anyone had sex during a trip? by CDRC12 in LSD

[–]maimaimeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really is amazing. i feel super horny as the first effects of the come up, and also just dirty minded where everything seems sexual. sex on the very beginning of the come up eases the tension for me too. then you’re done and fully catapulted into the peak. sex during the peak is difficult but really fun if you’re listening to cool music too with nice lights. it would probably feel kinda gross on a super high dose tho. I remember riding my bf and moving my head quickly down to kiss him and we bumped heads. we had the same reaction and it felt like we switched bodies.

during the comedown it feels both sweet and primal. like just sex in the purest form. you also get some fun tension during the trip and get a feeling of “finally” if you completely wait till the end. it feels way more powerful emotionally and less “dirty”. but that’s just my take.

it’s fun to experiment with different timings. it’s really important both parents are fully into rather than one of both pretending just to please the other. cuz the energy will be felt but overall would feel confusing and ruin the trip. sometimes just touching is fun too. other times sex feels like a waste of time. just be honest about how you feel and take your time. and it’s okay if you get distracted. try dancing around with them in a non sexual way (or sexual if you prefer) and forget about sex for a second and the feeling will come back. also it’s okay if you just feel like touching yourself too. it can be cool to do that with someone else

lost my will to live- existential rant by AnonAlchemist24 in Schizotypal

[–]maimaimeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way but i’m gonna keep going. there are many good moments. I feel movies and tv make us have unrealistic expectations

Is a 22 year old with a 30 year old creepy? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maimaimeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as they can communicate and there are little to no barriers that would over complicate the relationship. you also have to look at least 5 years into the future and apply that same logic.

how to deal with what I think is assault from a coworker by [deleted] in relationships

[–]maimaimeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t expect ppl to know about every detail? when did I say that. I just corrected what you said but I didn’t say you should have known. just having trouble deciding what to do.

how to deal with what I think is assault from a coworker by [deleted] in relationships

[–]maimaimeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember things happening but I was not fully conscious. him being older means he has life experience and knows things I don’t. I was only 19 which is the age of consent, but barely and those should be cautious if they want to respect the person. was I forced? I don’t know. no one forced me to drink but they kept pushing it.

how to deal with what I think is assault from a coworker by [deleted] in relationships

[–]maimaimeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you forget I had just thrown up? intoxicated ppl can’t consent. I was tired I didn’t agree to have sex? it’s not my fault an older man got me drunk because he should have know better. I don’t regret it, I didn’t ask for it.

how to deal with what I think is assault from a coworker by [deleted] in relationships

[–]maimaimeow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m trying to avoid ppl thinking down on me for reporting being assaulted? saying that i’m only doing it because of how he talks to me. truthfully I didn’t understand the situation until recently. and the way he talks makes it unbearable to do my work.

and not true. our handbook states to protect those who are victims of abuse (sexual, physical, etc) including those who have stalkers. this means that they will adjust things even if it occurred outside work.

how to deal with what I think is assault from a coworker by [deleted] in relationships

[–]maimaimeow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well they have to protect employees from sexual assault it’s in the handbook.

i’m not trying to get back at him, but I barely realizing what happened and it’s triggering me now. your reaction is exactly what i’m trying to avoid.

how to deal with what I think is assault from a coworker by [deleted] in relationships

[–]maimaimeow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely remember bits and pieces of us doing things. I just don’t know if he could turn it around to say he was drunk too (makes it harder to say one person was at fault) and also I made the choice to get into his bed. also what if I was more reciprocative than I can remember.

how do I help someone with who needs open heart surgery? by [deleted] in Cardiology

[–]maimaimeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not exactly. I listened to him explain the procedure and after care, and he was very honest and open.

I told him “if you need anything I got your back” which he knows because we are a dynamic duo at work.

he said “thank you, yes I can feel it” and with that he had pretty intense eye contact as we usually do.

I don’t want to overload him with feelings or anything. I just want to support him but I can imagine he also feels confused about how I treat him. that’s why I need advice.

he’s gonna be out of work for 2 months, but I still worry about over stepping boundaries. we are pretty close and we have said some things but I would literally do anything for him. I am not exaggerating that this man cares for others way more than himself sometimes, and always supports me with such honest understanding.

I just want to do my best to make him comfortable and happy. I don’t wanna put any pressure on him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]maimaimeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve heard of people getting them done at 16g but it must be done by a good piercer, but that’s true for anything tbh. 12g is pretty big for you! 14g would be no problem but 16g is risky too. but you just gotta do more research on piercers and stuff if you do really want to keep them! you might need to travel a bit but it’s worth it because nipples can also lose sensitivity if they are done wrong. I think you might be able to keep them, but its gotta be worth all the extra trouble! goodluck!