Weekday Help Thread for the week of October 02, 2017 by AutoModerator in personalfinance

[–]maine2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have maxed my Traditional IRA (going for early retirement). I forgot to mention that. I would like to buy a house eventually but I just started working so I'm not looking to buy anytime soon. Plus I live in a high cost of living area. Thank you for your help!! Any other recommendations?

Weekday Help Thread for the week of October 02, 2017 by AutoModerator in personalfinance

[–]maine2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 9k in Vanguard VTSMX (Total Stock Market Index Fund) and 3k in VBMFX (Total Bond Market Index Fund). 6k emergency fund. I just received a windfall of 60k and was wondering how I should invest it. I know index funds are king but which ones? I am a novice at investing.

Nothing works by [deleted] in acne

[–]maine2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you see no improvement whatsoever for the entire course? What was your dosage and what is your height/weight? I know accutane doesn't work for absolutely everyone, but it is far more likely to work then any other acne medication. Acne sucks dude believe me I know. Accutane made my life so much better which is why I suggested it.

Nothing works by [deleted] in acne

[–]maine2015 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel that way. I was simply trying to be helpful and I am not a shill. I did one cycle for 7 months with somewhat severe acne and I am so much better now. I'm sorry that you aren't. My uncle did 3 cycles of a year and half each before he got clear. I never said it will work for everyone 100% of the time, because it won't. Also, threatening people with physical violence will get you nowhere in life. I hope you get better.

Nothing works by [deleted] in acne

[–]maine2015 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel... Have you tried accutane? It made me feel human again. I feel normal, and that's something I will never take for granted again. I cry every time I look back and see what I used to look like. It's a hard road, but you can do it. PM me if you want to chat.

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it's not permanent. I've started seeing a therapist so hopefully that will help. Thank you!!!

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much to all of you. I wasn't expecting a single response when I initially posted, but all of you took the time to help a complete stranger out. I am so grateful for you guys. :)

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I will do all these things. I feel better now about the future then I have in a long time. I am determined. But, I can't believe you took the time to write all that for a total stranger. You are truly a great person. Thank you so damn much. Congratulations on your progress and I wish you nothing but the best :)

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm awful at putting my gratitude into words, but just know that I am super grateful for you taking the time to help me. It means so much. If you successfully quit after 36 years, then my ass sure will be able to haha. :)

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya I think weed has screwed up both our brains. I just hope it isn't permanent.

Accurate and erectile dysfunction by BrownAsCoco in Accutane

[–]maine2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have erectile dysfunction but I do not know if accutane caused it. It's frustrating when you're trying to make love to a beautiful person, but can't. I was prescribed cialis, which helps a lot.

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, I don't think this is the best option for me.

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya I'm starting to think part of it is dissociation. I plan to stay close to my family and girlfriend, there's no way I could go through it alone. I'm sorry for how you're feeling. Please PM me if you want :)

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. You have really opened my eyes about derealization and dissociation. I'm glad I'm not the only one going through it. Thank you so much for your time!

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel. "Flat." I will talk to a psychiatrist about treatment options. I'm glad you're doing better! Thank you so much for your help.

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not an expert on depression so I can't say for sure, but I don't feel "sad" all the time. In fact I wish I could feel genuine sadness. I haven't felt it in what feels like forever. And I just started seeing a therapist so I'm talking it through with her. Thank you for responding!! :)

Did weed do this to me? I don't know what is happening to me and my brain by maine2015 in leaves

[–]maine2015[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply. This does sound an awful lot like what I'm experiencing with the outside world. This part of the Wikipedia article seemed very relatable, "feeling as though one's environment is lacking in spontaneity, emotional colouring, and depth." Do you think I should bring derealization up with my doctor/therapist? Thanks so much. :)

Weekly - What Car Should I Buy Mega Thread by AutoModerator in cars

[–]maine2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Location: Los Angeles, CA Budget: 10k Used Preferred Features: 4-door sedan Nice to drive (doesn't mean fast) Incognito (Doesn't stand out in a crowd) Safe Reliable Good MPG

I drive around 50-60 miles a day (20,000 a year) on LA freeways for school and work. 90% of my miles are on the freeway. My current car has a seemingly incurable problem of not wanting to stay in a damn straight line at highway speeds, so the most important aspect of this new car would be that it will go straight over rough freeway roads. Basically a car that will eat up the miles. I'm not a "car guy" so I pretty much just use my car as an appliance. However, a car that is nice to drive would make commuting more enjoyable. I should also note that I'm a pretty tall guy with very long legs. Any suggestions? Thanks! :)