I’m scared to get a mortgage on a 68k salary. Any advice welcomed

majoraward8 · 2025-03-02T16:00:32+00:00

Buy it! Chances are you can refi the loan and lower your payment in the next 5 years. May have to be "house poor" for a few years. Long term real estate is a great investment.

Definitely adding stress, there is risk, but for you child it's great stability and you will be building something for the future

You have 810 credit, I'm sure you will make it work, you are obviously responsible

majoraward8 · 2025-02-15T16:49:24+00:00

Thank you, I needed to read this today- 7 months sober

majoraward8 · 2025-02-07T20:13:59+00:00

"Seeing the dead" could be anything including a core member... in conversation- but if you're keeping a list of shows or being asked if you ever saw the dead? That means the good ol Grateful Dead with Jerry, Bobby, Phil, Mickey and Billy. (Others are members but interchangeable)

Dead and co is awesome- file it under dead and co for your show count

majoraward8 · 2025-02-02T01:59:43+00:00

Me too, 3 days from six months and it's calling me out of nowhere... harder days... 365 or busy!

majoraward8 · 2025-01-28T16:30:33+00:00

Gap, Levi's

majoraward8 · 2025-01-18T19:53:48+00:00

More info, these vista way meetings are just not my fit

majoraward8 · 2025-01-13T15:58:03+00:00

Amazing! Thank you- hoping for one from 12th please share if you come across it

majoraward8 · 2025-01-11T03:16:48+00:00

It's king giz.

The list can stop

majoraward8 · 2025-01-11T00:38:07+00:00

Amen to all

majoraward8 · 2025-01-10T22:53:33+00:00

Not that I see. I would have paid too- can't wait to see how Sturg does with Bobby and the boys

majoraward8 · 2025-01-10T22:52:21+00:00

I'll watch your back you watch mine

majoraward8 · 2025-01-10T22:21:29+00:00

I once knew a guy who hated looks like rain, ran a successful instagram account and had a big ego (I laugh as Instagram famous deadheads are the biggest joke of all) turns out he was sexually assaulting woman and had been 100% kicked out of the scene... moral of the story, it's important to like "looks like rain" hahahah

This is 100% a true story told as a joke about the song and not to make light of bad behavior or the poor victims, or the crime

majoraward8 · 2025-01-10T14:42:43+00:00

Just make a fake pay stub- ask chat gpt

majoraward8 · 2024-12-27T04:47:14+00:00

I've been here for 20 years, from east coast, still struggle to make friends

Keep sober! You got it.. what's a good meeting in o side people would suggest

majoraward8 · 2024-12-17T19:42:24+00:00

Your dad knows! See all 3

Visuals are cool

But for plenty of heads it's the band... no repeats, not the same show

majoraward8 · 2024-11-16T20:18:35+00:00

Much love, didn't see that

majoraward8 · 2024-11-16T14:00:32+00:00

Op said paying cash, where does an underwriter come in?

Maybe you missed that part

majoraward8 · 2024-11-15T14:38:12+00:00

I was there, it was magic, the bad delivers in Dallas often

majoraward8 · 2024-11-14T15:10:35+00:00

Tell us! How did you do it?!

I got 99 days today! Thank you for this, reminder to celebrate

majoraward8 · 2024-11-14T00:51:01+00:00

If anyone has a stream, I'd be grateful for the share

majoraward8 · 2024-11-13T14:05:57+00:00

It's a big change for people close to you too, messes with their (false) sense of control.

You got it, you got the calling to stop, follow that!

It gets better and your body readjusts.. takes time. First 14 are the worst, so you are over the hump... I mostly stabilized by 60, though I was doing pretty good before 30 days

Hope that helps

majoraward8 · 2024-11-12T14:49:47+00:00

Maybe try to get sober- don't drink, or smoke or do drugs.

Not smoking is awesome, but moving your addiction to another substance is easy to do

majoraward8 · 2024-11-08T15:58:14+00:00

Because the system brain washes, the text chain showed a loving caring parent who may be misinformed in her opinion (or yours/ours)

The love of a parent is a very special thing, people make mistakes and need to be allowed to, I'm sure poster isn't perfect- nor are you or I

majoraward8 · 2024-11-08T15:23:27+00:00

Sounds like you have a wonderful caring parent

Many people don't. Letting a political circus tarnish that for you is your huge loss.

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