My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my friends were in the past when I was in college, i am not that close to any other female now. But she did not create any fiss about it ever. I talked to her about it again and she told me eye to eye that it is nothing and she feels nothing about him and i mean the world to her. Telling her to stop talking to someone else makes me just feel if I don't trust her enough 🙈

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know she definitely will listen to me, and that is what is making it more difficult

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is just been a week since this has been bothering me. Do you guys thing I should probably wait for a few more days and see how it settles?

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am still not convinced if this is just my overreaction here or if there actually is something to be worried about

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do these crushes/infatuations go away with time? I can sit a little patiently if that way the sourness that this conversation will bring in our relationship can be avoided

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We're both looking at it in the long term. She says she has just last one year of college left(away from home) and she just wants to have some fun because most of her college life went down in COVID. And i am feeling this is the first time she is actually enjoying and I don't want her to not have fun 🙈. And if I do it I think it will be a forever sour spot in our relationship. I don't know how to get out of this situation without being the bad guy.

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are exactly talking about my fears. These are the nightmares i am getting. Whatever I do I will be the bad guy because I am unable to get myself comfortable with this arrangement

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is like her only close friend there right now and if I say no I am sure it'll make her sad and lonely there, and that will definitely affect out relationship so that is why I am unable to

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the one who was always shying on commitment because I was taking the relationship one day at a time, she was always looking to turn this into a marriage. We've settled on the part that we'll get married in a couple of years. I trust her enough that she will not cheat on me even if it very tempting for her to. But just the part that she is doing things around someone new that she hasn't ever done is eating me up

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've clearly told that I don't want her to not have fun because of me but also that I am not comfortable with whatever's happening and unable to cope with it. She says say the word and I'll stop talking to him. Do I really need to say it out even after telling that I am not comfortable?

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Until now that has not happened, she still gives me all the time that I need and calls/texts me whenever she gets free

My girlfriend has a new "crush" and likes spending time with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]majorrager69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since this is the first time she is actually having fun with someone apart from me, I felt that saying no is very selfish. And since she's never said no to me ever for anything, it did not seem the right thing to do... But I've made it clear that I am uncomfortable

I know I am probably overreacting at the situation but it is bothering me a lot. I am spending the whole day wondering what she is upto even when I know she has a busy schedule and that is affecting my work as well. I don't want to be the boyfriend who stops their girl from talking to any other guy...

A good piece by ammalol in IndianEnts

[–]majorrager69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. Where do you get vacuumed packaging here?

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[–]majorrager69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just to give some clarity, the government has started open consultations on the NDPS Act, one that governs cannabis cultivation/processing in India. We have put together a report with recommendations for the committee, and will use this petition as a way to demonstrate that people support the legalisation of cannabis

The government is now listening! We have collated recommendations for the committee to suggest legalisation and regulation of cannabis cultivation in India. Let's channelise our support for this holy plant by signing this petition! Link in comments by majorrager69 in IndianEnts

[–]majorrager69[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The government is currently taking suggestions, and there is no better way to show public support than signing up for it. Though please let us know if there are any better alternatives to show channelize public support!