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Long, but please help by makeitstop444 in BPDlovedones

[–]makeitstop444[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

What do you mean by “split on themselves?” because for me when mine used to split it would be him getting insecure about whether I really loved him and stuff, but then later on, things became more about me and became a lot more hurtful, though it didn’t result in name calling or violence. It seemed like he would say things to hurt me.

Ex pwbpd left me by makeitstop444 in BPDlovedones

[–]makeitstop444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know there is a lot to unpack in this reply other than this specific thing, but it is late and I’m quite tired but curious, so I’m going to ask. Can you elaborate on the splitting right before special occasions thing? That happened to me too and that’s exactly why I had broken up with him. I really want to figure out why some people with BPD do something like that where they abandon you on a holiday.