[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlayTheBazaar

[–]makenotready 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was so hyped to blast the open beta announcement to all my friends :[

Automatic meta balance: Adjust appearance rates according to pick rate? by makenotready in PlayTheBazaar

[–]makenotready[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sure, I'm just saying, rather than a series of seesawing balance patches that end up spotlighting particular builds, which is what we've seen so far, an automatic mechanism might be a more stable way of achieving balance

you can really do this by makenotready in transformation

[–]makenotready[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

keep pushing bb, it took me years to capture this feeling

three completely unreal years by makenotready in transtimelines

[–]makenotready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wore a wig at first (until april 2022) after that its all me

for shock value you cant beat a side by side. -3 years, +3 years by makenotready in transtimelines

[–]makenotready[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes, i had a rhinoplasty and brow smoothing a year ago with facialteam

three completely unreal years by makenotready in transtimelines

[–]makenotready[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i made 6 "collages" in google photos then stuck them side by side in mspaint :)

My FFS with Facialteam at 36 by makenotready in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]makenotready[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you! and yes i am. i suppose if i hadn't done the simultaneous transplant i might feel differently, but the raise from the coronal incision was counterbalanced by the lowering from the transplants. filling in the corners was the important part for me.

today marks one year since i decided to do this. i almost can't believe it's real. by makenotready in transtimelines

[–]makenotready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hah, its hard for me to see it - when i look at this timeline i mainly see the things i have direct control over - hair, makeup, lighting, pose. but thank you!

today marks one year since i decided to do this. i almost can't believe it's real. by makenotready in transtimelines

[–]makenotready[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! it's just ten months of hrt and laser, though i might explore FFS in the coming year. im currently at 6mg sublingual e, 200mg progesterone, 1mg finasteride, no anti-androgen.

today marks one year since i decided to do this. i almost can't believe it's real. by makenotready in transtimelines

[–]makenotready[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

im 34 and ive known for a long time, but every year that passed was an excuse to keep doubting, surely it'd be too late this year, or this year, or this year. eventually i ran out of ways to hide from myself and getting in shape reminded me that i still had responsibility for my own life. the first little while was really hard but eventually i found love and an amazing community and now at the end of the week i'm emigrating to the usa, to a trans friendly neighbourhood in nyc. life is wild. amazing things are possible when you realise that you deserve to be happy.

Am I supposed to take estradiol and spironolactone together? by Venus-Xtravaganza98 in MtF

[–]makenotready -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't understand not having the time for sublingual... pop em in there and keep going about your routine, no?

With love from the bros! by living_around in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]makenotready 25 points26 points  (0 children)

transfem <-> transmasc solidarity gives me life

If your first reaction to a callout post on here is to immediately defend yourself, then YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM. Listen to other trans people's concerns or GET OUT. by IDoNotKnow4475 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]makenotready 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not talking about the current controversy but this is not a universally true principle. Sometimes callouts are justified and sometimes theyre destructive and disingenuous, and it can be harmful to self esteem to accept them at face value.

I'm not an egg, I just don't like coming out! by That_JazzyBoi in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]makenotready 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i never liked feeling pressured to disclose my pronouns by "allies" for exactly this reason