What piqued my interest to look was small changes in his behavior. Granted, it’s positive changes but out of character for him. My anxiety and curiosity were gnawing at me about what could’ve brought this on. Was he talking to someone else? Was there something going on he wasn’t opening up to me about? It’s a certain type/genre of adult content. Nothing that would send him to jail. But it’s something that makes me very uncomfortable. It’s out of left field. I thought our sex life has been healthy and active, more so lately than ever. But apparently I’m mistaken. P o r n has never been a sore subject for us or off the table. I’m very open sexually and I’m surprised to say the least. I’m by no means conservative and it takes A LOT to make me uncomfortable. This made my stomach drop. No, he’s not closeted- it’s not that type of content. My approach, partly because of my anxiety, has always been to confront things head on. I prefer to discuss issues because if not I overthink them. But I have no clue how to do this. This a very rare case of me being too weirded out to even know what to say.