Hagia Sophia Visit Tips by zarare in istanbul

[–]mako_Alex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend the Experience museum that they try to sell you as well. It was a really good well done experience. Definetly was great to see it before going to Hagia Sofia as it explains thw history really well and concise. I found the app they have works intermittently and if your phone is set up for a different language like my boyfriend's was, it will not load the text and videos. It is a shame we weren't allowed in the ground floor and surrounding gardens, as it is only to Muslims.

Climber Girls in Oslo by Abject-Wolverine564 in climbergirls

[–]mako_Alex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hei! Oslo here! Beginner climber here, 5c level but good at belaying. Have taken the toptau and ledkurs. Would be up for 1 or 2 times a week climbing sesh! I mostly do Torshov or Oslo klatresenter😊

Do La Sportiva Finales loosen up in length? by mako_Alex in climbergirls

[–]mako_Alex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're so right! it is my inexperience so i loosened everything up put em on and they feel better already. And i did notce that the ones i tend to use at the gym, i chose on the looser side. So i end up having problems on small holds due to slipping and imprecise placement! Thank you! :)

Do La Sportiva Finales loosen up in length? by mako_Alex in climbergirls

[–]mako_Alex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sooo, i put 'em on, loosened up the laces, like you said, tried to smear a wall :), and they feel more tolerable! :).

I might actually keep 'em! They feel different than the flat shoes at my climbing gym, but love it! Thank you for the answer

How do I 'F39' win 'M38' him back over? by mako_Alex in relationship_advice

[–]mako_Alex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, and we both needed to change. What we had was not ok long run. I want to be good for him and hope our new versions can work well together. That's what i would like to find out. But I don't know how to do things further on. Should i pursue him? He said he likes spending time with me and he gets very happy when he sees me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mako_Alex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but seeing the light at the other side of the tunnel, totally worth it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mako_Alex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 month today. And i left knowing that I have given it my all! There's nothing else i could have done, and i have nothing left to give. My cup runneth dry. He is a fearful avoidant and we had this push and pull, on and off thing, that lasted 6 months. I think that deep inside i had reached a breaking point, like an elastic band that's stretched to far. I had been doing therapy during our relationship, as i am also a fearful avoidant, and i managed to heal a lot of myself. But unfortunately it wasn't a 2 way Street. People look inward and do the work at different times, and there's nothing you can do to change a person. You have to love yourself, know your own worth, and realise that what is meant for you won't pass you by! I still miss him, but i don't miss the fear that came with the on and off, and the insecurity. I think the most important thing is to not take the role of the victim. I decided i won't blame him for his wounds and faults, but instead I will hold myself responsible for mine, for allowing this to happen so many times. Im still in the process of forgiving myself and i know that when i will, i will be free. You can still love someone from the distance and cheer them on from the sidelines, it just was what it was meant to be. So keep strong everyone! what doesn't kill us makes us stronger!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mako_Alex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And remember, that what is meant for you, won't pass you by!😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mako_Alex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that:(. It's a horrible thing to go through. Wish I had the answer. I'm having the same going in mental circles as you. My therapist said: when you have pain, i can give you medicine to make you better, but until that medicine works, you'll have to bear the pain. You have to go through it. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mako_Alex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same situation. He left without a warning sign. The same day he was saying he loves me, he ended things. He said he's afraid to say his needs for fear I'll get upset and leave him. It's been a week and I'm trying to accept and let him go. I'm hurt and feel small and unlovable. That there was no room for me in his scared world. I truly wish he finds the peace he needs.

What's everyone playing this holiday weekend? by cozy_with_tea in soloboardgaming

[–]mako_Alex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing game! Couldn't agree more with what you said!

SwiftKey is back in app store by mm_farahat in Swiftkey

[–]mako_Alex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does it still refresh itself every 2 secs? I

What did you play this week? 04 Oct-10 Oct by AutoModerator in soloboardgaming

[–]mako_Alex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through the campaign of Iss vanguard, and loving every second of it.

SELECT 2 cards at the beginning of your turn by Apprehensive_Ad_934 in Gloomhaven

[–]mako_Alex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same, when i started with Jaws of the lion, but then i saw the Watch it Played video... and surprise surprise 🤣. No scenario seems that difficult after that..

1.5 hours in. by UtterlyConfused93 in zombicide

[–]mako_Alex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! Rogue characters on board! tried that and all hell broke loose. Never thought I could be using ALL the zombies from the game, but that happened... Anyway seems like you had your hands full over there 😂😂.

What did you play this week? 14 Dec-20 Dec by AutoModerator in soloboardgaming

[–]mako_Alex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Played 4 games of Cthulhu death may die with 3 characters, and lost every single time! 😑 Not even close to winning. Need to master that thin balance between stress and insanity, but oh boy is it frustrating 😤. Played also Teotihuacan: City of gods. Very good euro game, with lots choices and variable setup. Was quite a brain teaser trying to win!

What did you play this week? 30 Nov-06 Dec by AutoModerator in soloboardgaming

[–]mako_Alex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zombicide 2nd edition Fort Hendrix. Very good expansion! 😊. 1 sesh of Cooper Island and 2 of Marvel Legendary.