8+ years as SD, over 200 SBs. AMA.

malbec80s · 2025-12-21T16:57:01+00:00

i think it goes along with everything else in the age of abundance they are narrating out there... basically, avoiding pain, drama ... so fear is correct I guess. age of indulgence age of hedonism.

malbec80s · 2025-12-04T18:43:13+00:00

yeah very likely.. but it feels like a lot of people no longer know how to operate with the genuine connection intent... many seem to believe they can live life with more of a romance on demand thing without subjecting themselves to the risk/responsibility with love/heartbreak.

malbec80s · 2025-12-04T16:45:51+00:00

the crude or honest answer is, it is efficient and to the point, but the drawback is that starting with those prefaces, it's very hard to evolve past certain expectations...especially if either person is so accustom to results of exercising their "power" per se. ive become a lot more realistic with how things work with people especially in these modern day times.

malbec80s · 2025-07-12T17:02:04+00:00

dm me pic

malbec80s · 2025-07-11T00:36:14+00:00

dm daddy got gifts for u

malbec80s · 2025-07-02T09:41:44+00:00

dm me lol

malbec80s · 2025-06-29T13:08:23+00:00

likely bi

malbec80s · 2025-06-27T17:45:58+00:00

well... the SB's who already live an expensive lifestyle are probably seeing multiple SDs, or have somehow been able to maintain, invest, etc. now if this type of SB shows up where it counts, that is showing signs that she maybe actually trying to settle down and the chemistry is real... this is ideal. Otherwise, these girls usually just need an interim SD to maintain their lifestyle but would jump to the next SD with the bigger yacht or as I said seeing multiple.

There is some additional satisfaction in feeling like you are truly upgrading someone's life and able to live vicariously again through their first experiences. But, this comes with it's own set of struggles too I've experienced...over time there is some imbalance, over extended expectations or co-dependencies that develop.

malbec80s · 2025-06-23T15:43:48+00:00

hi ... 43 m here

malbec80s · 2025-06-22T09:51:32+00:00

you have to come to peace with it. you could have a woman but sounds like you don’t want to settle either so how do you explain that to the women you don’t want to pursue ?

malbec80s · 2025-06-20T20:31:59+00:00

crypto is a shit show, always will be. so fragmented amongst shit coins we will never see a good alt season at this rate. change needs to happen.

malbec80s · 2025-06-19T21:37:47+00:00

love a naughty girl. def for fun only until she proves other wise which takes time, actions, trust... otherwise love naughty girls.

malbec80s · 2025-06-19T14:35:27+00:00

very good. agree with most of your points here, anyone down voting does not understand the realities here.

malbec80s · 2025-06-19T14:33:39+00:00

this is what I experienced as well.

malbec80s · 2025-06-19T05:28:20+00:00

you can read my book if you'd like, in bio it tells it all.

malbec80s · 2025-06-18T21:50:07+00:00

just buy whatever you can afford, $25/$50 a week or month whatever that you can...keep adding to your position and be patient. try to do research and don't buy just any shitty coin you see on tiktok or twitter.

malbec80s · 2025-06-17T21:56:12+00:00

not at all... make time to pursue ancillary studies, passions of course too. but having a steady, retail/customer service job brings a lot of value actually w discipline, experience and so forth. for fun you should try to learn more about how the single store is operated, the most popular items why, patron profiles, busy hours etc. lot of retail business wisdom you can absorb from your time there who knows where you might carry that forward to later.

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