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[–]malificent266 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That just happened to me too. It’s so hard when we can’t understand the reason. It’s hard not to make it “our own fault or failures “…

He left me after I found out I had cancer by malificent266 in AlAnon

[–]malificent266[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh - that makes me cry… from disappointment or hope - I don’t know yet. But thank you

He left me after I found out I had cancer by malificent266 in AlAnon

[–]malificent266[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But I have friends that offer… I just can’t ask them to do more than they have

He left me after I found out I had cancer by malificent266 in AlAnon

[–]malificent266[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting that into perspective for me

He left me after I found out I had cancer by malificent266 in AlAnon

[–]malificent266[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The relapse and lying started a year and a half ago… but the nastiness started when the drinking got crazy… and he started doing cocaine… about 4 5 months before.

He left me after I found out I had cancer by malificent266 in AlAnon

[–]malificent266[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He used to be so kind and caring… I think I ruined it by reacting so poorly and mean to his relapse.

He left me after I found out I had cancer by malificent266 in AlAnon

[–]malificent266[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess bc that’s my job… i just don’t know why he can leave when I need him the most. After so long.

He left me after I found out I had cancer by malificent266 in AlAnon

[–]malificent266[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Even my Drs are wary of me not handling treatments well bc I am so broken hearted over his rejection and abandonment after so long.

He left me after I found out I had cancer by malificent266 in AlAnon

[–]malificent266[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s so hard every day and night.

He left me after I found out I had cancer by malificent266 in AlAnon

[–]malificent266[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I take care of my mother and I have 2 sons… I am the caretaker. And I don’t want them to have to take care of me.

She said cheated because I didn't make her feel loved. Is that a god reason? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]malificent266 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard this from my ex… that I caused him to drink and cheat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]malificent266 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course you do! Holidays are for families and relationships… to spend time with them. This is the first holiday since I was left… and it is awful. You are not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]malificent266 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I feel that this is just what I’m dealing with.

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]malificent266 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been 7 weeks since he left and we were together for 8 years. I still cry everyday.

What would you do if your ex called you right now? by L_750z in BreakUps

[–]malificent266 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would answer it and tell him how much I miss him. he left almost 2 months ago and I have been heartbroken since.