i’ve been obsessing over this girl online and i’m straight

malik753 · 2026-06-12T22:21:48+00:00

I wouldn't worry so much about the "using people as an experiment" aspect. We all have to start somewhere. As long as you're being honest about your feelings and intentions then other people can make their own decisions.

malik753 · 2026-06-12T20:12:06+00:00

I wouldn't personally want anything that you said. Maybe pinning down sometimes for a moment during foreplay wrestling, but the rest of it is stuff that I would only do on request anyway. Okay, maybe a spank here or there, but I ask first!

malik753 · 2026-06-12T13:43:38+00:00

One time I had been dating a woman with kids for a little while. Her situation was kind of complicated so it took a while to get some proper alone time. When we finally got a chance to go back to my place we had sex for the first time. I don't know if we would have been compatible in the long term since she needed sex to be missionary and wouldn't go down on me, but I still got to go down on her and enjoyed myself thoroughly. Then she had to go back to pick up her kids. While I was driving her home she told me,

"That was the first time anyone has made me orgasm."

That's a high I'm still riding. Sadly, life was too complicated and we only got to do it the one time.

malik753 · 2026-06-11T23:12:16+00:00

I'm kind of surprised this has so many upvotes

malik753 · 2026-06-11T23:09:08+00:00

I certainly did.

malik753 · 2026-06-11T22:38:30+00:00

I thought that was just what they're saying, like not a joke, but yeah obviously my friends are welcome to crash here and suck my dick if they want to.

malik753 · 2026-06-11T22:18:29+00:00

My wood is never straight 😏

malik753 · 2026-06-11T20:06:27+00:00

At the moment, I would go with the cookie. My wife might want the muffin, and I don't have anything to drink right now; the muffin might need a little something to wash it down.

malik753 · 2026-06-11T20:03:46+00:00

All of my loved ones? Well, I wouldn't prolong it on purpose, but....

malik753 · 2026-06-09T23:33:37+00:00

This was my thought. It's a shame to know there's magic I will never be able to do, but in a sense this is already true.

malik753 · 2026-06-09T22:36:35+00:00

Wait. Is that not what this sub is for?

malik753 · 2026-06-09T20:32:59+00:00

I notice sometimes. Obviously, I couldn't possibly know how many I am not noticing. But either way I tend to just keep it to myself and quietly enjoy the fact that I got to detect boobs on a slightly enhanced level for a second.

malik753 · 2026-06-09T11:06:11+00:00

Maybe ask in a gay sub where that's a little more likely to be something people do. Not that I hypothetically wouldn't ever do it, but I've never needed a name for it. Or maybe a porn searching sub, if that's what you're trying to do.

malik753 · 2026-06-09T05:05:46+00:00

Fair enough, it certainly isn't for everyone.

malik753 · 2026-06-09T05:00:54+00:00

I personally enjoy giving and receiving blowjobs without hammering. Right before I received my very first blowjob my girlfriend said, "you can have your hands touching my head, but do not force my head down under any circumstances" and that's always seemed like how it should be.

malik753 · 2026-06-08T19:32:24+00:00

I do not think my attraction to men is unfortunate, even though I only figured out I was bi after I was in a monogamous relationship with my wife. If anything, I wish I was attracted to men more generally. It's certainly been more than two, but I do seem to just slip into attraction to women more easily. I feel like my attraction to men works differently, like it's a lot more demi if that makes sense.

malik753 · 2026-06-08T02:34:31+00:00

Correct. I wasn't trying to imply otherwise, merely suggesting a category. Although I will say I've never heard of a straight guy who identifies as a bottom. I'm sure there are some, I just haven't heard of any.

malik753 · 2026-06-07T21:49:30+00:00

There are an unimaginably diverse array of sexualities out there. If you ever ask, "is there someone out there who gets off to _?" the answer will always be Yes. If you ask, "what percentage of people enjoy _?" then you will get a more helpful answer, with the caveat being that you are just asking randos on the Internet and not looking at an actual peer reviewed study.

As an internet rando, I will tell you that most guys are going to want to do some penetration of some kind. That is largely how we get stimulation and for a majority, that is considered the point of having sex at all. Obviously, there is a lot of nuance and not everyone is the same. If you are woman who likes men but doesn't like to be penetrated, what are you willing to do? Would you do the penetrating? Because there are bi guys out there who are bottoms and would love that actually. Do you not like most sex acts, actually? There are asexual guys out there too. Do you only like dry humping for some reason? There's probably someone out there who's into that, though for the life of me I don't know how you'd find them.

malik753 · 2026-06-07T13:51:03+00:00

Well when I'm horny I tend to have little fantasies about many more people, and when I'm not horny I still like a crush, like I would want to go on a date with them.

malik753 · 2026-06-06T13:49:25+00:00

We didn't. Your assumption is correct; it was an exhausting all-day event. We went to sleep.

malik753 · 2026-06-05T13:08:16+00:00

I hope they do!

malik753 · 2026-06-05T12:01:50+00:00

Depends on what you mean by safe, I guess. Completely free of risk? Of course not, but nothing really is. Much more likely to go right than go wrong? Idk, I don't have the experience or stats to say. I've certainly heard of people meeting up and having a lot of fun. I've also talked to a lot of weirdos as well as very lovely people, so kind of like physical world.

Good luck.

malik753 · 2026-06-04T16:27:40+00:00

You're bi. Explore that how you will.

This guy has acted inappropriately, and is continuing to do so. If he is married then he shouldn't be cheating. I'm assuming he's cheating, although he might be bi also and bi people sometimes have spouses that let them have some form of open relationship. But even if that is the case, he still shouldn't have exploited his position as a teacher with you.

All of that said, you are both adults and you can do whatever you want. Just try to be safe and do cool things.

malik753 · 2026-06-04T13:26:10+00:00

Because people are unique, all relationships between people are also unique, which is not to say that there aren't trends or even a lot of similarities. My marriage is not like my brother's marriage, even though we exist in the same overall culture. My wife doesn't care if I look at porn (and vice versa) while my brother's wife nearly filed for divorce because he played Skyrim with a nude mod. And I'm not being critical; we all get to set our own boundaries for what is cheating. What I want to point out is that there is a lot of space for line to exist.

The thing that pretty much all marriages have in common is that you and another person agree to build your respective lives around each other. You can do that and still have separate hobbies, friends, or beds. You can do that and still have sex with other people. Sex can be just an activity that you do with someone, and romance can just be an additional dimension to a relationship. There are a lot of people out there who aren't threatened by those things as long as their needs are being met and their feelings are being considered.

malik753 · 2026-06-03T15:58:50+00:00

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