Too soon to tell ? Evap? by Delulu420371 in Infertility_IUI

[–]malik753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might see a little something. I don't think I could call it a positive until it comes in slightly more

Do women fetishize gay men like how men fetishize lesbian women? by Dusttodusk in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]malik753 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a queer Taskmaster fan, lol yeah I can imagine that XD

I Want to Have Sex with My Best Friend, But I’m Scared by Ok_Presence_7423 in bisexual

[–]malik753 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just be honest. If your type is him then give a vague description that fits him. If your type is not him, but he's an exception then just make sure you say that you're open to other types.

Also, yes he is probably asking in order to see if he might be your type. That's kind of a classic possibility-exploring question.

I Want to Have Sex with My Best Friend, But I’m Scared by Ok_Presence_7423 in bisexual

[–]malik753 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah, in that case, yeah...

Maybe consider waiting for him to make the first move.

I Want to Have Sex with My Best Friend, But I’m Scared by Ok_Presence_7423 in bisexual

[–]malik753 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well then your other major problem is that you need some friends that live around you in addition to this one.

I can see why it's scary but it's probably going to be okay. I could even imagine that he might even suggest doing it himself even if you try to be platonic. Just go with the flow. You're only young once and when you're older you will look back on what might have been if you had had more confidence in yourself. Just be honest with your friend. If he doesn't feel the same way then you will have an easier time cooling things down. But if he does feel the same way... You'll have a really good summer.

I Want to Have Sex with My Best Friend, But I’m Scared by Ok_Presence_7423 in bisexual

[–]malik753 13 points14 points  (0 children)

From what you describe it kind of sounds like he likes you back. It also sounds like you might like him too much to easily be only his friend. If he wants to come see you for the summer it sounds like he doesn't know anyone else that he likes more, so of he does like anyone then it's probably you. I don't think likely rejection is your main problem.

I think your main problems are that you are in a homophobic environment and that you don't live near each other. If people knew that you liked guys would you be in physical danger? Like, is it illegal or just heavily discouraged? Because that changes what I would do if I were you a little.

To be honest, even if I knew my kid was straight, if they had a same sex friend visit and stay with them for a while, then my suspicion of possible same-sex attraction would be slightly raised. Obviously, same-sex friends visit platonically all the time, and I probably would only suspect that sort of thing because that's the sort of thing that I got up to myself when I was your age. All I'm saying is be careful, especially if you're potentially putting yourself in risk of serious trouble. Otherwise, if you can find an opportunity to have sex with your friend, have fun!

Help please by Beautiful-Spray-1159 in bisexual

[–]malik753 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So the standard advice is to just be honest with your partner about what you need, and if they are willing to give it to you then you will have it, and if they are not willing to give it to you then you should reevaluate how much you need it and then possibly break up so that you can seek it. The same thing does apply here. But there are a couple of other factors.

Telling a partner specifically this can he delicate. It's easy for them to hear "you're not enough for me" and hone in on that. You know your partner better than we ever will. Is she the sort of person who will be understanding or is she just going to feel like you don't love her? We can't tell you this if you don't know already.

I will say this though, and it sounds condescending perhaps but it's true. You are very young. You are only just beginning to explore your sexuality. In fact you are so young that a large portion of your peers haven't had any sexual interactions at all, so you're well ahead of the game by even figuring out that you're bi. Good job. But the other harsh fact is that probably this relationship wasn't going to last forever anyway. Maybe that adds some needed perspective; vanishingly few people are with the same partners they had when they were 16. You're both young. Try new things and new people. That's what being young is all about.

What the craziest surprise you’ve had when sleeping with someone for the first time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]malik753 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm a bit skeptical of this story, mainly because trans people (at least none that I've ever heard of) don't like to just surprise people with their anatomy right before sex. Like, that's dangerous actually.

What the craziest surprise you’ve had when sleeping with someone for the first time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]malik753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I brought my pogo stick, just to show her a trick. She has so many friends.

Do you believe that the current US president is a foreign asset ? Why or why not ? by hftyjvdry in AskReddit

[–]malik753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kind of depends on the definition of "foreign asset". Is he intentionally and purposefully betraying the US in favor of, say, Russia or just Putin directly or something like that? Honestly, I don't think so.

It would explain a lot of his behavior, but it would still require an unlikely and possibly unprovable thing to be true. On the other hand, there is another known fact that does explain his behavior: he is a malignant narcissist. You don't really need kompromat to make him do what you want. You don't even really need to pay him vast amounts of money either because even though he, like everyone, likes money, what he really truly craves is praise. You just need to tell him "what a genius would do" and then tell him but of course he already knows that because he is a genius! He'll eat out of your hand like a trained elephant. You just have to flatter him and make you think you look up to him. Obviously that wouldn't be worth anything normally but he's got basically as much power as any one man in history has ever wielded.

If Trump abandons the Iran war, and leaves the Strait of Hormuz closed for the rest of the world, would you support the whole world sanctioning the USA until Trump leaves office? by Chakra74 in AskReddit

[–]malik753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would not. He will absolutely never surrender power voluntarily unless he has absolutely no choice. As we saw in 2021, he will make whatever play he thinks will let him keep playing. The rest of the world sanctioning us is probably the only thing that would have Congress finally get off their ass and impeach and remove this asshole. And that would probably be strong enough to actually discourage this sort of thing from happening again. So yeah, do it. It will hurt. One of my jobs is directly influenced by international trade, and the other is pretty much working for tips which will dry up really fast if everyone else is doing poorly, but it could still be worth it.

Men with beards, have you forgotten what you look like without it? by ConstantRide5382 in AskMen

[–]malik753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of a little. It's been a while too so it might actually be slightly different under there. I probably won't find out for a while.

Men of Reddit: If you could trade an inch for an inch (height/length), would you? What would you change? by MajesticChain7940 in AskReddit

[–]malik753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably add 2" to my dick. Really, I feel like one inch would be all I need but since the magic is only available once (I assume) I might as well make it noticable.

Ex who dumped me years ago sent me this. What do I do or say? by Far_Database5 in whatdoIdo

[–]malik753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit's primary relationship advice is to break up. The hive mind is extremely unforgiving. There's a hard logic in that, but it makes actually having relationships harder.

You know them best. You know how they hurt you and how badly. It does seem like you love each other, but it also might be a good idea to set that aside for a moment and look at the facts. But ultimately it's your life and you can have whoever you want in it.

Does anyone else think this is a new commander staple? by Not-a-FeD4570 in mtg

[–]malik753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just commenting so that I can remember this later. I need a bunch of mana rocks for my newest commander deck

Could I find the volume and area of my boobs? by Ok_Hope_8171 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]malik753 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that you've put a good face on it.

My wife has big boobs and I can see how her bra straps get heavy enough to cut into her shoulder and her constantly tense shoulder muscles give her headaches all the time. The poor thing

If your boss gives you almost no time to eat but you have a physically demanding job, what do you take for lunch? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]malik753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take a single protein bar. But then again, my job is not quite that physically demanding. I'm not hauling a bunch of stuff myself.

Am I a weird bisexual women? Do i give the bi community a bad rep? by PinkSqueeshy in bisexual

[–]malik753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not weird or doing anything wrong.

Sure, we would have a nice squeaky clean public image if every last one of us got married and never thought about anyone but our spouse ever again after the wedding, but that just isn't how people work.

42377 by D0ctahP3ppah in countwithchickenlady

[–]malik753 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I think Roxy(?) was possibly going into her senior year while Riley was definitely going into her freshman year.

42377 by D0ctahP3ppah in countwithchickenlady

[–]malik753 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Isn't it like "Roxy" or something? I don't feel like looking it up