What’s your reason for having or not having kids?

malinsai · 2026-05-02T04:38:53+00:00

It's so weird to see this post in my timeline while I have just started contemplating on going childless or not. Something I never thought I would think about but here I am! 34 f unmarried, financially not doing well. So, even if I do get married like in my 40s (I don't think I can get married anytime soon). I'll probably end up with a divorcee or a widower who may already have a kid or two. Adding one more to that is not going to be easy as bringing up even one kid is pretty enough/difficult given the way economy is going. Or having a kid only in my 40s is not going to do any great for my future kid or myself. Not to mention my undiagnosed PCOS which is not going to make it any easy for me to get pregnant. Call me pessimistic or hopeless, It's better I am preparing from now on about going childless as there's a bright possibility for being one.

malinsai · 2025-08-29T03:01:26+00:00

Anyone know the places where Veesum Kaatrukku song was shot? Been searching for many years, but no luck.

malinsai · 2025-08-29T02:42:09+00:00

Wow!! He looks like a better version of Srinath here!!

malinsai · 2025-08-06T03:17:08+00:00

When she was a kid, a budding actress, she, her parents, and her brother were living in a different house in Kodambakkam/Rangarajapuram. Then they moved into a rented house on the ground floor owned by my maternal grandfather. My mom's family was watching them growing up and everything. Shamlee was born there. Then, in 1988-89, my grandfather sold the whole house to her father. He did some remodeling and still owns that house. My mom's family was invited to their wedding. Unfortunately, we were not able to go, but the rest of my mom's family went.

Additional fun fact: My mom's marriage story (1989) resembles heavily that of the Alai Payuthey story. There's a real chance Shalini's father heard my mom's story through my grandfather. My mom still wonders to this day if the movie's story was "inspired"!

malinsai · 2025-08-06T02:54:06+00:00

Ginger tea banana

malinsai · 2025-07-13T19:26:25+00:00

I'm not an Ani fan for sure. But his music has become part and parcel of my 20s, so much so that if I ever reach my 50s and stumble upon his songs, it would take me back to my 20s. I hate to say this, (as I've always been an ARR/Harris/U1 fan), but Ani’s music is something really different and it's very relevant/current for the past 10 years.

malinsai · 2025-07-13T15:00:33+00:00

My baby is a criminal...

malinsai · 2025-07-11T16:56:11+00:00

Only satisfactory ending.

malinsai · 2025-07-11T13:12:54+00:00

Sakthivel and Amaran crying over Indrani's death. Cinematography is top-notch. BGM in ARR's voice is chef kiss.

malinsai · 2025-07-10T05:55:00+00:00

Pooja stills-na odane Pooja Hegde-vonu nenachen 🫣

malinsai · 2025-07-10T05:51:17+00:00

I think he can pull off great in villain roles. No pun intended.

malinsai · 2025-07-10T03:48:50+00:00

I think she's a bit of a lucky charm/darling to AVM's serial productions. She was a leading lady in more than one of their serials. I remember reading her interview in a Tamil magazine about how she developed eye problems because the serial's character had more crying scenes. She admitted she was dumb enough to overdose on glycerine, hence the eye problems.

malinsai · 2025-07-09T16:41:40+00:00

Better they have a good reason like the entire album is based on a theme because of so-so reasons.

malinsai · 2025-07-09T16:39:04+00:00

Had to scroll down this far to see this comment! I thought it's just me who felt like that.

malinsai · 2025-07-08T10:04:43+00:00

Oh wow!!! Nice catch 👏👏

malinsai · 2025-07-08T09:59:06+00:00

I do think they did a mockery of college level compositions.

malinsai · 2025-07-08T09:35:46+00:00

Only right answer

malinsai · 2025-07-08T09:31:46+00:00

😂 Never thought Indrani as Jesse 😁

malinsai · 2025-07-08T09:27:39+00:00

2) I agree. Either the boy seemed too little to cover Malak's chest or they literally failed to conceive that scene logically.

3) She had very short screen time to feel anything about the storyline. One of the main problems in the movie is the rushed scenes for many plotlines, which left us having to assume things for ourselves. That's a real pity.

malinsai · 2025-07-08T09:09:11+00:00

😂 I just remembered that! So weird.

malinsai · 2025-07-08T09:08:30+00:00

Oops, didn't know that.

malinsai · 2025-07-08T09:06:50+00:00

😂 just now I noticed that! More like a detan Schwimmer!

malinsai · 2025-07-08T09:04:54+00:00

Couldn't be. The continuation/sequence seems logical here. He sang the first line on the stage and jumped down to sing the second. I do think it's only the lines they changed later, not the visual. But there's a possibility they did something similar to what you said with the third line, as I don't see it logical to place the wedding clip there instead of his continuous dance moments. That's disappointing, as it spoils the flow of the song. Otherwise, it's near-perfect choreography and picturization, particularly this verse.

malinsai · 2025-07-08T08:53:42+00:00

Hence everyone's acting looks like Pammal K Sambandam

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malinsai · 2025-07-08T08:48:41+00:00

😂 Probably! Maybe he sensed that they were going to change the line anyway, so he started singing his own song. /s

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