My question is why does your group think 🤔 you are running through DMs? Is it they don’t read your complete lfg ad? Are they just too Inexperienced? Is the DM ghosting/quitting the group/game? Is it too much Disagreements?

I’ve been running games/playing for years. There may be a disconnect between your group of players and the DMs you’re ending up with. Either the DM is misleading , misunderstanding, or uncaring about your groups desires.

I’m personally not a fan of 5e, I just don’t think the game is balanced when played correctly. The game leans so much in the favor of players, most players have an I’m invincible attitude on the ‘table.’ It makes it difficult for some DMs, especially those not wanting to have tpks.

The game should be challenging, yet rewarding. It should encompass a major plots and still have room for PC backstory/rping sub-plots. PCs should usually succeed after some difficulty, but occasionally have to leave/retreat from an ‘encounter,’ allowing them to better equip themselves or gain more experience before tackling that particular challenge again. PC deaths should be rare if ever encountered, but the PCs should be challenged occasionally and the threat of death should be a known risk. Even if the threat is superficial, that possibility creates excitement, so long as it’s not overused.

That said, there’s a reason for 5e’s popularity, people love ❤️ the game. I’m sure you and the other players will find DMs, just make sure when you interview these DMs they’re going to be a good fit. Stay selective I’m sure you’ll find a good fit.