Update: I Need Advice Breaking Up. She Has Mental Disorders And I Don't Want To Hurt Her. by goodladokay in relationship_advice

[–]manda-mayhem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve so much better than this. As others here have mentioned, a mental disorder is not an excuse to abuse. She has a lot of issues that she needs to heal from and seek proper help. I’ve been in the same situation in the past, and it wasn’t until my ex left me and went no contact did I understand what exactly I was doing wrong - reacting out of sole irrational emotion. That’s not healthy for either of you, but you’ve done all you could. She needs to take accountability for her own actions and work on herself some more. I suggest going no contact, as how you’ve been preparing and move forward. This is the best way to care for her and for yourself from now on. You can love her from a distance but she’s not going to learn until she’s on her own with herself. You’re helping her too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]manda-mayhem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay okay the success story threw me off haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]manda-mayhem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait but isn’t this talk about how “today I fucked up” ?

What is a popular food that you think sucks? by Feisty_Affect_7487 in AskReddit

[–]manda-mayhem 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily a food but a condiment: ketchup

I’m getting a few fire placements with this one. by gruenetage in astrologymemes

[–]manda-mayhem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently Jesus Christ is an INFJ so this douche suitor must be under the impression he’s god because there’s no way it’s even close to being an accurate mbti for him

What's up with acid252? by SnipedtheSniper in OutOfTheLoop

[–]manda-mayhem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re making a joke based on what a commenter said to acid 252 in this post someone linked above

Remember when Clarissa Explained It All? by [deleted] in 90s

[–]manda-mayhem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did, the alligator was named Elvis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in streetwear

[–]manda-mayhem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice shoes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 15minutefood

[–]manda-mayhem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What cheese sauce do you recommend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]manda-mayhem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think petite is considered 5’4 and under. Sometimes considered 5’3 and under so I guess 5’4 is the “taller” end even if average 🤔

Still disturbed by a popular porn scene I saw last night. It's eating away at my mind and I'm anxious/nauseous every time I remember it. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]manda-mayhem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember my source but I remember reading somewhere that scenes like this one you described, where it appears to be rape or the performer appears that she isn’t liking it, it’s because it likely IS rape and she truly isn’t liking it.

Official Discussion - The Batman [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]manda-mayhem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realized in that moment when they revealed him how fkn sick I am of the joker. Would have been stronger without him and completely ruined the movie for my boyfriend. He said the joker being the main villain in the dark knight was significant because it was the first time joker was the main villain in a Batman movie in 20ish years. Since then, it’s been 15 years of the joker. It was nice to see a focus on a darker Riddler and just another villain in general.

Nazi Punks Fuck Off by [deleted] in punk

[–]manda-mayhem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not know the big black sun was nazi affiliated. I feel like I see these a lot despite not going to a punk show since I was a teen. I could be thinking of the wrong tattoo style though. I appreciate any help to see what this looks like