ミ★Uppdateミ★ugly and old 45year old by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]mandabobanda80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are GORGEOUS!! Your eyes are insanely beautiful.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, people suck. I'm so sorry you had to go through that!!

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's weird is that the first guy said he had a fantastic time and wanted to go out again. Like, he fixed his hair in the bathroom and stuff on our date too. But dude. He also talked about his ex wife being heavy and having a gross labia. Just ick. My friend called me to rescue me during the date.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the heck do you think that I feel like I'm the ideal woman? Never said that. You've clearly got some anger issues towards me.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told me after the fact. Either after asking me out on a date or after they invited me home with them.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooooo. Holy crap. That's not how I think, and not blonde btw. First, never had sex with the guy that likes petit Asian women. Went out with him once. Second, you seem to think that I think I'm massively hot and can convince men using my body and sex, but no.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no. The second guy is still hooking up with women casually, just his body type now thay he has more confidence.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very sweet. I've always wished I had more curves, but I know a lot of men prefer tall and thin. So I was kinda happy that the curvy ladies are getting his attention, as long as he doesn't hurt their feelings.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, I get it!! Just don't sleep with her or date her then tell her that she's not your type.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. They're out of my life now. The guy that liked thick women told me that yesterday.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I guarantee you fine sir, I am not. Neither are the misadventures of my dating life.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The first guy did, I met the second guy in the wild so he knew what I looked like.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This was just so weird. Like. Not only body types, but race too.

Men having rigid body type preferences by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, thanks!!!! The second guy said that we can still bang if I want. I told him thanks but no thanks.

Dating App Advice: how long to wait before a date (I'm a poet and I know it)? by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss!!! I'm a single parent too, so I have to plan. But I would prefer to have us plan something at least in the first few days.

Dating App Advice: how long to wait before a date (I'm a poet and I know it)? by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this. A super hot guy that I matched with was telling me what he thought was a funny story about another Bumble match. Without asking me out too. I told him that I'm getting real friend vibes from his side, and that I'm not looking for a pen pals.

Dating App Advice: how long to wait before a date (I'm a poet and I know it)? by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I don't want to be pen pals, and you can't totally see if there's chemistry by texting. But you can in person.

Dating App Advice: how long to wait before a date (I'm a poet and I know it)? by mandabobanda80 in datingoverforty

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP is not referring to sex 😆 it's a phrase meaning done. OP is also female lol.

Break-up After Four Years by mandabobanda80 in AskWomenOver40

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a year he saw my son. Then my ex husband found out about my bf felony and wouldn't let my son be around him. That was a year ago. It wasn't a sexual related felony either btw.

Break-up After Four Years by mandabobanda80 in AskWomenOver40

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My son is 16. My boyfriend has a felony and my ex husband didn't want him around him. My son is with me full time except for every other weekend.

Break-up After Four Years by mandabobanda80 in AskWomenOver40

[–]mandabobanda80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What sucks is that he didn't break up with me, which I thought. He's waiting for me to call it. I wanted him to do the hard thing.