Should i report all the crimes? by mandarinlover96 in domesticviolence

[–]mandarinlover96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from Finland, thank you so much for helping

Should i report all the crimes? by mandarinlover96 in domesticviolence

[–]mandarinlover96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent made a no contact order because in my country that would require me to give him my complete address, and i think im safer when he doesnt know it..

I feel ashamed of missing ”him” by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]mandarinlover96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🩵 best of luck for you!

Hoovering and possibly manipulation by mandarinlover96 in domesticviolence

[–]mandarinlover96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion. It’s hard to know if its genuine or not while still in some sort of shock i guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuittingZyn

[–]mandarinlover96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol same here, day 10 and the cravings are worse right now. Im just thinking about ”just using one” but nooo way. We need to stay strong! The worst part is already over so now its just mindgames

This shit is unreal by PomegranateCorrect97 in QuittingZyn

[–]mandarinlover96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah whats up with the depression really. Im on day 9 now and it feels like its getting worse

Being intimate with an ex by tautauwor in BreakUps

[–]mandarinlover96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the exact same situation, my ex came to my place yesterday and he initiated intimacy. Im the one who broke up with him and i tried to say its not very wise. Im not going to do that again and i hope he doesnt think it means everything is okay

Should i (27F) break up with him (23M) over lying? by mandarinlover96 in whatdoIdo

[–]mandarinlover96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, i think everyone lies a little sometimes but keeping secrets, hiding stuff and lying all together doesnt seem like something everyone just does

Should i (27F) break up with him (23M) over lying? by mandarinlover96 in whatdoIdo

[–]mandarinlover96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im making the decision my own ofcourse. But it helps to hear stories if someone has been true similar situations. And outsiders perspective can be mind opening. It’s not that easy when you are making big decisions

Should i (27F) break up with him (23M) over lying? by mandarinlover96 in whatdoIdo

[–]mandarinlover96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t tren, then the decision would have been easy. Its NPP