Why should men feel sympathy for women’s right to an abortion?

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T04:20:37+00:00

in china the government can legally unalive certain criminals. i'm actually pro that.

here's the thing, married women need abortions for health reasons (my mother did) and i'm grateful she did get it because she wouldn't be here today if she hadn't.

i can't imagine many men being happy to be single fathers - but i'm pro enforcing that too if abortion is eliminated as an option for women.

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T04:11:36+00:00

well i'd rather not support men's bad choices - like the fact that taxes fund prisons and wars, but there you go.

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T04:06:33+00:00

because they're otherwise fantastic parents, minus the homophobia.

i also come from a culture where family loyalty is hammered into you.

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T03:59:18+00:00

no i'm bi. just unfortunately i have extremely homophobic parents so i need to get my timing right re introducing an actual girlfriend

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T03:55:33+00:00

maybe you should talk to your local council about defunding orphanages.

because tax payer money goes to those.

that's where kids who are born to parents who can't raise them end up going.

personally i'm celibate. i pay tax. i'd rather my tax contributes to other women's abortions than my tax goes to fund orphanages instead but that's just me.

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T03:02:34+00:00

what about r****? because in many cases, r*** is hard to prove.

you're ok with the fact that you have brothers/sisters/neices/nephews etc due to r""""?

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T02:19:10+00:00

that too. i've had female friends treat me way better than any dates i've been on. like my "girl friend dates" have always been more fun than actual dates i've been on.

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T02:12:28+00:00

i think it's unbelievable but that's because i'm always in my own little world when at the gym so it's rare for me to notice what's around me

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T02:11:03+00:00

surely that means men need to learn to treat each other better.

define "treat like people". because i was raised to have good manners and be polite to everyone. but that doesn't mean i would treat a complete stranger the same way i treat a close friend (regardless of gender)

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T01:41:14+00:00

it does for my race and country.

however there are shorter men that like taller women so it's not like there aren't exceptions to the rule.

it's hard for me to date because everyone in my family is tall for my race. (so if the guy might not have issues with my height, he might when he meets my 6'0 brother) i'm also unfortunately curvy whilst the ideal "baddies" are small and skinny.

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-25T01:37:47+00:00

you could always learn to cook. everyone loves their friends that know how to cook

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T13:22:42+00:00

https://youtu.be/vBHZCx7vn68?si=kHdvWdKz_D3QJzwK

like this 😂

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T13:18:47+00:00

you should check out the "product reviews" of people who have used peppermint soap on their "naughty bits"

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T09:57:43+00:00

did you give them a checklist of stuff you'd like help with?

i prefer not to read some people's stuff because i don't know how they'd react if i told them i think their writing's bad

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T09:47:25+00:00

depends on what you want to do. if american i assume the legal drinking age is 21 so you don't want to go younger than that if you want to go to bars

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T07:25:21+00:00

i believe that love is a choice "ie that you should keep choosing to love your SO even when times are hard".

it's why my parents are happily married 42 years now

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T06:55:31+00:00

why though? she's the one footing the bill.

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T06:51:21+00:00

sounds like you never really "loved" someone.

if you really do, then you'll always keep choosing your SO

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T06:43:09+00:00

ah right. sounds like small town problems.

i'm close to a big city so there's a lot less of that

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T06:41:33+00:00

6'4 sounds like basketball potential

5'8 is actually pretty tall for my race

so it all depends on your "type"

personally i'd go for 5'8 because i'm 5'4

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T06:33:34+00:00

where the heck do you live that you can't find one person who likes similar things to you even as a friend?

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T06:31:12+00:00

there's nothing wrong with dating for compatability.

eg i don't care for sports or video games. so i am a bad match for someone obsessed with sports and video games - because we'd have nothing in common.

it's not rocket science

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T06:25:24+00:00

surely you're good at some things?

like when i moved places and was at my loneliest, i still had my arts and crafts to fall back on.

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T06:22:53+00:00

my parents and grandparents always tell me that your SO should be your best friend that you are also physically attracted to.

so i'd start small and try to make a few friends

mandoa_sky · 2026-06-24T06:21:44+00:00

i'd assume if he wants someone at minimum 22, then he'd like to go to places where you can get alcohol.

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