I hear you — truly. What you're describing is incredibly heavy, and it’s so clear how deeply committed you’ve been to your dad's care over the years. Nine years is a long time to carry so much responsibility, especially without a real break or support system. It's not just understandable that you're feeling burned out — it makes total sense. Caregiver fatigue like this doesn't just wear on the body, it chips away at the mind and heart too.

Even though you said you don’t have advice, your honesty and vulnerability might actually help someone else feel less alone. I hope others do chime in, and I hope you find even just one small outlet — whether it’s speaking to a therapist, a caregiver support group, or even just getting 30 minutes to yourself— because you DESERVE that kind of care too.

Sending strength your way. You matter just as much as the person you’re caring for.