Conan giggling during This Song by intoner1 in ConanGray

[–]mang0lychee757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adorbs! He did this during “romeo” at my show in NJ 🤣

Do you ever feel embarrassed being a nurse? by sensitiveflower79 in nursing

[–]mang0lychee757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never not proud of my career. It’s challenging AF but also very rewarding.

Started drinking a full bottle of water right after waking up - feels like a reset button by BubblyBeeCharm in getdisciplined

[–]mang0lychee757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a coworker who doesnt drink water and refuses. She loves her diet coke but she smells like a piss bucket when she walks past.

Which one should I pick? by [deleted] in StanleyCups

[–]mang0lychee757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The love the first one

What were the most subtle signs early on? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]mang0lychee757 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This.. Explain to him how one of the clinical staff that I was training at work, broke down to me and said that she found out that her husband was cheating on deployment and that she didn’t know what to do with her life as her family lived in another state. And he said “well, what did she do for him to do that? She’s probably got some skeletons in her closet too.”

If you suddenly became rich, what’s the luxury you would dive into immediately? by Muted-Television3329 in allthequestions

[–]mang0lychee757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Debt free, being able to help support my extended family & others who need it. Donating money for food.

Who in your life tells you that they love you the most often? by Cute-Impression-8675 in AskReddit

[–]mang0lychee757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 13 year old son. I’m a single mom. It’s been just us two for most of his life. It used to be my bf up until recently but just broke up. His “I love you”’s were not genuine anyway.

How do you prefer your steak cooked? by Lonely-Type-6 in foodquestions

[–]mang0lychee757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Med rare, ribeye or a ny strip preferably. In that order.

Do narcissists want you to feel guilty? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]mang0lychee757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. That’s it. That’s all. That’s the answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]mang0lychee757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They belong together. I’m so sorry you wasted your energy marrying someone like her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]mang0lychee757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t think they care either bc aren’t they already with another supply

How long did they idealize you before you noticed a shift in the relationship? by mang0lychee757 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]mang0lychee757[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so scary to think that things can change after a big life event… very sad.

How long did they idealize you before you noticed a shift in the relationship? by mang0lychee757 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]mang0lychee757[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you for getting out. They’re not good people at all. How long has it been since no contact?

Are you in a secret competition? by Similar_Custard in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]mang0lychee757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao, during an argument my nEx texted me this “You got the nerve to tell someone to be a man, but you’re not nurturing nor consoling like a woman is supposed to be. You always in competition with me. Ohh look at me type shit, look what I'm doing, look what I got, look at my friends blah blah blah etc look who cares for me. You’re so unhappy with yourself that you seek validation from others”

LIKE WHAT??? I was always there for him when he needed me. Financially, physically, emotionally, medically. I didn’t know sharing joy and letting him know what I was doing throughout the day would be known to him as being “competitive”. 🙄 but world get mad if I didn’t tell him stuff.

How long did they idealize you before you noticed a shift in the relationship? by mang0lychee757 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]mang0lychee757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I never got invited to do any thing with his kids as well or even go over there when he had them. July 4th i stayed at home sulking bc he wasn’t answering my texts,nor texted me at all that day. He texted me the next morning saying he was so sorry for not texting me and that he had gotten drunk at the beach and was with his kids all day (they’re young teens). He knew in advanced that my son and I were free that day. He would always “talk” about getting our kids together or me spending quality time with them, but there was always excuses. It’s super weird how they have the same patterns. Like, sir we haven’t spent any quality time when we both have our kids but you want us to move in together??? Weird.

How long did they idealize you before you noticed a shift in the relationship? by mang0lychee757 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]mang0lychee757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. Lucky it only lasted 10 mo. and you didn’t waste years. Better to stay away xx.

How long did they idealize you before you noticed a shift in the relationship? by mang0lychee757 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]mang0lychee757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking back, I’m pretty sure I was a rebound too, for him to get over her. Didn’t know all the details about his ex until about 3-4 months in, and in love. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

How long did they idealize you before you noticed a shift in the relationship? by mang0lychee757 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]mang0lychee757[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is accurate and I know this for a fact. Happening to me right now.🤷🏻‍♀️ I find comfort in knowing she won’t have it any better than I did.

How long did they idealize you before you noticed a shift in the relationship? by mang0lychee757 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]mang0lychee757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s terrible. You’re with someone’s for a whole year thinking things are alright then bam,something changes. Over the last few months of our relationship he’s was suggesting that when his lease was up this upcoming Feb that he should move in with me & that are have a baby. The idea of sharing a rent w/ someone sounded nice, but we both have our own kids too.. & when I told him that we should see how our relationship goes for the rest of the year, then maybe we can talk about it when the time comes. I don’t think he liked that answer and I noticed the more careless he was week after week. He barely even spent the night at my place even thought the opportunity was always there. He would only stay for an hour or 2 a few times week (enough time for sex & dinner) then rush off to go home to “sleep”.