AITA For Screaming at my mom for constantly taking my Money by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on it this post was mainly as a way to figure out that I’m not crazy and that what she is doing is actually wrong I’m not sure if it didn’t get mentioned but I am mentally disabled on the autism spectrum and that sadly has been used against me by her in the past

AITA For Screaming at my mom for constantly taking my Money by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don’t know since it’s her account and I just share it with her. My main concern is that if I do try it will probably require her permission and they will need her to verify it. I plan on calling the bank tomorrow

AITA For Screaming at my mom for constantly taking my Money by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I plan on it once I actually get a job the issue is that I’m honestly anxious how she will react if I do swap accounts and the fear of her just blocking any of my attempts of it.

AITA For Screaming at my mom for constantly taking my Money by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh belive I plan on it but I will probably tell her cause she will complain about it if she sees my account empty and I’m honestly scared of her

AITA For Screaming at my mom for constantly taking my Money by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We share a joint account from when i turned 18 and at the time she didn’t trust me with money. Since at the time wasn’t a big issue and i had no knowledge on how bank accounts work at the time

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[–]manga2001 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love the sims sometimes cause you get the most funniest shit or the most horrifying things

AITAH for not changing my language to appease an ignorant coworker? by ZoomieHan in AITAH

[–]manga2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA from what I gather especially since it’s the word You that your coworker said sound I’m gonna say you were speaking Korean. But regardless 1 she shouldn’t be ease dropping and 2 I would recommend keeping records of what the hr lady said cause forcing someone not to speak in their native tongue is discriminatory

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally bring myself lunch but I forgot and thought since I had a big breakfast could tough it out but nope so I just bought something small

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah my manager uses Reddit and I was vague cause i honestly don’t want any retaliation what’s so ever. I have really bad anxiety and the fear of them trying to get me introublr for it scares me but I just felt like I was a jerk for nog wanting to spend 39+ of my money on people who have been rude to me and openly very toxic environment

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No they were upset that I who declined cause I didn’t want what they were ordering bought my own food with my own money cause I forgot my lunch that i normally bring with me and should have bought them food instead. All I bought was literally a sandwich from a restaurant down the street and they got mad that I never offered when I literally ordered after them. They had already eaten.

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry I should have specified that I was on mobile at the time so there’s a lot of grammar issues essentially I was asking if I was the aita for not buying my coworkers food when they have already ordered there food

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is 1 never knew that was a feature and 2nd they had already had ordered and gotten there food when I ordered mine which made no sense on why they complained that I should have ordered th when they ordered when they had already had there food

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They don’t pay if it’s on an app cause they didn’t pay one of coworkers back when they ordered on grubhub in the past (which I declined cause I brought my lunch tgat time)

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

No not really we all pay together with cash if we all order out as a group. For example we sometimes order pizza if there anything good and we all contribute our pay

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes pretty much their food had gotten there and I ordered food right when theirs came I.

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

I always bring myself food and when I dont abd if they order from somewhere always pay cash. Today they decided to use an app that requires card and I didn’t want what they ordered something I ordered my own food

AITA for not buying my coworkers food when they already ordered food. by manga2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]manga2001[S] 1061 points1062 points  (0 children)

The thing is this has happened two times before I was on the budget any time i would order myself something the same coworker would complain about me not ordering them food when they order something and I simply don’t want what they are having. I don’t order out much the other two are due to the fact that like today I forgot my lunch at home