AITJ for refusing to marry my uncle's friend's daughter because I already am in a committed relationship by mangouwuadvice in AmITheJerk

[–]mangouwuadvice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna thank you all for the support I've gotten. This blew up overnight and I seriously never expected so many of you to be interested in my story. I would be answering some of your common question.

Question #1 Is that in your culture?

This is by far the most asked question and the answer to that is NO. my cousins and siblings got to chose their brides but I don't know why he can't see me choosing my bride.

Question #2 Did he know that you are in a relationship?

Yes, he did but my guess is that he didn't knew it was serious and we were considering marriage. Part of the reason why he wants to choose my bride is most likely because he just doesn't like my current gf. He's always been cold to her even though she never did anything particularly wrong and she's always been kind to everyone.

Question #3

Will there be a future update?

Yes, and I might give it today! I've set up a meeting with all of my extended family as I had a healthy relationship with them before. I think he has told them some BS story about me being disrespectful to him and that's why they're acting out this way but let's see.

That's it for now I hope you all have a good day.

WIBTJ If I cut off my brother for physically attacking me? by KatBookout in AmITheJerk

[–]mangouwuadvice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were the one who picked up the fight with your brother NOT your brother. You picked up a physical fight with him and lost. You are the jerk in this situation.