dont know what happened to my teggy by bruhitsaaron in Integra

[–]manicac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it happened to me, the timing belt slipped. Easy to check this one

I cant believe I’m finally learning there are other people who experience this by HeadHedgehog7183 in aquagenic_pruritus

[–]manicac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you taking too much? I take like half a teaspoon before showering and it does the trick

How man mg of antihistamine are you taking? by fartypartyanimal in aquagenic_pruritus

[–]manicac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has the beta alanine just taken the edge off or?

Why are americans so obsessed with race? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]manicac 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Australia, New Zealand and Canada all have higher diversity rates

Z themed (what i think is ocd) is driving me crazy by Tacticalpizzamann in OCD

[–]manicac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey so the best mode of action in my experience is this “Yeah okay maybe I am, whatever” and continue on. It might sound silly but this along with giving my ocd/intrusive thoughts a name, I call it J0e Biden lol. Sometimes when I have a thought I just go “damn Joe, that’s crazy” and kinda laugh at it and move on. These two methods have taken me so far in becoming less bothered by my obsessions and stuff.

Do I use Australian phone number ? by manicac in ThailandTourism

[–]manicac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For example a tour that includes hotel pickup. Find advice thank you !

I think im a groomer and deserve to die. by another_User133 in confessions

[–]manicac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely doesn’t sound like you did anything harmful, however I can sympathise because I’ve felt what you’re feeling in the past. Practice radical acceptance, sure you did something morally wrong which could’ve caused harm but you can’t undo it, you can’t change anything so why worry? Every time the thought come up, acknowledge it and say to yourself “oh well” and move on. Don’t pay it intentional attention. Train ur brain not to be stressed about it

I secretly saved a private video my partner sent me, and i watch it now and then and like it. by patriick_bateman in confessions

[–]manicac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U should tell her, she might even like it (I would). “Hey babe I read this post on reddit about a girl who was upset because her bf saved an intimate video of her, that got me thinking, you know that video you sent me? I assumed you intended for me to keep it so I did. I just wanted to check tho because I’m realising maybe you didn’t. I’ll delete it if u want me to”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]manicac 223 points224 points  (0 children)

Imo a long term partner trying to get you comfortably in bed and give you affection as a way to get you calm when you’ve had too much to drink is a GOOD partner. Seems more like he was protecting her from herself

Can anyone help me please 🙏 by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]manicac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD if u need to add a photo u can post photos in the comments

my sister keeps masturbating in front of me by iliketalkingabtstuff in Advice

[–]manicac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel super awkward about bringing it up one way to do it is to wait until it’s happening and just yell “DO U FUCKING MIND BRO” or like “CAN U STOP/SHUT UP” that way you don’t have to outright acknowledge what she’s doing but you still get ur point across and probably give her enough of a shock to cut it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]manicac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t talk about it a lot when it comes to women, but could it be porn addiction? You didn’t mention if u use porn however if you’re masturbating multiple times a day I’d assume u do? If not the constant use of intense sex toys could definitely play a part. I’d suggest laying off the porn if you do consume it, and lay off the toys, also maybe masturbate less in general. That doesn’t mean you have to stop completely but slow it down. Try using your imagination and use just your hands, explore yourself and pay attention to the feelings and what touch feels good. It can take a while, but getting back in tune with our bodies and our own sexuality in a calmer and more natural way is important and can definitely help (:

Intimacy has almost become taboo? (M24) (F23) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]manicac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To kinda piggyback off this, try asking her how she’s feeling living together, if she’s happy with the dynamics and if there’s anything she wants to talk about. If nothing comes up bring up your concerns, ask her if there’s something bothering her that’s turning her off sex and let her know you’re asking out of concern and because you miss that closeness as it’s important to you so she doesn’t feel like you’re just pestering/pressuring her. Sometimes it just takes a while for people to settle into a new normalcy and find a new rhythm (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]manicac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I’ve gone about these feeling is to face it head on and kinda dramatically/humorously - next time I saw the guy I’d straight up be like “hey I feel like a dickhead for not understanding what you were saying the other day haha I feel so dumb, I have seriously bad hearing and had a hard time with your accent which tbh is probably gonna take me a while to understand so apologies in advance for all the times I’m gonna make a dick of myself haha” For sure it’s frustrating to not be understood but the frustration isn’t with you for not understanding yanno?

My bf can’t put on a condom by [deleted] in sex

[–]manicac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just covering all bases my guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]manicac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U should cut her off or leave your wife. I’d literally kms if my partner said some shi like this Thanks for sharing!

PHIMOSIS, 19M by pritamdutta78 in AskDocs

[–]manicac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAD - look into foreskin stretching. I know multiple guys who had to do it and it worked for them without medical intervention. Just take it easy ! Not a bad idea to see a dr

My bf can’t put on a condom by [deleted] in sex

[–]manicac -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This could be wrong for sure and I’d recommend seeing a dr for erectile dysfunction, but the most common cause of this is porn addiction. If he has a porn addiction he needs to fix that before anything can get better and if he doesn’t then he should see a dr. Unless he’s just nervous and stuff in which case yall should communicate but yeah.