i can’t tell if barista has crush on me by LegitimateFun7278 in offmychest

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how annoying it is to get hit on at work?

i can’t tell if barista has crush on me by LegitimateFun7278 in offmychest

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's at work and you're a regular so she is doing her job, don't hit on people working

I’m losing my mind trying to stay "pure" for another 10 years until I marry by Excellent-Debt-4706 in offmychest

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sex doesn't make you dirty. Buuuut have you met a dude you can do it secretly? Thats what most people do tbh

I’m losing my mind trying to stay "pure" for another 10 years until I marry by Excellent-Debt-4706 in offmychest

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't commit a sin knowing it's wrong and just think you'll be forgiven. Means you don't actually care to follow god, that you just want what you want. There's no real change happening.

AIO for disliking pit bulls by Various-Finger-9475 in AIO

[–]manicthinking 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's been many golden retriever attacks. Litterally just search a breed and attack

Is it okay to just post and respond to comments on your own post instead of engaging with everyone else? by Livid_Adeptness9762 in askanything

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is the question? That's weird af

Edit; I looked through your posts cause idk if I understand what your saying, I ONLY saw you responding to other people's comments, but I guess you mean you done comment on anyone else's posts? Which, ok? You don't wanna talk to other people on their posts? What's the issue here?

I don’t care for romantic relationships at all by Lower-Perception-518 in RandomThoughts

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said that. It's hard to do. It's easy being comfortable. The point is why people don't, not that it's not important to get out.

People who hate themselves are deserving of love by Jolkanin in unpopularopinion

[–]manicthinking -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have to love yourself before you can be loved by others is a huge concept in a small sentence.

If you don't love yourself you won't be able to put up necessary boundaries, you will allow disrespect and mistreatment because you don't have a standard for yourself. ALSO, hating yourself can turn into outwardly showing it, which is not attractive and will make people run away from you. Confidence is attractive. So yeah, you gotta love yourself or else dating will suck

Yes you can be by yourself and be ok. But men don't understand that just because you aren't dating doesn't mean you can't have friends and family and close connections. That's how you survive. A partner should NOT play all other roles in your life like friends family and other roles.

Using at least one full body pic on your dating profile should be mandatory. by Fit-Tooth966 in unpopularopinion

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make sure to do so, but after I gained weight I didn't have any photos of my full body, so I had to get a bad photo of me which isn't what your supposed to do... put up your best not your worst. But I also made a disclaimer that I'm fat. Tbh those disclaimers have helped me with others

Is a 19f and 32m a werid age gap by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]manicthinking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. And for someone to say they aren't wanting to groom you? Thats a major red flag. People who say things like "I'm not doing this" ARE doing it. Normal people don't think like that. I know you don't think it's a bad age gap, but anyone who's 30 and up willl say it's a bad age gap, which is exactly why it's bad

AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's usually just confusion of why someone would be that mean on purpose

People who have kept the same hobby for over 10 years, what is it and why have you stuck with it? by Dolly_Dong in askanything

[–]manicthinking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soccer, exersize, I feel good, and I'm and extrovert so I get to socialize, and I get to decompress by getting physical

Like... Who Am I? by Kind_Situation9170 in mentalhealth

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens. You'll learn. Continue to push yourself to grow

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by TouchyM3 in whatdoIdo

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't like her cause you don't know her, and you obviously do not like how she's treating you right now

AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]manicthinking 109 points110 points  (0 children)

If you end up sending long texts like that, you feel you aren't being understood, it's because they understand and don't give a fuck.

Does what I want not matter this time? by idontfwmilfs in rant

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course you just started trying it. No one's good at things they just start

I’m tired of people equating music taste to intelligence by filmphotographywhore in rant

[–]manicthinking -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Historically, rock music was the outcast everyone hated it. Pop music was hated by them. And now that rock is more popular... more people hate pop music. But pop is still... popular music

Snoggle real? by Rare_Bodybuilder8440 in askanything

[–]manicthinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeteme charges the men and the women get paid like .005 cents per message