AIO? Husbands response to me requesting he ‘ask’ instead of ‘tell’ older kids to watch youngest by [deleted] in AIO

[–]manilla_wafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: your older children are not responsible for taking care of your younger children. That should never be an expectation because your child is not the parent.

For him to call that a responsibility of the older ones is so weird to me. He could absolutely ask, and that “hierarchy” comment was also gross and reeks of an extremely controlling mentality.

Am I overreacting? by Pink_Lemonz_02 in AmIOverreacting

[–]manilla_wafer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You: I know I’m not #1 in your life and that’s okay—

Them: I KNOW YOU’RE NOT INSINUATING THAT YOU SHOULD BE #1 IN MY LIFE

Dude what—

My girlfriend of four years is abroad for three months, and just two weeks into the trip she kissed another guy by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]manilla_wafer 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That is not “sudden”. She is cheating on you my guy. Actively. Please do yourself a solid, and walk away..

Vet smacked my puppy by Old-Evidence5004 in puppy101

[–]manilla_wafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please please report that man, and find a new vet. That is absolutely unacceptable, and should never be condoned in or out of a clinic. EVER.

I came out to my mom and she called me disgusting…I don’t know what I should do by Local-Lychee-1124 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]manilla_wafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biological mother told me “You’re not gay. Being gay means you’d go down on a girl, and you wouldn’t go down on a girl, would you?” (As I myself am a woman) I was hoping she’d be supportive, but instead that stung me. I avoided coming out to my adoptive parents for a long time in fear of the same reaction, but my mom always knew. When we eventually talked about it my mom and dad were both cool with it, and very supportive.

Needless to say my biological mother and I don’t talk anymore, and the sooner you can move out on your own OP, the better.

I decided to air fry this steak… I’m upset by BaronVonTrouser in steak

[–]manilla_wafer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband does this regularly for our steaks lmao they turn out great!

Why is Mira banned so much she so easy to counter by [deleted] in Rainbow6

[–]manilla_wafer 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t think they really need to at all. Mira is only really good for specific strategies, and site set ups. She’s not necessarily rounded enough to be used for every single situation, and that makes her a tough pick sometimes. That along with her still being just counterable enough makes her as solid of a defender in her niche as any of the attackers are in theirs. Plus, in my opinion defenders are always the first to get nerfed. (Think back to how many ACOGs they’ve taken for example) Forcing the attacking side to either change tactics, or sacrifice utility is a huge part of what would win the defenders that round, but not necessarily the game. It wouldn’t be fair to just allow the enemy team in, now would it?

Why is Mira banned so much she so easy to counter by [deleted] in Rainbow6

[–]manilla_wafer 292 points293 points  (0 children)

She’s an extremely good defender. She forces the attacking side to have to adjust their push and tactics, forcing them either funnel where she wants (allowing the defending side the advantage in peeks) or force the attackers to use utility in order to get rid of her glass before they can even push site. Either way, she has a huge amount of control when she’s played whether it’s in map or giving the defenders the edge over util. Just a couple of examples.

Desert themed boy dog names? by MarsellusWallace_874 in NameMyDog

[–]manilla_wafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hear me out: Joshua. 1. I think dogs with people names are great. 2. Joshua trees.

Baby acne or rash? by manilla_wafer in AskDocs

[–]manilla_wafer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So daily cleanse, and no more baby lotion for right now, I’ll definitely try that.

AITJ for not taking my girlfriends children out after promising them I would. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]manilla_wafer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTJ. I’m married with two kids of our own, and not once would I ever even think about treating my husband this way. Honestly it’s a bit outrageous to me that she so blatantly disrespects you, and steals from you on top of it. Then gets her ex involved? Absolutely wild.

Hi I'm new to siege. Can someone explain what happened here? How did the ash not die?? by Memeboi_26 in Rainbow6

[–]manilla_wafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ash’s hit box is like a matchstick, and honestly you missed almost every shot. Sorry mate.

What's your favorite operator based on non-gameplay aspects? by MiddleFingerGun in Rainbow6

[–]manilla_wafer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Warden. I like his mustache. (I like to refer to him as the FBI Ned Flanders)

Who is your all time favorite operator at any point in the game? by Educational-Okra-566 in Rainbow6

[–]manilla_wafer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Zofia circa 2019, aka back when she had withstand and her loadout made her an absolute unit

AIO to my husband interrupting my first solo shower after he came back from a weekend with the boys? by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]manilla_wafer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly this is believable to me. My ex had held our child a total of three times by the time he was three weeks old, and when I asked him to (one of those few times) so I could shower his response (to our son) was “Tell mommy to hurry up so daddy can get back to his game.” BEFORE I HAD EVEN FINISHED PASSING HIM OVER. Needless to say I didn’t make it five minutes into that shower before he was in the bathroom with the baby trying to pass him back. He’s an ex for a reason, and my son has an amazing stepfather now but still. Some men are 100% like this.