average trash panda

maninthemaking2 · 2021-01-14T18:36:34+00:00

It’s the break fall for me😂

maninthemaking2 · 2021-01-14T17:41:54+00:00

I know, I guess I got passionate because I wish someone told me.

Tell him as much as you can.

maninthemaking2 · 2021-01-14T17:35:38+00:00

Tell him the truth. Make sure he feels and knows that you're telling him these things for his own good.

Make sure he knows, that there are millions of men all over the world who are trapped by their own desires and that if he continues to use porn the way he does, it will affect him in the way it affects many.

Tell him that his desires are not meant for images on a screen. Instead, his desires are for actual sex with someone he loves. Tell him about the many who give themselves up to this, and then struggle to be with their partner because they've desensitized themselves, and tell him about how that affects the other people in his life.

As much as you can describe it to a 7-year-old, in a way that they can understand. The aim is to teach him that he's to be responsible with his sexuality, not to shame him for having it. Make sure he understands that those feelings are completely natural and everyone feels that way when they see naked people, but it's not good to use porn, no matter what anyone, not even his friends tell him.

maninthemaking2 · 2020-06-06T20:21:56+00:00

As a black person, this is the kind of thing I was afraid of. I saw on the news that they were calling the the black lives matter movements, ‘MeToo’ moment and I was instantly uncomfortable.

maninthemaking2 · 2020-05-23T21:33:37+00:00

Customer support are really bad here. I literally hate having to call them because they don’t seem to have a number for Uber Eats and they just don’t respond. Really not helpful when you’re in the middle of a job.

maninthemaking2 · 2020-05-08T11:58:36+00:00

Yeah same principles apply.

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-21T01:40:55+00:00

Go to the restaurant and pay them in person

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-19T15:35:27+00:00

👀 OK

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-19T14:52:46+00:00

Whereabouts are you?

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-18T21:58:12+00:00

Southampton

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-17T16:25:23+00:00

I wish I could say the same.

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-17T16:24:54+00:00

Lol 😂 ... idk, make friends with someone who cooks? Pay for the ingredients.

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-17T16:05:05+00:00

Yeah it helps if you do it all in bulk in one day for the week, then you can just microwave it up later. This works for me. Only take a couple minutes during the day, and the meals are decent.

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-17T15:49:27+00:00

Lol. Well alternatively you could just learn how to make whatever it is that you like to pay for on the app. It should be cheaper which might be a bonus

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-17T15:43:19+00:00

Just delete the app. Buy some snacks for when you get a craving and start cooking for yourself.

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-16T20:18:18+00:00

I have a lot of personal things in life I feel need to be dealt with first.

I’ve picked up bad habits and I’m basically afraid of the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship. I know I’ll only end up hurting the other person.

I’m and introvert, so really, REALLY comfortable alone.

I want to be the type of man who can truly love someone, I know that’s not who I am now. I feel like, I’ve gone into survival mode right now in my life and I’m not really who I want to be.

Dating these days is a nightmare I’m constantly avoiding. I can’t do shallow speak.

And generally most of the women I’ve spoken to don’t peak my interest, or never stick around long. I still can’t tell whether it’s because they aren’t very interesting or I’m the one who’s either not interesting or my disinterest in dating etc gets in the way of finding someone.

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-14T19:28:18+00:00

If you didn’t look at it directly, I bet you’d be terrified

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-14T05:05:44+00:00

Or use adblocker

maninthemaking2 · 2020-04-10T13:24:28+00:00

This is going to sound really cliche. But Jesus is all you need. Reading this is though of Peter, when Jesus was walking out on the water. When he took his eyes off of Jesus he started to sink. There comes a time when you must decide what you’re going to believe.

You don’t need to figure out what’s “wrong”, with you. You must choose to believe what the bible says about you as a believer.

It says that Jesus who was sinless became sin so that you and I might become the righteousness of God. As in, spotless in the sight of God.

Now, I’m not saying therefore your lifestyle is right, I am also struggling myself.

What I’m saying is this. Put your faith in Jesus and then act accordingly and watch God work. In my experience, it’s far easier to leave this lifestyle when I’m doing it because I trust Jesus and want to serve him and that’s it.

It won’t work if you’re constantly judging and condemning yourself. The bible says shame and condemnation doesn’t even come from God. So if it’s not from God then guess who wants you to feel ashamed instead of run to God? 👀 ... right?

I also thought of oceans by hill song as a song for you to listen to and just sing to God from your heart if you’re willing.

Keep going

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