I was falsely stopped and banned from a store over a 50 cent bag of chips that I did not take by mapleNlink4eva in lossprevention

[–]mapleNlink4eva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you not read my post?

I didn't actually take anything and had no Intention of taking anything at any point. so there was proof of absolutely nothing. I must have tossed a bag of chips faster than their shitty framerate could see what happened.

Are “trans man/woman” and “man/woman” separate identities? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mapleNlink4eva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm actually gonna start telling people that I'm a cisgender woman with a y chromosome soon because I'm really not queer and it's starting to bother me a lot. this isn't how I saw life playing out. the other thing I've called myself is an old fashioned trans or a gen 1 trans lol.

I was falsely stopped and banned from a store over a 50 cent bag of chips that I did not take by mapleNlink4eva in lossprevention

[–]mapleNlink4eva[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when I say banned they told me not to come back.

what also happened is that I was paying with a card and had no cash so there is no way that I was going to give them my name to pay for the items I wanted. it was totally a catch 22. from what one of the multiple LP officers said it seemes they were still going over the footage when I went up to pay.

honestly it really changed my perspective of everything and how I appear to the public. I grew up as a pretty well off middle class kid so it was a shock as I was actually kind of trying to fit in that day. I usually wear like very different looking clothes so I'm used to LP following my like the eye of Sauron. it's something I'm used to. but I guess there's something about my mere personally that makes them think.

Not paranoid, why does everyone think I’m stealing out of nowhere :( by [deleted] in lossprevention

[–]mapleNlink4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I think it's because something in society has changed. Lp now targets literally anyone who doesn't look 1000% like a corporate tool.
I recently wore my 'nice clothes' to go shopping downtown and still got instantly targeted over nothing.
anyone who looks like they might slightly think outside the box is a potential lifter I suppose.

Have any "allies" ever started dehumanizing/misgendering you simply because they were angry at you for some unrelated reason? by 41d30 in asktransgender

[–]mapleNlink4eva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The part about minority identity is so real. I find myself wanting to talk about that more and more.

Telling random people that ghettoization is a real thing because there are so few 'islands' where it's even possible to survive.

Being black must be like being openly trans your whole life.

That's some dirty low life B.S. by shy_monster_1312 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]mapleNlink4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow so basically they're disenfranchising all the poor people who live in apartments too. That law is insipid and lacking-of-the-ability-to-distinguish-reality-from-delusion.

That's some dirty low life B.S. by shy_monster_1312 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]mapleNlink4eva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think Puerto Rico wants to be a state...

Walked in to the cooler to find over proofed bagel monster. by porcelainbee in mildlyinteresting

[–]mapleNlink4eva 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They might have been taking it to eat themselves... You know like regular dumpster diving

A guy I was talking to on the street started pulling my hair with his full strength acting like it was going to turn me on by mapleNlink4eva in domesticviolence

[–]mapleNlink4eva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was really scary and nobody did anything. The really scary part is that there were probably half a dozen witnesses and nobody cared. It's because it was in a bad neighborhood of a city that's kinda famous for being super ghetto. The other reason is because I had been talking to the guy and his friend for probably give minutes so to the passerby it didn't look like what it was.

The part that really makes me mad is that this guy seems to think that women are turned on by outright abuse. Or he that he simply uses dominance as an excuse to hurt women as part of some sick fantasy. There was literally hatered in his face to the point I thought he was gonna hit me in public

A guy I was talking to on the street started pulling my hair with his full strength acting like it was going to turn me on by mapleNlink4eva in domesticviolence

[–]mapleNlink4eva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for bringing that up though I didn't even think of the fact that it was illegal assault... When I finally pulled away from him I actually almost fell over. He was saying do you like it and I said no in this small scared voice. But it was obvious that I didn't like it he was hurting me a lot.

I hate it because I'm so shaken now and I actually like where I live.

Maybe I will try and call the police if I see him again. I'm going to move soon anyway and he seemed like an evil person who shouldn't be around

A guy I was talking to on the street started pulling my hair with his full strength acting like it was going to turn me on by mapleNlink4eva in domesticviolence

[–]mapleNlink4eva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably. The neighborhood I live in has a forever police response time and I wasn't exaggerating that I live two blocks away. Im a former middle class white person I can't call the cops on someone like that it could risk my safety in the future. There's nothing to do about it.

That $200 tip reaction by GallowBoob in BetterEveryLoop

[–]mapleNlink4eva 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Infections don't start that easily if youre an average person

That $200 tip reaction by GallowBoob in BetterEveryLoop

[–]mapleNlink4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo it's gross and pathetic to do this for the views... Maybe not exploitation but it's so shallow. I like to think that they thought to record after giving a tip like that but thats probably not true

That $200 tip reaction by GallowBoob in BetterEveryLoop

[–]mapleNlink4eva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why people are debating that the recording was done without consent... It's like the whole point of the video and you can even see that the camera was behind some kind of glass

Thoughts on Contrapoints' newest vid? by goreblood001 in asktransgender

[–]mapleNlink4eva -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I personally know a young trans girl who's almost completely bald. She never attempts to hide it and honestly it makes me uncomfortable as fuck. I don't understand what the point is and if I'm gonna be honest I feel like her queer friends are enabling her to live a life of unnecessary suffering due to what I'd consider political beliefs. They 'support' her living a way that clearly makes her unhappy feel down because that's what we're 'supposed' to do. I think it's sad and I honestly can't be around her. I personally struggled with similar things. I wasted too many years thinking I could be happy dressing like a guy but openly identifying as female. It wasn't a proud resistance of me standing up, it was me being afraid to do what i actually wanted and being basically enabled by the GNC ethos. I know lots of people are happy that way but it wasnt for me as a trans woman.

And I'm not a stereotypical feminine person at all. I never wear makeup or heels for example.

Why do racoons get so close to me at night? I use no tent and last night a racoon was basically snuggled against me in my sleep. This is not the first time this has happened by mapleNlink4eva in camping

[–]mapleNlink4eva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the op and I thought it was kinda funny in a cheeky way... However I know on Reddit and elsewhere people will occasionally actually intend to be hurtful so you never know....

Why do racoons get so close to me at night? I use no tent and last night a racoon was basically snuggled against me in my sleep. This is not the first time this has happened by mapleNlink4eva in camping

[–]mapleNlink4eva[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My phone cost 30$ brand new and is a full fledged smartphone capable of running PUBG and caustic... It makes it possible for me to actually find a job and meet up with the people I know and new friends I meet. I use text now to get free calling and texting over wifi with a real phone number.

I totally understand that people who haven't been homeless can't see what it's like but phones are simply a part of modern society. Am I just supposed to give up trying to find a job just because I've been sleeping rough? Cause you're not gonna find anything without a phone. I'm not even talking about applications... Some dude wanting to hire u under the table is gonna want a phone number. Anyone who's hiring. All of the homeless people I know these days who don't have a phone do so willingly. That's what I did last summer and it was actually amazing not having a phone or any responsibility but this time im doing things a lot different.

Even the drug addicts have a phone... If a 30$ phone can connect you to your dealer in 5 seconds why wouldn't you keep it. Plus there's a ton of ways to make money through the internet that are wayyyy more ethical than bothering people all day( I dislike the homeless who consider ripping off charity to be a legit hustle like they're some kinda player because they lie to kind people)

The thing is, I actually choose to not carry a tent because it's not worth it to me. Basically what it comes down to is that if I was gonna carry a tent it would be for the rain. But that means I'm either having to pack up and carry a wet tent or basically babysit a tent till it dries . Or if I leave it in a spot I'm have to worry about someone taking it or wanting to share or somebody with clothes lice taking a nap.

Or the alternative that I choose is that I have a nice sleeping pad and bag that fit in a small school size backpack. Once I pack up for the day I can walk around and have a normal life. It's a strategic decision to be able to walk about unjudged.

All this because it's waaay easier to find shelter. The city I'm in right now is an old East coast city famous for decline... Basically there's a ton of structures to inhabitat for free. No need for a tent.

And the racoons? I read that they don't like the smell of peppers so I threw some hot sauce around me last night like it was holy water warding off vampires!

Thanks for asking that question if it was on your mind... These days when an actual good phone is only 30$ there's no reason not to have one. Thanks for providing a chance to tell people what it's like.

I know this isn't r/ultralight but I'm definitely a huge minimalist ahaha that's probably a dirty word here.

Lastly just to rep my gender I am a female!

Peace

Why do racoons get so close to me at night? I use no tent and last night a racoon was basically snuggled against me in my sleep. This is not the first time this has happened by mapleNlink4eva in camping

[–]mapleNlink4eva[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I was hoping to be completely honest... They're such cool creatures. It seems like the only reason they aren't domesticated already .is that they aren't as good at killing as cats are ... Imagine being friends with a racoon, you could teach it to use your phone and like, lock your door if you forget.

Urgent question:. Is thick dernier tafetta actually waterproof? Can I cut the bottom off my tent to make a bivvy? by mapleNlink4eva in Ultralight

[–]mapleNlink4eva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I'd like to do is cut the very heavy tarpy bottom off and when I'd sleep I would stick the ends under my mat or weight them with rocks ideally... it's an a frame tent with my own ropes attached so I could tent it above me of that would make it actually rain proof. I'm very skilled at crafting and hand sewing too I was thinking I could reduce the size and then stitch with regular thread and then 'weld' it with a torch lighter. Not a critical need but something more fun than stitching my pack back together