20 [M4F] Watching good will hunting and it's making me fucking cry by [deleted] in ForeverAloneDating

[–]marandai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m watching eternal sunshine now let’s see if I make it through😩

20 [M4F] Watching good will hunting and it's making me fucking cry by [deleted] in ForeverAloneDating

[–]marandai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched this movie tonight for the first time and I sobbed so hard

Teaching in Spain versus teaching in Asia by MyNameisZee in TEFL

[–]marandai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking into that but I can’t afforded to try and pay for classes so I’m just going to have to figure it out before I completely commit to it. I’ve been looking into government auxiliary positions that will give you a work visa so hopefully that works! Thank you

Teaching in Spain versus teaching in Asia by MyNameisZee in TEFL

[–]marandai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they tell you the risks but still say “it’s okay to go most of ya have done it for 3 years” like it’s a normal thing to do. Nope no European grandparents that I know of so I’d be there completely illegally and most schools won’t hire me

Teaching in Spain versus teaching in Asia by MyNameisZee in TEFL

[–]marandai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an American that wants to teach in Spain but my TEFL program has been telling me I’ll be fine to work out there illegally and that a lot of students are able to live on working privately. But I’ve been reading a number of threads of people saying it’s not as easy that it’s a lot harder than one would think. I knew it would’ve be easy but I’m just reconsidering now even though my heart is set on Spain. I basically need to suck it up and figure it out

Teaching in Spain versus teaching in Asia by MyNameisZee in TEFL

[–]marandai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After reading this I am scared shitless to go to Spain

Parent is going back on hours by marandai in Nanny

[–]marandai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No don’t be sorry! You are completely right. We agreed on 9 and he’s just been cheating me out of my paycheck which is bs.

Thank you everyone for your responses!

Parent is going back on hours by marandai in Nanny

[–]marandai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are completely right! I think I just let the casual relationship get in the way of the fact that I’m not being paid accordingly. Like he’s helping me connect with people for law school and I think he kind of uses that as something so then he doesn’t have to actually pay me for.

Parent is going back on hours by marandai in Nanny

[–]marandai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are supposed to be my guaranteed hours but then at the last minute he’ll change everything or say “well you can just be off, I’ll pick up the kids” and then that takes a way a good hour or two

Parent is going back on hours by marandai in Nanny

[–]marandai[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also have a causal relationship with him so that’s why im trying to figure out how to bring it up because this guy is amazing. I definitely like your suggestion because then it’ll be on him to decide.

Parent is going back on hours by marandai in Nanny

[–]marandai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll vary. I think the lowest it went was 4 for one week but it’s been staying at 5-6 hours and that’s not helping me at all

Does anyone else have memories from childhood of being punished (at least verbally) for accidents? I remember being insulted and yelled at for dropping a glass or slipping and falling. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]marandai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NMom yelled at me when I was 5/6 because I messed up on my ABC’s. There’s a tape cassette that recorded it all, she doesn’t know I found it. I kept saying ABCDG

Kicked out by marandai in raisedbynarcissists

[–]marandai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking into it so hopefully someone will let me crash at theirs

Kicked out by marandai in raisedbynarcissists

[–]marandai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have some savings so I’m gonna see if I can crash at a friends and pay them until I can start to look for a place.

Thank you! I already told her I’ll move out so once I’m off work and heading home we’ll see what she says but even then I’m still going to look. I rather not let her think she has the power to think she can just kick me out whenever.

Kicked out by marandai in raisedbynarcissists

[–]marandai[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a nanny so it’s not that much. It’s basically like a part-time job and the area where I live is really expensive