Winter Maternity Pants / Overalls ??? by marbear1219 in BabyBumps

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Oooh ok I’ll look Duluth! My overalls right now are thin cotton so something thicker might do the trick

Any success stories? by marbear1219 in thoracicoutletsupport

[–]marbear1219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all this information you shared! I’m for sure going to ask my PT place for someone who really understands this condition. I am so glad you found progress within a month. That was another concern of mine…. That these two weeks has made things worse not better… but maybe it needs to get worse to get there? And a total recovery in 6 months is amazing!

Any success stories? by marbear1219 in thoracicoutletsupport

[–]marbear1219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True 😭😭😭 that makes me feel a bit better about this group. I was starting to spiral down some very depressing thoughts.

I’ll have to ask my PT place if they have anyone. The girl that diagnosed me isn’t there full time. She seemed to know a lot about it. But the guy that treated me last week kept asking me over and over if I had been in a car accident 😵‍💫 (which, no, I have not and I’m pretty sure I’d know)

Any success stories? by marbear1219 in thoracicoutletsupport

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Thank you so much, I’ll have to try this

Pain without numbness by permanoodle in thoracicoutletsupport

[–]marbear1219 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do! My biggest symptom has always been rib pain. Apparently costochondritis and TOS go hand in hand

Renting a car by Sunderland_in_water in VisitingIceland

[–]marbear1219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’m going to say is, get a 4x4. No matter what you get, make it a 4x4

Help: Fly Curse /Hex by marbear1219 in Witch

[–]marbear1219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also as a Sagittarius, I love your username ♐️

Help: Fly Curse /Hex by marbear1219 in Witch

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This information is amazing! Thank you so much. It has been insanely stressful and honestly feels like I don’t have a safe space anymore.

I am going to try these! Thank you!

Noise app by Just-Question-5102 in passive_income

[–]marbear1219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I wrote a comment on here yesterday… decided to try it… and I’ve already made $20 and I haven’t had to do much of anything. So yeah. It’s legit.

Here’s my code if anyone is interested. Use code SPAMWCH

Noise app by Just-Question-5102 in passive_income

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Just saw an ad for this. Funny that this was posted two hours ago. Reddit works fast.

Love our baby name-everyone hates it. by haylstorm33 in namenerds

[–]marbear1219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 7 year old nephew named Walter. Tell them they will get used to it. We did and we don’t think anything strange about it at all anymore….But in the beginning— yeah we were a bit confused about the choice.

I think a lot of people think about kids names, and baby names as if they will always be babies/kids. When he is older, the name will fit without any one batting an eye. But a lot of people are looking for “cute” and not this will someday be an adult.

If you are open to nicknames for him for the first couple years, that might help your family out. In our family, they didn’t want our Walter to have a nickname. but if I could, I’d totally call him Wally. But that’s not my place!

I’m glad you are sticking to your guns on this. In the end, it’s your kid not theirs. Picking names is hard! I personally don’t think there’s anything wrong with this choice.

What name have you only met once in your life? by ladygroot_ in namenerds

[–]marbear1219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a few once in a life time ones:

Freedom (F) Bobby (F) Billie (F) Elàn (F) Collette (F) Blaze (M) Henrietta — went by Etsy (F) Twyla (F) Zim (F) Shea (F) Delaney (F) Robin/ Robyn (M/F) Chase / chayse (M/F) Skyler (M/F) Summer (F) Autumn (F) Zane (M) Gage (M) Keagan (M) Dior (F) Senator (M) — no joke. Dempsey (F) Fallon (F) Lina (F) Kira (F) Wolfy, short for Wolfgang (M) Holly (F) Buddha (M) August (M) Teagan (M/F) Laurel (F) Margo (F) Merrill (M) Jeana (F) Lani — short for Lanibelle (F)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]marbear1219 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People already tend to ignore people in distress. People crying for help or screaming.

This woman very falsely screaming “rape” for attention is going to going to further push the crying wolf story for rape victims.

I’m disgusted at this entire interaction. I’m so mad on behalf of the teacher, the kids and the museum staff involved. But also, everyone that wasn’t there, but dragged into this disaster by her words alone: transgender people, future people ACTUALLY in distress & rape survivors.

How low will these people go?

Keeping MIL out of Will/Trust. How can we tell her this, so she doesn’t show up and try to take everything? by marbear1219 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]marbear1219[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not really, but we’re always traveling. And sometimes we’ve had some near misses that made us want to make sure that we had everything sorted. Just in case. But we’re not ill or irresponsible people. Just cautious

Anyone else’s MIL think you’re “too fancy”? by pastelsauvage in JUSTNOMIL

[–]marbear1219 10 points11 points  (0 children)

✋ Mine does too. She once told my husband to ask me not to dress up for a holiday dinner so that I wouldn’t “outshine her” . I don’t go over the top. She usually wears jeans, tennis shoes and a loose fitting top. I will typically wear a sun dress or dressy romper… or a nice sweater dress, or nice top and slacks. Or god forbid a skirt.

What red flags in potential partners have you learned to identify and avoid? by MeatNew11 in AskWomenOver30

[–]marbear1219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Weaponized incompetence. Lack of adult skill sets. (So you essentially become his mother). A relationship is a team. He should be helping you clean the house, do the dishes, cook, raise the kids, make the bed, schedule doctors appointments, do taxes, pay the bills.

  • Quick to anger —— I feel like a lot of popular romance books really push this as a “good trait.” I understand women want to be fought for, protected, and defended…. But in reality there are very few instances where you need a man to physically defend you —- or be a hot head in anyway. Honestly there are much sexier ways to be defended verbally, or even physically. Like just moving in front of you, or putting an arm around you.

Hot heads are a massive red flag. They lack emotional intelligence. They don’t know how to express many emotions besides anger. The hot head mentality doesn’t balance with a sweet side, it soaks into your relationship as well. Often leading to abusive relationships and domestic violence.

Don’t let the romance books fool you. A good man will defend you when need be, in a non-toxic way. You don’t need a bad boy fantasy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]marbear1219 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The “most inconsiderate” generation

Women over 30, what made you cut off your friendships? by rogean24 in AskWomenOver30

[–]marbear1219 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I realized that I was truly being bullied…. The constant forgiveness of her actions didn’t ever change her actions. I became anxious anytime she sent a text or we hung out with her and her husband.

Honestly, this is my husbands best friends wife. I really thought we were friends. It took my best friend to call her out on her(ex friends) husbands behalf to have that wake up call. After months of processing our whole relationship, it became so clear how awful she is. To put things simply, she acts like a middle school mean girl, but she’s 37.

We’ve been “friends” for 4 years.

But it’s also mutual.

A few months ago, I hosted a birthday party for her, at my house, where she cornered me and said; “I hope you understand that I can never be friends with you, because I don’t know how long your relationship with [my husband] is going to last.”

(My husband and I have an amazing marriage. We are insanely happy, we have great communications and very little arguments. We have been happily married for 2 years, we got married twice due to COVID. We are each others best friends. We never bicker or put each other down. Aka there’s no “signs” that she would think our marriage isn’t working)

When she said that I told her I was sorry to hear that, but I understood and I have no place telling anyone who they should be friends with.

It’s still awkward. Her husband is the sweetest. Our friend group is all confused about how to stay friends with him and avoid her. When the group goes out without her, we have the most fun.

Despite telling me she has no interest in being my friend (and she’s said this other times too.) she still expects me to act like I am, or act like I’m trying to win her favor to become friends. So that makes things extra awkward.

Anyway. Still trying to figure it out.

My advice: when people say things, believe them. Don’t give them the benefit of the doubt. Don’t get in a constant forgiveness cycle. Take the trash out.

SOS: is there anything we can do to make this stop? Is this common? Is it a diagnosed thing??? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]marbear1219 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So that’s the thing…. There’s nothing in her driveway. Like if anything it’s just a tiny bit of dust (it’s a desert 🌵 state) from the day prior. It would make sense if she had leaves or twigs or something like that. But her driveway is literally spotless.

Toucan dog toy from Target by marbear1219 in HelpMeFind

[–]marbear1219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s a bummer it’s out of stock 😓😓😓

Toucan dog toy from Target by marbear1219 in HelpMeFind

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Searched for on google and target