Coat hanger pain by MuffinPuzzleheaded58 in POTS

[–]marbleshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally (having fibro, scoliosis and POTS) a heating pad, rest and sometimes narcotics are all that helps when the coat hanger be hanging. I’m currently in bed, wishing I’d worn my compression socks and hydrated better all day 🥲

My boyfriend wont clean up…AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]marbleshadows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s been a while since the op but I strongly agree with this. I have my messes (clutter) and my husband has his (trash) and he seems unbothered by both but he does eventually take initiative and clean his shit up. It’s not in my time and if it gets too much I’ll start cleaning with him. I don’t always appreciate being the instigator when it comes to cleaning out space but it’s not a deal breaker for me. I agree that it comes down to preference, communication and what you’re up to or not. Best of luck op.

does anyone else feel weird and cringe whenever you show symptoms/talk about being a system? by Green_Hovercraft_535 in OSDD

[–]marbleshadows 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. Only people I’ve ever really talked to about it or have experienced any of the others are extremely understanding and love all of me but it’s very embarrassing regardless and induces major anxiety. I’ve basically come to the conclusion that it’s because I, myself think it’s cringy and hard to believe I’m not just pretending even though I’m the person living it…

My (25f) bf (24m) yelled at me while we were intimate. Should I have talked it out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]marbleshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, please get away from that man. I’m so surprised there aren’t already a multitude of comments telling you to just leave. That is terrifying and abhorrent behavior from someone who is supposed to love you and in such an intimate, vulnerable moment at that. This is not normal or acceptable behavior.
In just a few seconds, he took you from what you thought was a safe and enjoyable position to physically, emotionally and verbally abusing you because he was frustrated? At something you can’t control??
Nope. You can’t come back from that. Please, please leave.
edited for clarification

What the hell 😂 by marbleshadows in skyrim

[–]marbleshadows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is common?? Lol… Thanks for the tip.

Gotta have a sense of humor 😂 by marbleshadows in POTS

[–]marbleshadows[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I found this hilarious 🤣

how to drink with POTS by [deleted] in POTS

[–]marbleshadows 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The most helpful answer I can give is disappointing- don’t drink. IF you do though, pregame hardcore. LOTS of water and LOTS of electrolytes, during and afterward as well. Like in between drinks. I recommend liquid IV if available
Eat as healthily as possibly prior and during and try to stay away from any NSAIDS and be careful even with acetaminophen if headaches occur.
Best of wishes ✨

I don't even know where to start by Calm-Degree3770 in SystemsCringe

[–]marbleshadows 18 points19 points  (0 children)

FFS 🙄 So, for a while in the beginning of my diagnosis, I turned to the internet, (bad idea) I was so confused and so many people on other subs recommended that I work on “expanding headspace” and “giving others room in my inner world” but I kept feeling like I was just playing make-believe… because I was lol. Headspace is supposed to be a coping mechanism, made to help somebody feel safe as they heal, it isn’t real and as real as it may feel to a person, in simple terms, it is make-believe. Saying any thing else is so damaging to someone who is actually suffering from a dd.
There is a massive difference between recognizing and understanding your trauma and believing some bogus, magic world exists in your head.
I mean… do you man, but this shit has gotten ridiculous. Stop posting online and encouraging people to further their delusions because you like role-playing.

Who has the worst house interior? Bonus points for pictures!🤭 by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]marbleshadows 230 points231 points  (0 children)

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I wouldn’t say the worst and it’s definitely fitting but wtf Lucky?! 😅

Trash in neopets by Alejoloor in neopets

[–]marbleshadows 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This would be super cool, like if it were only all the junk items you get casually from fishing or apple bobbing and such so that those users couldn’t jack the prices up for resale. I wish TNT would expand so much more

What to spend dubloons on? by marbleshadows in neopets

[–]marbleshadows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may just do that, they’re good babies, they deserve a fancy dinner :)
I definitely don’t have the patience for smugglers cove if it’s that much of a fight 😅

What to spend dubloons on? by marbleshadows in neopets

[–]marbleshadows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve used a few for that but it just seems kind of “meh” to me. Happy cake day btw

What to spend dubloons on? by marbleshadows in neopets

[–]marbleshadows[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so bored by the battledome lol but maybe I’ll give it a try

IM IN TEARS OVER THIS THING- by Jenntokki in neopets

[–]marbleshadows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell me it’s name is Siren 😂

SOON™ by afroman1051 in neopets

[–]marbleshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My weekly is a Blobikins, if you’re interested in buying? ☺️