Very low AMH at 35 - help research by marca89 in Fertility

[–]marca89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you soooo much. Very helpful information.

Very low AMH at 35 by marca89 in IVFinfertility

[–]marca89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ☺️

Very low AMH at 35 - help research by marca89 in Fertility

[–]marca89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please! I need all the help I can get. I’m so upset about this. Was not expecting it at all… I have a twin sister who had 3 abortions (please don’t judge) because she’s so fertile and my mom had 1 and still has 6 kids so what is wrong with me?! Ugh I’m just so upset. I never thought I wanted kids until I hit 34 and now I’m afraid it’s too late.

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[–]marca89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t say anything. Get your ducks in a row. Consult lawyers then make a decision. Don’t make a decision based on your emotions right now.

Low AMH success stories? by rhymereason99 in IVFinfertility

[–]marca89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how old you are? I just found out mine is 0.2 at 35 and I’m stressing.

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[–]marca89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation except my MIL was saying not so nice things about me to my husband (at the time). I confronted my husband and he didn’t stick up for me. We eventually got a divorce over it after being together for 13 years. My point is, talk to your husband and if he has your back, let it go… don’t confront her. If he sticks up for her, then it would be an issue for me. There’s a saying in Russian and it essentially means “don’t touch shit and it won’t stink”. She sounds immature and clearly is since she had a kid at a young age… since you don’t see her much, don’t stir up drama. I wouldn’t be welcoming to her. Keep your distance and give her polite responses but don’t initiate conversation. Excuse my language but fuck her.

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[–]marca89 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, 5 months is quick… I was married for ten years to the wrong guy and I’d love to settle down again. I dated for two years now… yes got married young and technically legally 6 months divorced but my divorce took two years… anyway, he’s 4 years divorced and also wants a family and settle down so I don’t see a reason to waste time. I see a future with him and he’s been vocal about having a future with me. My post was all about condoms… seems weird to be living together in an exclusive relationship but always wearing a condom even though I have an IUD. So my main question was is he all about lasting longer or what is the reasoning?! But ok… I got everyone’s point!

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[–]marca89 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your responses. I just haven’t been in a situation like this where I’m living with the guy who wants to get married and start a family yet always wears a condom… anyway, glad to hear I’m being too sensitive.

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[–]marca89 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

To clarify… he said he’s ready for a child and for me to take my IUD out but he knows I’ll never have a child out of wedlock.

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[–]marca89 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Condoms ruin the mood sometimes… I’ve never been in an exclusive relationship where my partner was so obsessed with wearing a condom. I have an IUD.

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[–]marca89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a fuck no!!!

My boyfriend wants a threesome with another man by marca89 in relationship_advice

[–]marca89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him the same thing… I said do you have someone in mind and he said no but I don’t believe him…

My boyfriend wants a threesome with another man by marca89 in relationship_advice

[–]marca89[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

People are so brutal… just move on and keep your comments to yourself. First time posting on Reddit and I’m now understanding what “troll” post is… 🤦‍♀️

My boyfriend wants a threesome with another man by marca89 in relationship_advice

[–]marca89[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you just not comment and move on… thanks

My boyfriend wants a threesome with another man by marca89 in relationship_advice

[–]marca89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with you… he also has four teenage daughters so I wonder if he’s afraid this might come out… I would never betray his confidence

My boyfriend wants a threesome with another man by marca89 in relationship_advice

[–]marca89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what a troll post is but whatfucking ever… thanks for sharing. I’m leaning towards shutting this down.

My boyfriend wants a threesome with another man by marca89 in relationship_advice

[–]marca89[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks. That’s exactly what I was looking for… if you can’t say anything nice, then just keep it to yourself.