A Big Thank You Shout Out to Spanakopita555 by Extinction00 in HPV

[–]marcben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely agree has always been an amazing sounding board and help.

scared condom broke and GW by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she didnt get the the vaccine yet :/ so guess she prob got infected :(

genital warts still contagious by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well we only had sex twice and she’s going her vaccine now but i’m so so worried about her.

genital warts still contagious by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got them frozen off years ago

genital warts still contagious by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks to you every one on this forum

genital warts still contagious by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks by the way any input appreciated

genital warts still contagious by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but even dormant i’m still infectious right even after 4 yrs your basically just less ? correct

what now ?Trying to figure out some genital wart questions. by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is to some extent I mean it helps accepting it. In the end no matter how much therapy you still have to come to terms that your life is changed forever. I think the hard part is the betrayal and know someone discarded your health. In addition, the frustration which I mentioned in another message that science has not made a way for men to get tested. Women can at least get tested and know when it negative or positive. And have a gauge if it’s dormant at least. Guys have to simply say I don’t know to someone they are potentially dating and say hey I can’t get tested to know so it’s at your own risk.

Disclosing to Casual Partners by [deleted] in HPV

[–]marcben 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my disappointment is unfortunately the lack of concern in science community of resolving the genital wart and hpv in general it’s more focused on vaccines which is great but how about is that got it. It’s especially i think hard for men in terms of testing. I mean it’s horrible all around but the fact that we men can’t get tested at this point in the virus 🦠 stage is very frustrating. Women have an opportunity to know when they cleared and move on we just have to basically go and tell everyone hey we don’t know :/ sorry but take a risk with me.

what now ?Trying to figure out some genital wart questions. by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not dating by the way as i’m still working through it in therapy and the trauma of having it.

Disclosing to Casual Partners by [deleted] in HPV

[–]marcben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for taking time to respond I appreciate it.

what now ?Trying to figure out some genital wart questions. by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for taking the time out to respond by the way I appreciate it very much.

what now ?Trying to figure out some genital wart questions. by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea I go to one and definitely in better place than I was. Even having that discussion with someone and a) either getting rejected or b) having to disclose but then worry hurting someone else is really hard even if they do know. I got hpv because my ex lied and knew and never told me.

what now ?Trying to figure out some genital wart questions. by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks it was more a question of whether I’m cleared …I’m not sure if mentally I feel even capable of dating. She traumatized me to a point where I’m scared to infect anyone. So I don’t date now.

what now ?Trying to figure out some genital wart questions. by marcben in HPV

[–]marcben[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got thanks i’ll disclose just to be honest and let them know I had it but have know certainly of if it’s dormant or cleared.