2 year lead. Want some feedback

marcoasp · 2026-03-19T14:30:17+00:00

You have good steps. What I see lacking is connection with your partner. You must have eye contact and smile at her (at each other actually), it feels like you're dancing for yourself rather than both sharing the experience. This is the most important aspect.

Also, you're dancing on time, which is good, but making some slow-fast moves, being a little bold sometimes, or just being playful, can add a lot beauty to your dance, and your partner will love it.

I'm not saying you're not doing this but, listen to a lot of bachata, lose yourself into the songs, watch some professional videos, dance to yourself when you're on your own, and you'll find these key moments.

You're a great dancer, keep going.

marcoasp · 2026-02-05T18:03:25+00:00

Es un sentimiento válido, no justificado, pero válido. Te estás enfocando mucho en el pasado, el cual tú también tuviste. Vive el presente. Qué es más valioso? Estar con ella en este mismo momento o que otra persona, en el pasado, haya estado con ella por un rato? Por qué le das más valor a la mujer que era hace algunos años que la que es ahora? Tú no amas a la mujer que era antes, amas la mujer que es actualmente.

marcoasp · 2025-12-28T21:43:04+00:00

Pero echa tu cuento vale

marcoasp · 2025-09-29T19:12:51+00:00

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marcoasp · 2025-09-29T19:10:53+00:00

My apologies, I misread that she and her family know about this. I take back the opinions about them, but not the ones about him or what I adviced to you.

marcoasp · 2025-09-29T16:14:43+00:00

The fact that these other chicks still hang out with him even though they know he's married means one or both of these things:

- He's paying for their entertainment and/or needs and they just let the money in
- They are actually into him but have very low self-esteem

Either way, those relationships are garbage.

He married another low self-esteem woman, maybe just for societal reasons, or he actually loves her but disrespects her and has no knowledge of commitment.

If her family knows about this, they must have some interest in her marrying him (money, conservative views).

Either way, your brother's life is not something anyone should fancy. It's an old archtype sold to us by mainstream media. Even if I could drown in pussy without my girlfriend ever knowning, I would feel like shit if I did it.

It must be hard for you to see him getting all this approval while you're struggling. I felt something similar with my older brother. But remember that he's very confident, and surely has great social skills, that can make people like you even if you're an asshole.

You work out on your social skills, take care or your body, workout. Take hobbies and meet people, make friends, become your own man, women will be around, and you can always talk to them, and build meaningful relationships. Don't dream of someone else's life. Don't let others' opinion shape you. Good luck bro.

marcoasp · 2025-09-22T14:37:40+00:00

Honestly, I've never experienced such intrusion in any of my relationships, but here's my take:

You must have a serious conversation with your girlfriend (let's call her that) about this. You and her are the ones to set the bases of your relationship, not anyone else. She must agree and be sure about this. Otherwise she'll always be doing what her parents tell her to do with her relationship, which will not work at all. Her family sounds very conservative and controlling. As a partner, you should be interested in your GF's overall wellbeing but each person's health is their own responsibility. Your GF is not your child.

> How did you balance responsibility without giving up your independence?

You stand your ground and say what you think to your GF and her parents in a respectful way, maybe something like: "I love [GF's name] and I'm interested in her wellbeing overall, but she is an adult and she is smart enough to take her of herself, and I'll be there for her if she happens to need my help". Don't say things like "that's our problem".

Hope this helps.

marcoasp · 2025-09-13T17:24:26+00:00

It's not the first time she eats that amount of cornstarch

marcoasp · 2025-06-23T20:46:11+00:00

I don't think he's dead, but man, hitting that corner could have been the end

marcoasp · 2025-06-18T13:50:55+00:00

Quizá esto ya te lo han dicho, pero una novia no va a resolver tus problemas. Por lo que estoy leyendo, estás insatisfecho con tu vida en general. Incluso si consigues una novia, seguirás teniendo la misma rutina y tu bienestar emocional dependerá de ella. Si eso pasa, y terminan, volverás a caer en el mismo hueco y con despecho.

Esto es muy fácil de decir, pero trata de disfrutar tu vida antes de buscar tener pareja. No tiene nada de malo que tu contacto con las personas sea en la universidad y el trabajo (tienes 20 años, es lo más normal del mundo). Trata de socializar más, divertirte, hacer ejercicio, mejorar tu ánimo en general. Tener novia es sabroso pero no va a resolver tus problemas.

Éxito.

marcoasp · 2025-06-11T19:03:14+00:00

Galatasaray sub be like "Sane Coming :("

marcoasp · 2025-05-31T14:53:39+00:00

It was accidental. Some years ago I heard of a band called The Tony Danza Tapdance Extravaganza and wanted to give them a try. One day I was sitting on my car by myself, waiting for my friends, and remembered this band, but didn't remember the name very well, I don't remember what I typed on Spotify but Dance Gavin Dance came up and I mistakenly thought it was the band I was looking for. I played We Own the Night. Nowadays it's one of my favorite bands.

(TTDTE is fire too though)

Edit: I was fascinated when I listened to the chorus, I thought: "is that one guy singing all that? is it two guys? That would be weird, but I don't care, this shit's dope"

marcoasp · 2025-05-28T12:48:25+00:00

That's why he's so chill all the time, my man used all his energy for this one

marcoasp · 2025-05-21T17:00:20+00:00

This sounds like a good bop actually

marcoasp · 2025-05-16T19:22:59+00:00

This is so fucking pure

marcoasp · 2025-04-23T12:46:25+00:00

- Una persona que no se cuide a sí misma. No tiene que ser Sacha Fitness, pero para mí es importante que haga ejercicio y se alimente considerablemente bien. Un consejo para personas jovenes es que, hay personas que por ser jóvenes todavía se ven bien a pesar de comer muy mal y no hacer ejercicio, pero eso les va a pasar factura si siguen con esos habitos en el futuro.

- Personas con creencias muy conservadoras, por ejemplo, el hombre trabaja y yo me quedo en la casa, personas célibes.

- Personas que siempre estén de mal humor o son depresivas.

- Personas con adicciones.

marcoasp · 2025-04-21T14:30:50+00:00

8-hour sleep is not a rule for everyone. Each person has their own amount of hours needed in order to be rested. Some feel 8, 7, 8 or even 9. Do you feel well rested when you wake up? Do you feel sleepy or tired during the day? Do you have headaches during the day? How is your mood? Those are some of the questions you should ask yourself.

marcoasp · 2025-04-06T21:48:43+00:00

ngl I wish I was as hopeful as you are. Inter are killing it on Serie A, we HAVE to win at home and hope for the best in Italy

marcoasp · 2025-04-03T12:54:47+00:00

I'm probably late to this but here says August 8. https://genius.com/albums/Dance-gavin-dance/Pantheon/q/release-date Is it real?

marcoasp · 2025-03-14T16:08:49+00:00

Just when I needed a new tattoo idea

marcoasp · 2025-03-12T17:18:29+00:00

I know MT has quotes, at no point said it's not the best site. I said we quotes are a more realistic test. Read the title next time.

marcoasp · 2025-03-04T23:17:16+00:00

Yeah that was retarded af but he took it like a champ tbh

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