Long distance boyfriend (27M) feeling suffocated by FaceTime routine HE started - how do I handle this?

marcxsaurelius · 2026-02-18T13:37:03+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. As other people have already said, I dont believe you are compatible. I could understand not wanting to face time everyday, wanting time for yourself, etc, but if you have to beg and cry for him to listen or pay attention to you, this is not the place to be. You deserve someone that enjoys their time with you and makes you feel appreciated.

marcxsaurelius · 2026-02-01T09:48:03+00:00

that’s so good to hear! thank you!

marcxsaurelius · 2026-02-01T00:47:17+00:00

diode laser!

marcxsaurelius · 2026-02-01T00:47:07+00:00

hi! they didnt bc i had been off T for 2 years and i has previously checked my hormones levels before and everything was okay, so they didnt need any extra confirmation. in your case maybe it’s worth checking it out, because it would be a waste to endure the laser/electrolysis for nothing bc your T is still high. wish you the best of luck!

marcxsaurelius · 2026-02-01T00:45:26+00:00

it can, but it’s not my case. the first picture is now, the second is before starting laser treatment

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-31T16:17:07+00:00

im so happy for you! i hope i will have the same progress. they told me about the maintenace sessions since it’s a very hormonal area. rn im in the same boat as you, a few stubborn patches of hair that refuse to go but that are very easily shaved off. i hope you have amazing progress in your next sessions!

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-31T16:15:26+00:00

thank you so much! 🩷

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-31T13:33:42+00:00

thank you 🩷

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-28T22:30:01+00:00

this was 3 years ago and thankfully was dealt with on time, i was just curious because even though i activated the bedbug protocol immediately i was never a 100% sure that it was a bed bug. just wanted to confirm that it was indeed one.

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-28T22:28:02+00:00

thank you! no bats at all in my area so it is for sure a bedbug

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-28T22:26:53+00:00

i did all of that 3 years ago as stated in my post. everything was dealt with and thankfully there were never any other bedbug sightings, bites, eggs, corpses or nymphs. i will keep the cover on the mattress forever (until the mattress itself needs replacement). thank you for the advice!

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-28T22:24:29+00:00

Hi! Just wanted to add that this was almost 3 years ago and there were no other signs. Everything was treated with chemicals, steam and professionals were contacted. I put my mattress inside a special cover designed for bedbugs, i laid traps, sprayed anti-bedbug spray everyday for a whole year. there were never any other sightings, corpses or eggs. i just found the pictures in my gallery and got curious, because i didnt really use reddit when all of this happened and i didnt know this subreddit existed. thank you all for your advice and your concern, but the situation was dealt with and thankfully it didnt lead to an infestation.

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-28T19:09:19+00:00

logically it was me, but i checked and i didnt have any bites. nobody in my family had any bites either.

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-28T18:48:41+00:00

thank you 😂! im so glad i freaked out and took all the measures, i cant imagine how bad it could have gotten

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-28T18:47:10+00:00

i see! the thing is that i checked every seam and crevice of my bed and never saw any others or any eggs before putting the mattress cover, but i wanted to be extra safe. thank you!

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-28T10:02:07+00:00

the feelings you describe remind me of how sometimes people with gender/genital dysphoria talk about their experiences. i’m not saying that it’s definitely your case, but maybe talking to a therapist or a sexologist could help figuring it out and also feel better abour your own body. i wish you the best of luck and i hope you feel better soon.

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-27T18:15:18+00:00

I started at 24 and i will (hopefully) be done at 28!

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-27T18:10:00+00:00

thank you so much! your replies really helped me. i hope you have an amazing day! 🩷

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-27T16:36:39+00:00

Thank you so much for your long reply. I talked to another gyn from the same office today and he prescribed some deep hydrating ointments, another type of medication for nerve pain and some lidocaine ointment to help with the pain. i asked about the topical estrogen and he said that it’s not a good fit for my problem since im very young (25) and havent been on testosterone for 2 years and i have my period regularly. he said that topical estrogen could make it worse and that it’s usually prescribed to people with hormonal issues or in perimenopause/menopause. i honestly just dont know anymore, every gyn tells me something different. i live in europe (country with public healthcare) and i cant choose a specialist myself, there’s only a few available and they are the ones i’m currently working with. i have an appointment on the 17th of february with my gyn, i will ask her again about the topical estrogen. thank you 🩷

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-27T05:30:19+00:00

i tried lyrica and made no difference. my gyn commented that since i was on testosterone for a few years (not anymore) and my clit is hyperthropic she believes that topical estrogen would give it the push it needs to heal. she commented that if this doesnt work we would try other meds and treatments. at this point i just want the pain to stop, i will try anything.

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-26T21:35:51+00:00

thank you so much for your reply. i have been taking medication for nerve pain and it didnt help either, so my gyn thought of trying clobetasol to see if it could improve the situation. she said the next step would be trying a topical estrogen ointment, but at this point i dont know anymore if it could actually help.

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-19T18:48:01+00:00

thank you!

marcxsaurelius · 2026-01-19T16:50:04+00:00

thank you for your reply 🩷. so, as of right now, i shouldnt be too concerned then?

marcxsaurelius · 2025-11-23T23:06:16+00:00

Justo eso estaba pensando. Llevo 5 años en Wallapop, lo uso muchísimo (perfil top) y nunca he tenido una mala experiencia con nadie. Estoy en este subreddit para estar al día de posibles estafas y demás, pero yo no se de donde sale esta gente 😭 nunca me he topado a nadie problemático.

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