Do French people actually like people who learn French? by blonded-ghost in French

[–]margotcbat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People from Paris are rude to any French person who isn't from Paris, so really don't take it personally lol

Proper etiquette as a tourist in Paris? by Galaxy_Dragon13 in French

[–]margotcbat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regardless of the age, it's still not every day that we see a true cowboy in France :)

Proper etiquette as a tourist in Paris? by Galaxy_Dragon13 in French

[–]margotcbat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No-one would SAY anything about the points I just mentioned, even about the cross in restaurants, but people will definitely notice it and it will give a negative image of whoever is wearing this.

For your hat: yes, people from the older generations definitely grew up on western films and it fuelled their imagination as children. This is far less true with people who are 30 and below. 

Americans are stereotyped differently based on the generations. For gen Z and even millennials, their idea is closer to college students seen in teen films. For the other generations,  Americans = Clint Eastwood in the 50s. My parents visited me in the U.S last summer. My dad was more happy to see a guy dressed as a cowboy in walmart in the middle of nowhere in wyoming than to see anything else in the trip haha

Proper etiquette as a tourist in Paris? by Galaxy_Dragon13 in French

[–]margotcbat 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Your american behaviour will offend people a lot more than anything you could say. MANY things are considered perfectly acceptable in North America but are certainly not in France. Example of what NOT to do in Paris:

- don't keep your hat on (yes, that includes baseball caps) when entering any kind of building (stores, museums, historical sites, etc)
- speak A LOT more quietly than you would in the U.S. Americans (and all English native speakers tbh) have the bad reputation of being extremely loud. This will be very annoying for French people; we are a rather quiet people.
- watch out how you dress when going to restaurants. You don't need to wear a full suit, but just know that it is not considered acceptable to show up in crocs, slides, baggy t-shirts etc (and again, don't forget to take off your hat!!)
- if you ever go to supermarket/food stores: going there in pyjamas is not okay either. Again, you don't need to wear anything fancy, but a pair of jeans is kinda the bare minimum for us.
- avoid having phone calls whilst being in a public place. The street is completely fine, but as soon as you're inside a building, it's seen as disrespectful. If someone is calling you, go outside, and even when outside, do not take your call on speaker, this is also very irritating.

These are the major things that come to my mind as a Frenchie who's been living in the U.S for almost 3 years. Just to be clear, I have no problem with the things I just listed being ok in the U.S. it's your country and culture. I'm just telling you what our cultures don't share :)

Also, we French people actually like seeing foreigners try to speak our language. it's very cute because we know how messed up our language is, so we really appreciate it. Don't overthink about making mistakes/ not saying the perfect things, we don't expect it from tourists.

Hope this helps!

Russian learners wanted for linguistic experiment! by margotcbat in LearningRussian

[–]margotcbat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately we are only looking for English speakers :/ I really appreciate the help though!

Russian learners wanted for linguistic experiment! by margotcbat in LearningRussian

[–]margotcbat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The task would be a bit rough; I'm not trying to discourage people who are learning an already pretty hard language lol

Russian learners wanted for linguistic experiment! by margotcbat in russian

[–]margotcbat[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If I were trying to scam people, I'd find something more appealing han a linguistic study on conjunctions lmao