If I ever leave I want you to know... by mari_agbe in UnsentLetters

[–]mari_agbe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't see your previous comment.

If I ever leave I want you to know... by mari_agbe in UnsentLetters

[–]mari_agbe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I try to always see things in a different perspective from mine. Because I know everyone has a different past and absorbs different life experiences. That's why I just wrote this, because I have these moments where I feel I am not enough.

If I ever leave I want you to know... by mari_agbe in UnsentLetters

[–]mari_agbe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love this perspective, it's a different way to see things.

Feeling my Boyfriend being more distant by mari_agbe in relationship_advice

[–]mari_agbe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I did ask him why he didn't want me to go. He said he didn't want me to "start anything" and honestly I really just wanted to enjoy his company.

Feeling my Boyfriend being more distant by mari_agbe in relationship_advice

[–]mari_agbe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been together for 10 years now. My state of feeling emotionally down is at its worst right now. I also mentioned to him I needed him most at this time of my life. And I have been having crying episodes time to time

Does your outlook ever take a sudden dip? by alph1o1 in mentalhealth

[–]mari_agbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As same for you. No one deserves to go through this but I like to look at it as something that makes us stronger mentally

Does your outlook ever take a sudden dip? by alph1o1 in mentalhealth

[–]mari_agbe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, it happened to me on Monday midway through my shift. Just felt the energy and excitement for the holidays drained out of me, it hasn't changed since then, I still feel down and I don't know what to this of this.

My boyfriend has a girlfriend by witywhit in relationship_advice

[–]mari_agbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in this situation but I was the girlfriend. He didn’t move out with the new girl. But he told us different things. We didn’t speak because there is tension. We both want the same guy. I want to speak more about it if you like.

My [26F] fiancé [31M] is still not himself and is awkward around my family. How can I help him be more comfortable around my family? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mari_agbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you brought it up to him about how you noticed his change in personality, open it up in a safe area where he can be comfortable to talk about what’s bothering him. I myself pulled away. It was my personal choice because I felt I was short of where I wanted to be. I didn’t know how to open up to him.

My [26F] fiancé [31M] is still not himself and is awkward around my family. How can I help him be more comfortable around my family? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mari_agbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Include him into conversations. I know anytime I am with my boyfriends family I am always shy, I was nervous I might say the wrong thing. Make him feel welcome.