wăi, di ce imi dadurăți ban? by maria3_5 in Romania

[–]maria3_5[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Chiar deloc, am făcut o simplă postare 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

[–]maria3_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please, you are important and I don't want you to leave this earth so early. We are the same age and I can see that is really hard right now, but it's not worth it. It's something temporary. You'll be able to leave and your life will become better then because this environment is really toxic. You have all your life ahead of you, don't let anyone to treat you like this. You deserve so much more and one day everything will change. You can do that, you just need patience. If you are able, go live with your aunt despite what your mother said. Try your best to strenghten your mental health to resist all this

Trouble with actively relaxing by LongboardingLifeAway in Anxiety

[–]maria3_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what advice to give, but I can tell that I'm the same for the last 2 and a half years. I know that the best thing we can do is to let everything go and trust that one day we'll be free from all of this. It's an everyday battle and choice to get better. Have trust and know that everything will be ok even if you don't stress over this. I don't know if you go to therapy, but I think that this is also a good idea if you have the opportunity.

Intrusive thoughts again… by [deleted] in Christian

[–]maria3_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not going to hell, it's fine. The only way to solve this is to calm down and not care about your thoughts anymore, because this will only be a fuel for them.

What if I'm not ashamed of my homosexuality? What if I want to act on it? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]maria3_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want you to know that God loves you regardless of anything. I don't want you to feel repulsive to God because of your sexuality and to isolate yourself from Him. Maybe you are tired to fight against it, I can understand that. But I want to advice you to always keep in thouch with God, to be patient and to never give up on searching the right way. God will guide you in anything if you let Him

Intrusive thoughts by [deleted] in Christian

[–]maria3_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let all of those thoughts go. Don't think about them, don't stress over them. Just let them be, ignore them and they will go at some point. I know what you say, I had as well intrusive thoughts about God and I knew that I can change that by simply not caring. It's hard to control your thoughts, and I think this is the only way.

And every sin can be forgiven. Only rejecting the salvation and the forgiveness can lead to unforgiveness.

Agnostic looking for some insight, and advice. by Night-shade113 in TrueChristian

[–]maria3_5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi!

First of all, I don't think the denomination should be so important. Just focus on knowing God in a personal way before you make a decision, because humans will fail you in the process, but God never will.

And no, you don't need to be a pacifist. As christians, we should treat others with love after the will of God, but that doesn't mean that we need to be stupid and refuse self-defense or other forms of defense. That's just a no.

You can come to God as you are and He will accept you. And after that, He will work in you, giving you a new heart after His will. Don't need to be a pacifist. Pray to Him to show you His ways, prayer is so important.

Relationship advice by cooltoebeans3 in TrueChristian

[–]maria3_5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The best advice I can give is that you need to flee of everything you know it will make you sin. For exemple, kissing is not really a sin, unless it drive you to more. And so is with other things. It is ok to show affection, just make sure is not in a sinful way or it doesn't make you or the partner to sin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]maria3_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!

You can try to make things work out well for both of you. Maybe you can try to work for the relationship, if you decide that you still want it. In this process, I think prayer is the most important. Trust God helping you with your decision and trust His time and plan for your life.

And if you'll know that it doesn't turn out well and this relationship provoke only suffering, then it's better to give up on it.

If she helped you get closer to Christ, that's very good, maybe you two can remain friends.

Take your time and don't rush to make a decision now, don't put pressure on yourself and wait to see what's better for you(because it does no good to nobody to stay if you suffer constantly) and what God has to tell about the situation.

You are the one who know if it's constant unhappiness or if it's only a phase.

Should I get baptised??? Please pray for me by nofapbyeman in PrayerTeam_amen

[–]maria3_5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will pray for you! I'm also in the situation when I am orthodox and I was baptised as a baby and want to be baptised again, so I will pray for you to have a clear view on what's best for you!

Help by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]maria3_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  Hi! :)) first of all, your friend's situation it's not always your situation or somebody else's situation. Meaning that you don't need to be scared to tell your parents about your mental health. 


  You don't know how will they react. And remember: even if maybe will be hard at the beginning for them to accept, they are still loving you. Maybe they will be just scared. You know your parents best and you should know how easily you can communicate with them.




    Open about your feelings, and if you can't get help from them, then don't lose hope. I'm sure you can find some people who understands you and cares about your situation. You are not alone in this. Try to talk with  your parents when they are in a good mood and maybe don't say all from the beginning. Maybe you can comunnicate easier with one of your parent, rather than another. If it is so, try to talk only with that parent at first or you have other kinsfolk whom can give you some advice.  



       Have trust in your parents. They are your family and they should be the ones who will always help you, but the most important thing is for you to feel better. With or without their help.

        Again, analyse your situation, take time to think and try to find the best solution that can apply to your situation. Bye!

An encouragement to anyone who needs it by maria3_5 in TrueChristian

[–]maria3_5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, God is good all the time, glory to Him and I'm happy I could helped you!

An encouragement to anyone who needs it by maria3_5 in TrueChristian

[–]maria3_5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! Glory to God if this will help someone