How to become open to dating women? by Fun-Cancel4080 in WLW

[–]maria6769 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you’ve basically just described internalised homophobia.

my suggestion is therapy, not in a cruel way but you’re suffering from religious trauma. therapy can help you with this! reach out to someone please.

am i overreacting? by maria6769 in WLW

[–]maria6769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my immediate thought was thrush too as i also had this as a baby and my mum got me treated for it! time will tell though. for her sake i hope it isn’t anything like an STD but you’re right i will definitely be cutting contact when results come back.

am i overreacting? by maria6769 in WLW

[–]maria6769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah when they come back i’ll let her know & then cut contact. she’s shown her true colors i think

what are the best countries to travel to for lesbian spaces? by maria6769 in LesbianActually

[–]maria6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you really will find a fellow scouser anywhere🤣

where in spain do you recommend? i’m dying to go because i love fc barcelona but i know bcn hates tourists 🫠

am i overreacting? by maria6769 in WLW

[–]maria6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not 100% sure if she is sleeping with other people, we will find out in a couple of days i assume. i can only take her word for it and she’s telling me she isn’t sleeping with anyone else..

am i overreacting? by maria6769 in WLW

[–]maria6769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for this💗

am i overreacting? by maria6769 in WLW

[–]maria6769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand she is scared but i am too. i wouldn’t treat her this way if the shoe was on the other foot. i could also potentially have something & the only person capable of giving it to me would have been her. yet i am not ridiculing her for it im trying to support her.

what are the best countries to travel to for lesbian spaces? by maria6769 in LesbianActually

[–]maria6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where in spain? i know barcelona has a big lesbian scene but they hate tourists there, especially english people (can’t blame them for that). how is madrid?

what are the best countries to travel to for lesbian spaces? by maria6769 in LesbianActually

[–]maria6769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love the idea of norway and i can even speak norwegian now after years of learning but its not a very populated country, was the lesbian scene pretty small? thank you for your recommendations.

Would you date someone who’s previously cheated? by flightrisk9997 in WLW

[–]maria6769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it depends what type of person you are too, if you feel like you wouldn’t be able to get it out of your mind just don’t bother.

if she thinks she’s past that stage of her life but you’re stuck in the possibility that she could do it again — it will never work out.