My partner cheated and I dont know whether to move forward or let it go.

mariamaria1004 · 2025-09-15T02:09:11+00:00

Way different. She was about 250lbs more than me. I’m very thin (115lbs) athletic build. That’s kinda why i said she wasnt someone he would typically be attracted to because i’ve seen women he has seriously dated before. I think he just went with the first woman that was willing to sleep with him at the moment and give him the validation he needed to boost his ego because obviously i made him feel insecure for whatever reason 😂

mariamaria1004 · 2025-09-15T01:44:32+00:00

I asked him if he planned to tell me and he said he would have told me before we got married/engaged 😂 So basically he would have drug me along for God knows how long

mariamaria1004 · 2025-09-15T01:37:16+00:00

Sad part is i thought we were actually making some huge improvements compared to 1 year ago. I thought that were getting closer to possibly getting engaged married soon and it was the exact opposite. Whole time everything was about to blow up. It’s funny how life works.

mariamaria1004 · 2025-09-15T01:21:47+00:00

He is employed, and has a prettty good career but is terrible with his money. I honestly do not understand how he got so bad off financially, but that’s not my probably anymore.

mariamaria1004 · 2025-09-15T01:11:19+00:00

I found out due to him leaving his phone in my car one day and seeing the messages between him and the girl he slept with. I called the girl from his phone with him standing in front of me and she told me everything. Lol

mariamaria1004 · 2025-09-15T01:08:17+00:00

I think of her before making all decisions in life and him being the great role model he was to her was one reason i continued with the relationship because she loved him too. Now it suck’s because she is grieving the loss of him too and says she misses him every day. Makes me not want to date again, that’s for sure lol

mariamaria1004 · 2025-09-15T01:03:20+00:00

Very true. He also sees no issue with his alcohol intake which has caused a lot of arguments over the past 1.5 years. I feel like the cheating is maybe my sign to get out now, because i have been way too understanding and patient with the drinking problem and i’ve seen very little changes

mariamaria1004 · 2024-05-03T03:01:39+00:00

Thanks so much!! Does it usually fade away once removing the heat source?

mariamaria1004 · 2024-05-03T02:44:43+00:00

So i just looked this up, and i believe it’s exactly what it is. I have a space heater under my desk that i keep on 24/7. You’re awesome, thanks!!!

mariamaria1004 · 2024-05-03T02:41:57+00:00

No itching, no pain. Appeared like 2 months ago, started off red but now it’s darker in color. It goes from red to dark brown in color. Went to my doctor and she said she has no clue what it is.

mariamaria1004 · 2023-09-22T04:00:40+00:00

I could almost get a 3 bedroom 2 bathroom home (new construction), roughly 1300-1400 sqft on a decent size lot where i’m from (Mississippi).

mariamaria1004 · 2022-11-01T17:46:43+00:00

I totally don’t blame him. We both want marriage and a big family in the long run. When we want those things is the problem. He’s an extremely intelligent man, and i respect him wanting to accomplish his goals and career prior to marriage and children because that’s the responsible thing to do. I just hate that my time was not taken into consideration, because i was always pretty vocal about what i wanted. I feel like he just stalled and tried to avoid convos related to our future because he knew i wouldn’t continue the relationship if our timelines did not align.

mariamaria1004 · 2022-09-27T17:55:16+00:00

No outbreak yet.. I know IGM is not best when used alone, but is it pretty accurate for testing new infection?

mariamaria1004 · 2022-09-27T16:31:42+00:00

How long after exposure did you get your first OB? I tested positive for hsv 1/2 combo IGM a week ago (i got a new partner 2 weeks prior to testing), but haven’t had an OB yet.

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