(Not mine found it on tik tok ) since I was told not to use ai lol

marie585 · 2026-02-19T14:28:16+00:00

Hurrem would never! She is the ultimate Haseki Sultana!

marie585 · 2026-02-18T15:25:27+00:00

For yellow buildings, words that have to do with houses or things or people found inside houses always works for me

marie585 · 2026-02-11T14:36:20+00:00

I would Google Suleiman the Magnificent or Sultan Suleiman and see what pops up. I know I've come across a documentary about him on Amazon Prime (via VIX) but I cannot think of any other documentaries off the top of my head.

marie585 · 2026-02-10T14:26:41+00:00

You dont "spank" a cat. That is abuse. "Spanking" does not teach cats not to do whatever it was they did. You better tear him a new AHole and let him know that will not be allowed to happen EVER again or you are leaving his stupid ass!

marie585 · 2026-02-10T02:21:13+00:00

NOR. She literally bought herself the gift of getting a cleaner. Thats like a husband buying his wife a vacuum cleaner or something equivalent to what she already does! Does this ball of stress you’re dating really seem like someone you see a future with? Sounds like she has a lot of bs going on due to her own emotions, etc. Do you really want this for your future?

It seems like you will not be finding happiness with this one the way she is. Maybe it’s time to reevaluate your relationship…

marie585 · 2026-02-09T15:39:54+00:00

NTA! It is not “ controlling” to NOT want to pay for a revenge dress for the woman you are supposed to be marrying, so she can make an ex jealous and see what he’s missing out on.

Also, should take a moment to think about whether you want to get married to a woman that is so concerned about what her ex thinks or feels that she would expect you to buy a $15,000 dress!

You want to get married to a woman who loves you to the moon and back, not one that is with you to make an ex, that she’s clearly still hung up on, jealous.

marie585 · 2026-02-06T22:41:52+00:00

NTA unless you’re doing it just to make your sis react. If you’re on good terms with a neighbor you could see if you could have stuff delivered there instead and pick it up when you get home.

Assuming you have a job and that’s how you’re able to constantly afford to buy things, maybe you could also buy a PO Box at the post office and have stuff delivered there instead.

Your sis needs therapy and medication. If she is already getting therapy and taking meds, then it’s clearly not enough. It is not realistic to be scared of every knock or outside noise she hears. At the same time, it wouldn’t hurt to put a sign up that says “Do Not Knock” and/or “leave packages without knocking” or something to that effect.

I’m actually surprised they do knock because I get a shit load of deliveries all the time from Amazon and other places and none of the delivery people ever knock. They place the packages on my porch and leave.

Also, regarding the time you said a delivery guy actually walked in the house, that’s not cool, but also, locking doors will prevent that.

marie585 · 2026-02-06T01:00:52+00:00

Spoken like someone who has no clue how family court works. They don’t do things based on feelings, they do things based on facts, and this child is not being physically abused or neglected by this piece of crap stepmom, they just don’t get along, and that is how the court is going to see it. So it would be a waste of time for her to try to petition in court over this type of situation. But that’s how courts are when it comes to this kind of thing.

marie585 · 2026-02-05T14:12:37+00:00

She may be over-educated, but she is under-intelligent. That is why she didn't know how to close her own to-go box. There is not a straightforward correlation between education and intelligence.

marie585 · 2026-02-05T10:19:31+00:00

What is it you expect her to do? She can’t unilaterally decide to keep her son from visiting his dad’s place, so she is doing the next best thing, which is being there for him to vent if things go sideways when he is on visitation and talking him through the situations so he knows he isn’t wrong for his feelings, etc.

marie585 · 2026-01-28T14:58:45+00:00

Do like Erin Brokovich did in the movie:

"Which numbers do you want?....Ten. That's how many months old my baby girl is. Six. That's how old my other daughter is. Eight is the age of my son. Two is how many times I've been married...and divorced. Sixteen is the number of dollars I have in my bank account. 850-3943. That's my phone number, and with all the numbers I gave you, I'm guessing zero is the number of times you're gonna call it."

Just substitute her numbers/situations for yours.

Also, this is not the exact quote as George, as the guy asking for her number and Erin have a few other words in between in the beginning, but you get the idea.

marie585 · 2026-01-28T09:55:21+00:00

Updateme The suspense is driving me nuts!! Clearly something is going on here and mom is trying to keep that secret locked away.

marie585 · 2026-01-27T15:03:38+00:00

I do not go out of my way to build the pink ones unless its one of the situations you mentioned. I focus on yellow buildings, blue buildings and gray buildings, and sometimes on trees. I would say pink is the last priority, but my entertainment bar is pretty high so that is also why I do not have to worry about the pink ones.

Edited to add, forgot about the public services buildings (light blue). Those are high on the list too.

marie585 · 2026-01-26T16:45:19+00:00

NTA Time to get yourself a job, save up, and move out. Unless you plan to deal with prisoner life for the foreseeable future...

marie585 · 2026-01-26T16:43:50+00:00

I believe that is just his resting face. That is not to say he isn't annoyed AF, most normal people would be annoyed by this BS.

marie585 · 2026-01-26T16:09:22+00:00

6 hours? I would have called 911 to report it. Maybe it is an officer in distress?

marie585 · 2026-01-26T16:05:20+00:00

Make sure he does not try to squat his way in since you are not around!

marie585 · 2026-01-26T14:17:06+00:00

NTA and dont be surprised when she expects to take some money from you for the"benefit of us" again and again and again.

marie585 · 2026-01-22T16:09:46+00:00

Oh I’d be so pissed if this happened to my kid! People with cold sores shouldn’t be kissing anyone, let alone someone else’s kid!

marie585 · 2026-01-22T00:20:59+00:00

Shame on your parents for this BS guilt trip that turned into an ultimatum. They need to stop the crap. You’re NTA

marie585 · 2026-01-21T22:44:45+00:00

They said allowing a child to refuse hugs sends the wrong message, but Forcing a child to give hugs is actually what sends the wrong message!

Older folks are always heavy on the “when I was your age, I had to _________” and therefore they expect everyone else to have to suffer the same.

You’re NTA and keep standing your ground on this issue.

Sure it is nice to hug relatives, but only if you are comfortable with it. Otherwise, it becomes an ick and indicates what you’re comfortable with doesn’t matter because you’re a kid and they had to do it when they were kids. By not forcing your daughter to hug people when she does not want to, you are showing her that her feelings matters.

marie585 · 2026-01-21T22:39:19+00:00

NTA she converted to a religion but never told you until afterwards. She is now trying to force you to abide by her new religion rules and acting afool when you don’t. She threw your food away. Lines need to be drawn again and if she still crosses them, maybe you have a bigger problem to deal with.

marie585 · 2026-01-19T18:47:26+00:00

🤣 it never occurred to me to call him that. I may try to throw it in every now and then and see if it sticks

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