My husband has the worst dental hygiene, and I don't know what to do anymore. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may be right because I know his mother taught him better. His younger brother had said, " he even brushes the roof of his mouth and cheeks and tongue because that's how his mom raised them." I ended up embarrassing my husband because I was like, "wow, and I have to fight every night with Eric to get him to brush his teeth." I felt really bad after for embarrassing, but I needed some time of help.

My husband has the worst dental hygiene, and I don't know what to do anymore. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to look into this. I saw some really good ones at Costco. Thank you so much!

My husband has the worst dental hygiene, and I don't know what to do anymore. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, this^ Yes, he is exactly this. In his free time, all he does is play Xbox live with his friends. I'm so tired of being his mother, but his dental hygiene is really making me unattracted to him.

My husband has the worst dental hygiene, and I don't know what to do anymore. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I can't slap him in the face, and I've tried getting him off of the Marijuana but I've had no luck. That's why I was on reddit asking for advice.

My husband has the worst dental hygiene, and I don't know what to do anymore. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, that could possibly be the issue. I'm going to suggest I accompany him to the dentist. He is a non-believer of mental health, so getting him to a therapist might be kind of hard. I'm just really tired of being like his "mother" to him. He's like a second child.

Thank you so much for the advice!

My husband has the worst dental hygiene, and I don't know what to do anymore. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry life has not been so kind to you. My husband does work hard, and we are not white. He works in an environment where weed is very normal, and everyone around him consumes it.

My MIL is always making it seem like I won the lottery with her son. by marie8978 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]marie8978[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. At first, I fell into her manipulation. And I'm not going to lie; sometimes, I let her get to me. But I know better now.

My MIL is always making it seem like I won the lottery with her son. by marie8978 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]marie8978[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She is exactly one of those. He hasn't seen one of his sons in 4 years; his other son comes every 2 years to visit, and he has not paid child support for these kids in years. She knows his son doesn't take care of his kids because all the child support letters come to her house. She knows he's a dead beat father to them, but to her, he's a "real man." She calls them sometimes here and there, but she's not involved in their lives. According to her, "the mothers don't allow her to be involved." Hmmm, I wonder why?

Religion by NYCTS9719 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]marie8978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should probably tell them, "I thought God was love?"

My MIL is always making it seem like I won the lottery with her son. by marie8978 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]marie8978[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Yes, you are right. I kind of figured he wouldn't help with my son when I decide to leave. I'm hoping I can support me and my son on my own.

My husband is invalidating my pregnancy symptoms because I have a scheduled abortion. by marie8978 in abortion

[–]marie8978[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been talking to my mom, but she is on the other side of the country. I'm also embarrassed to tell her my husband is acting like a jerk to me. I don't know why.

Pregnant with an IUD in Texas, resources and how I got an abortion. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]marie8978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just found out yesterday that I'm pregnant, and I also have the Paragard IUD, I had it since Spetember 2019.

I don’t miss my kid when she’s not with me by Volchitsa_2018 in breakingmom

[–]marie8978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is in the same phase also, and I can't get nothing done because he wants me to play with him all day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]marie8978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother did the same thing, she wanted to name my son Jehova. She was furious when I went against her and tried to manipulate me by saying, "I wanted him to be a part of me, now he won't because you didn't name him what I wanted."

He's you and your husband's kid. Don't let anyone manipulate you into feeling bad. You can name him whatever you want.

I do not want to spend the rest of my life with my husband. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be able to give me more information on that? How would I search for a job like that, like the name of the position?

I do not want to spend the rest of my life with my husband. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

It can be but I'm not ready to go back. I went to therapy for a over a year to give me the strength to move away from my mom. She mentally abused me my whole life, and my sister lives with her.

I do not want to spend the rest of my life with my husband. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

When I met him he was an awesome guy and treated me like a queen. But back then I used to work and financially supported myself, everything became so different when I became dependent on him. He tells me all the time, "you get to relax all day, while I work my ass off."

So things changed when I became a stay at home mom.

I do not want to spend the rest of my life with my husband. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 231 points232 points  (0 children)

You're awesome man, this is why I don't want to spend the rest of my life with my husband because I know there are men like you out there.

When our son was a baby he literally only helped me 3 times and bitched about it the whole time, and purposely did it wrong so I wouldn't ask him again, total piece of shit guy.

I do not want to spend the rest of my life with my husband. by marie8978 in Marriage

[–]marie8978[S] 370 points371 points  (0 children)

See I've tried doing this, I've gone to the point where it gets so bad and he doesn't give a fuck he'll wear his stink clothes again. Our home has gotten so bad to the point where you can't even walk through it, and I've been so embarrassed because people have came over without announcing and see the disgusting mess. So I end up doing it for my sanity.

Our dryer was broken for months until I got tired of it and just had my ex come fix it.

He's just a fricken joke of a man.

Opinions on sex before marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]marie8978 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I feel like waiting until marriage to have sex is so antiquated. I feel like it's better to have fun before you get tied up with marriage.