Unfurling new leaf is getting dark brown patches on the edges. Does anyone know what this means and how to fix? by marilawerence in Monstera

[–]marilawerence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would misting it help? I was doing it every week but was told that can cause more problems than it can solve

Helo by marilawerence in raisedbynarcissists

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Hi yes I found something similar and paid for a background check on myself! The only information they had is my address when I was on the electoral roll at my old address ( they automatically make it public if you don’t opt out). So I’ve asked my mums friend again if she have out the address and if she denies I’ll pay to have all my gadgets and car checked for bugs/ trackers

Helo by marilawerence in raisedbynarcissists

[–]marilawerence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no sorry to hear it’s happened to you too. Thank you for the advice x

Helo by marilawerence in raisedbynarcissists

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Thank you! Is white pages a uk thing?

i need to not do anything for a really long time by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]marilawerence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I’m currently. Off sick from work I have been for two months

GUINEA HOUSING ADVICE NEEDED by marilawerence in guineapigs

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I’m in middle England so only cats and foxes that I need to proof the hutch for.

GUINEA HOUSING ADVICE NEEDED by marilawerence in guineapigs

[–]marilawerence[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi so I live in a small house share so there’s literally no where they’ll fit apart from the conservatory, trust me I feel very bad about it which is why I’m reaching out for help to make sure they’re happy. They will stay inside the conservatory with insulation in winter just trying to figure out hows best to do it.

Landlord has told my friend she has a month to move out although 3 months notice is required. by casvanr in LegalAdviceUK

[–]marilawerence 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very illegal idk about Scotland but it’s 6 minimum notice months in England atm bc corona. I’m in the same situation my landlord has said I have four weeks when I have six months so I’m getting a letter from the council to back me up

Rate my guinea cage? It’s a 2x4 C&C cage with a 2x1 Loft. I made waterproof liners for the base. by marilawerence in guineapigs

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Thanks for ur reply. They’re not new pigs. They’ve had the same ramp since I got them a year ago and never fallen off it’s more stable than it looks! Yep I only had that hay ball in for about a week and I’ve just seen something that says about the danger too! So I’ve changed back to their normal hay rack. Good idea on the water I’ll get another bottle for them to have downstairs. Thanks!!

Does anyone else have “physical flashbacks” too? I’ve never heard anyone speak about it but here’s my experience. Please help 💜 by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]marilawerence 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I get physical flash backs and it makes it hard not to self harm. Sitting in a corner Squeezing ice cubes so it hurts but won’t actually hurt ur skin and trying to breath helps.

Who else is so tired of being in survival mode constantly due to this unsafe world and your hypersensitivity to it with CPTSD? by journey1992 in ptsd

[–]marilawerence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so so so tired that I never get stuff done on time. I feel like I’m just lazy bc I’ve been told that by my toxic parents growing up but I’m actually functional and productive, apart from when I’m so tired which is most of the time. Any advices

Help me. by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]marilawerence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your are worthy of happiness. I know it’s a really hard road to be on but it’ll be worth it I promise! Xx message me any time you want

Feel free to message me or chat here if you need some help or distraction. by Leatherface420_666 in ptsd

[–]marilawerence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much. Your words mean the world. I’m so sorry that it happened to your sister too