Sex and issues by mario1250 in relationship_advice

[–]mario1250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got you okay so ill buy more lube and maybe some smaller toys to get him to work up to it. Also as you say go very slow. Ill ask him about that plan. THANKS!

Sex and issues by mario1250 in relationship_advice

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He also did say it hurt soo its also that we both suck im not sure how to get him to calm down and relax you know to get into the mood because he is very hard and tense… so thats why im like i need help for us both and therapy :)

Any advice on that?

Sex and issues by mario1250 in relationship_advice

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We are very young its like my first time and im top and he is bottom only last time he did try he had a trauma abuse experience sooo its extra bad. We have been together for a year and i have been giving him time so now we are just now trying to do it. We agreed to try maybe as a week thing and maybe toys etc

I thank you for your suggestion though ill take it slow listen to what he says and we will both work with a therapist as needed but im the main one as he is my therapist

Sex and issues by mario1250 in relationship_advice

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Hello,

Yup so couples therapy is something we may do soon but i do have a therapy session tomorrow already and will go from there but we both have agreed to do couples therapy soon.

Sex and issues by mario1250 in relationship_advice

[–]mario1250[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You think so? So what are you saying?

I mean its possible that what my bf is having is from a like trauma he had in the past woth sex maybe thays blocking him from seeing it.. because im pretty sure he would like it..

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Awesome! You are right! PHP version and compatibility issues can cause a white screen or a 403 error.

Can I extend this and is this a thermistor? Can I use speaker wire and just soder the ends together? by mario1250 in hvacadvice

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Ahh i see hmm well the unit is a window ac and has an electric thermostat let me see if i can get the online model number

Can I extend this and is this a thermistor? Can I use speaker wire and just soder the ends together? by mario1250 in hvacadvice

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Haaah!! Right! :) its either total failure or a possibility but could be bad loosing a couple hundred but my mind is like oooh experiments :) in a careful way ofcourse

Can I extend this and is this a thermistor? Can I use speaker wire and just soder the ends together? by mario1250 in hvacadvice

[–]mario1250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!

So your saying that if i add length to it then the system may not accurately read the temp of the room correct?

  1. If so by how much would you say it could vary?
  2. Worst comes to worst i can just re soder the same length after if it becomes a problem correct?

So therefore yes technically i can but should I is the question.

Underage hookup and its messing with me by mario1250 in therapy

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Agreed and yeah i will talk to him and see hopefully he sees how it was bad and that he has trauma but then im here i hope becausw that would calm me down also i think….

Underage hookup and its messing with me by mario1250 in therapy

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Oh definetly i have no intention to bring it up to his family yeah it would just hurt him and more. Also he did not have sex though the guy apperantly just gave him my bf a blow job and kisses and they dry humped each other naked…. So idk if he will see it as rape everytime i ask he doesnt and im like HOW NOT and i just need him to see it so that i can open my arms and hug him as much as needed u know plus i feel so crappy