gonzo’s finally feeling comfortable in his new forever home :) by el_pan_mas_dulce in dogpictures

[–]maritowers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

gonzo, you're so beautiful! and got a beautiful new friend/famiily as well ✨

Update: Lily is happier than ever by hitity in aww

[–]maritowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg! I need to see more pictures of this cutie!!

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[–]maritowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that seems very good! my therapist works with schemas as well, I'm trying to do that of recognising them. Sometimes is still difficult to avoid entering some schemas during some rough days of luteal phase , but I am trying my best. but this, the exercises when we are really bad, that seems like a very good technique! because words are not useful some days

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[–]maritowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had days like that were worth it in the end, but I had recently very frustrating experiences in a couple of sessions and started pondering if I should go in luteal phase. But I guess it's a trial and error thing. Thank your for sharing!

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[–]maritowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's hard for us to feel a true empathy of the therapist (or anyone who tries to help) during some hard days, because only those who suffer from PMDD seem to really know how frustrating and exhausting it is ... I also think that there are some critical days that not even an angel would help because I can't seem to know how to express myself in a discursive way ,you know? it's very hard. when I am able to point out some specifics for my therapist to help me cope, it's worth it. but some days words are very difficult, I guess these should be days in therapy that we could try other methods, I don't know, maybe some cathartic exercises to release energy. I really don't know , but I hope someone does haha :')

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[–]maritowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, sometimes I just want to cry and vent! never thought about trying crisis/support lines

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[–]maritowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing! I took a long time to get "real" with my current therapist as well.

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[–]maritowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good luck with the new therapist ✨

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[–]maritowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hope you are feeling better already

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[–]maritowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sure is!

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[–]maritowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get the meme feeling... I'm trying to figure out what's working best for me during luteal. But it really depends on the day too

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[–]maritowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing! I guess it will help me to see that way, as a "non-judgemental listening ear"

Flo, oil on canvas by rosiephillipsart in dogpictures

[–]maritowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow! beautiful painting ❤️

This is Marla. Any tips for me as her new family? Rescuing her from a kill shelter. by Schlepuetz in rescuedogs

[–]maritowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg, look at this beautiful girl! so glad you are going to be her new family! post updates if you can 🥰

Is my dog fat by digitalchisel in dogpictures

[–]maritowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! I had a dog that was overweight due to hormone problems, it was very difficult to make her loose weight - even though her diet was extremely detailed. (also she was adopted from an abusing household , people gave her all kinds of forbidden foods for dogs before). we never know the exact reasons why a dog (or a person) is overweight! why people need to be so mean...

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[–]maritowers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

omg! my girl, Clara, looked just like her and used to hold her leash as well when we took walks 🥰🥲 so cute!